花镇情感咨询靠谱吗？两招教你对抗男人心灰意冷

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zheijianshiqingyizhixiangyigenciyiyangchazaiwodexiongkou，gesanchawuyintong。

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答：

woshifenlejienideniantou，niyidingyouyunanyoupiandeni，yinci zaochengleyizhong“yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng”dejuede。

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shiwotaiaita，rangtayougongzuoyalilemeiyou?

车老师你好：

 guanxinninhaozhangshijianle，weixingongzhonghaodewenzhangneirongwomeizhangdoukanle。yeshikeliuyizhezishenhenvyoudejiaowang，danwocongweixiangguo，youyitianyehuixiangninqiuzhu。

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rujinwozenmelianxitayebuhuiying，shiwodesinianjiletaguoduogongzuoyalima?

答：

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worenwei，nibingmeiyouhaohaodihenvyougoutongjiaoliuguotadeqingganyaoqiu，gengweihulveletadetihui，juyigebudadeshili：

shijishang，meiyigerenkandaizhengchaodexintaidoubuyiyang，youxierenganjuezhengchaosunhaiqinggan。

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wobenlaishilaorenyanlizuiheshiqudenvxing，weihetabudongzhenxi?

车老师你好：

helaogongjiehunshinian，youyigewusuideguinv。womendoushixiangqinyuehuilejiede，xianghudoulingrenmanyi。

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dajiajiaowangdeshijianquzhikeshu，fuqiganqingyechuxianlefeichangdadeliefeng。

 qianjiritagenwotiaoming，tayijianshizaoyimeiyouganqingle，ganjueyuwojiaowangfawei。tashuodaowomeirizongshiweizhujiazhuan，jiehunleyebuzhidaochuanzhedaban，haibiyiqianzhangpanglexuduo 。