花镇情感咨询靠谱吗？恋爱中你为什么总没有安全感？

xuduo nvhaijinqidougenwoshuo，huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？zailianaizhong，woyizhiganjuequefaanquangan，zenmebanni?

guiju，dajiaxianxiangxijieshaoyigeyouguandexinlixuexiaoying—mandelaxiaoying。

 erlingyisannianmandelaqushidexinwenfabuhuiyihou，shijiegeguoderenchajuezijiduimandeladejiyilichuxianlecuoluan—nandaoshuomandelabingbushizaoyiguoshima?

 congsiwangshijiandaosiyindouchuxianlebuyiyangdejiyili，henduohuxiangxiangyuderenzhuiyichengzishenkanleliunianmandeladeyingpian，baohanyingpiandexingmingheneirongdoudatiyizhi，shubuzhizheiyibudianyingcongmeigongying，naizhicongmeipaisheguo。

zheileizhuangkuangyiqianyouyu"duishieryongyoubuzhengquedeyinxiang"erzhuming。

 tongyang，yeyoujinyongwuxia、luobote·nashen、maerkesi，henduorendourenweitamenzaoyibianchenglishishijian，keshitamenjurandouaoguole2012。

 congshehuixinlixueshijiaoshuo，mandelaxingmanshifangshidezhimingdubingbuxiangrujinneimeheheyouming，bingqieneishihoudedajiayebingbuhuiguanzhuzheiban，yinci xingmanshifangdeyinglaihuizebeibuzhengquedelejieweisangli，bingqiezaipenyouqinpenghaoyouxianghuzhijiankankanertandeqingkuangxiazheileibuzhengquedejiyililianjiebeidalijiaqiangzaocheng lerujindebuzhengquelejie。

 suoyishuo，rendejiyitongchangshifenbukaopu，youyurenmendejiyilibujinshiduiyiwangexingshijiandezhanxian，daliangdeshiduirenmenzhuguanxingderenzhinengli，beibierengaozhidewangrijiqitamensuojianxindezongshu。

 xuduo qingkuangxia，nidejiyiliquanshibuzhengquede，kuadaqicide，naizhixubaode。huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？bingqie，niduiyijianshizhuiyideyueda，tongchangzheiyiduanjiyilijiuhuiyuelaiyueyuebujingzhun：tadaliangdibianchenglenidezhuguanxingrenzhinengli，eryibushiyouguanjutichanshengguodewangri。

 fangjinnanyoudedeshenshang，xuduo nimenxiangchudeqingkuangxiachanshengdeshieryehuibeinishucishengchanjiagong，zaochengyixiechuxianpianchadeyuanyin。yuanbenshitayuyixingpengyoudejianyichupeng，zaininaozhongjiuhuibianweitawaiyudezhenxiang。

 xuduo rendaodanshendeqingkuangxia，benlaiguodefeichanghao，hepenyoujiaowangdehenhemu。yichuduixiang，jiuquefaanquangan，yuelaiyuexiangsansuihaizi，meiyouzishen，yuelaiyuehusiluanxiang、caiyi、yishenyigui，yaoxiangsuishisuidibawolingyifangdedongtaixinghezhuangkuang，henbunengyitianershisixiaoshinianzhelingyifang。danshi，dajiaqueshiyaodeshiguishuganma?

实际上并不是，没有安全感的人，实际上真实欠缺的是爱和信任感。

xuduo qingkuangxia，shiyouyujiushinizishenxianyongyouyaoxiangliqulingyifangdeniantou，yinci caihuiquefaanquangan。

 quefaanquanganderen，zaiqianyishizhongliduizhangqixingbaochiqinmiwujiandelianaiguanxishiquefazixinde。zailianaizhong，tamenmeiyouanquangan，danxinbeiyiqi，danxinfuzeren、shaobushihe，yiyoufenqijiudanyoulingyifanghuiliquzishen，chengdanbushanglingyifangliquzishendetongchuhebuquedingxing，yinci yibanhuijijitizaojieshulezheiyiduanguanlian、xianliqulingyifang。

lingwai，tamenyeshifenqide，jixiangliqulingyifangxunzhaoanquanxing，youbuyuanlingyifangliquta。

 zailianaiguanxizhong，changchangdanyoubeipaoqideren，taneixinshenchuyuanbenbianshibuzhongshide，zheileibuzhongshizhuyaobiaoxianzai，haiduibierenyouxiangxiang，duiwaibudeyinyouannaibuzhu，dangpengdaogengqiangbiaozhunderen，gengqiangtiaoxuandeqingkuangxia，jiuhuiguoduansheqimuqiandeqinggan。

 zheileimeiyouanquanganhuizaocheng taduizishenbuzhongshi，tayebuganxiangxintarenhuiduizishenzhongshi，meiyicijiejuenantidouhenxiaochen，xiaojihejiduanhua。yichuxianfenqi，jiuhuixiangqizuihuaidejieguo，erbushixiangbanfaquchulicunzaidebuzu。

我的学生毛毛雨便是遇到过这类状况。

 yinweitayizhiguanxinnanhaizijiujingzaiganma，jinguantanlehenduoyue，nanhaizirengranmeiyourangnvhaijuededaozuijichudexinrengan，guohouzaisuonanmianhuiyouyuzheijianshiqingzhengchao，nvhaihuicaiyinanhaizishifouchuguile，shifouwaibianyouxierenle，keshijiarunanhaizishiqingzhengdehua，jiuhuijuedezishenbubeijianxin，jiufeichangrongyiqijibaihuai，lianggerenyiqizhixiajiumaixiangtichufenshou。