花镇情感咨询靠谱吗？利用好这些聊天“妙招”

 huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？zaihulianwangjishujiweifazhandejinri，heyigerenkaizhanliaotian，zaoyibaituoleyuanxiandexinjiangoutongjiaoliu，yaoxiangheaiderenshuoshanghua，liaolaotianyechengbenfeizhenshibubitaijianyi，nandeshiruheliao。

xuduo nvhaigangtaruliaotiandezheiyijieduan，jiubaganqingdexiaonenyejiliaoqushile。

jinrijiugendahuoercongsangecengmianlailiaoyiliao，zenyangliyongliaotian，“liao”denanrendexin。

一、充分准备篇

1)暗中观察

 shoujiweixinzuoweidajiakaizhanshejiaomeitixiaohaozhandeguanjianjingjichang，gezhepingmuwomenkeyimingmuzhangdanzailingyifangdepenyouquanzhongshoujiquanbunixuyaoxiedaijingjichangyixielingyifangqingkuangcailiao。

 biru：gerenaihao、shierxingzuo、xiaideyingpian、pingchangdouxihuanchishenmezheixie，bazheizhongcailiaodoucunkuanqilai，yiyingzhanjinhouliaotianzhongzuoweidajiadehuatideliangshi。

2)提高信心

zhibizhijihou，jiuxuyaoweizijichuangjianyigeleguandexintaizuoweizhichengdian。

 xuduo nvhaizaimeiyouchuangjianxinlizhuangtaishi，cuobaigongzuonenglihencha，henrongyiyouyujiaolvbuanershuoshuocuo、huoshibuqingchuliaoshenme、zaocheng husiluanxiangde，huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？daozuizhongdoumeiyoujilingyifangfenpeigaoqingchu。

 congxinlijiubazijifenpeizaiyigeyixingpengyoudebuweishang，zaiqianyishizhonglihenrongyijiuhuidulilagaolingyifangzainixinlideshiyongjiazhi，zheiyeshizaocheng nihusiluanxiang，ziluanzhenjiaodeguanjianyuangu。

3)呈现自身的亮点

jiarunifenhaomeiyoujilingyifangliuyouyiqieyinxiang，lingyifangyehuiduinidetishikuangmeishenmexingquaihaode。

huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？shoujiweixinzuoweidajiadezhuzhendi，neimaweixinpengyouquanbianshizhanxianzishenzhengtishilidediqu。

yinci shidudezaiweixinpengyouquanzhanxianzishendeliangdian，yeshizaoqizhunbeigongzuozhiyi。

banidemeilizhaodouchuanchulai，jiarumeifubuzuneimejiuptulaicou，jilaobubipdeguofena!yaoburanzhiyoudebuchangshi!

二、进攻方法篇

1)互动交流聊天法

 yixiehenrongyibatianliaosidenvhaimen，zaiqizhongfeichangdayigeyuangubianshiliaotiandeneirongtaiguokuzaofawei，jichuhelingyifangmeiyouhendaguanlianhuoshiyizhiyixiewuguanjinyaodehuati。

 liru：“zheigecanguanzhenhaochi”“jintiandetianqitingbucuo”“wojintianchidaole”zheixie。neiyangdehuatiliaoduole，nimeifajuetadexinxihuiyulaiyuhuanman，yuelaiyuedima?

 qiadangdeliaotianzitaiyinggaishiyi“hudongjiaoliu”fangshilaikaizhande，bianshiliaolingyifanghenganxingqudehuati，zuoweitupokoucaisuanshiqiadangde。

 keyiyouxiaobahuatijinxingde，yidingshihelingyifanghezishenyougaokuanbiyouguandeyixiehuati，biru：“kanzheniweixinpengyouquan，nizaixxyongcana，wocengzhunbeixiayiciheguimiqude，neibiandetesecaishishaa?”

 “jintiandetianqifeichanghao，kanzhenixiaidalanqiu，jintiantianqihenheshidalanqiuei!”“zuowanshuanizhiqianxiangxijieshaodeyingpian，shuachuwangjileshijian，jintianshangbanjiuchidaole...”

neiyangcaikeyiranglingyifangyunihudongjiaoliuqilai，niquanburendepinpaixingxiangzailingyifangxinliyehuijianjiandilitishiqilai。

2)灵羽聊天法

chukaiyaohelingyifanghudongjiaoliuyiwai，yeyaojilingyifangshengchanzhizaoyizhong，xinlizhuangtaishangdeguishugan。

 liruzhangwolingyifangaihaozhuanzhangyihou，keyishengchanzhizaoyixiedajiazhongjiancaiyoudexianghuchu，liuyilingyifangzaiweixinpengyouquangongxiangdeyixieyinle、shuben、huoshoujiyouxideng。

suihoubujingyidezhuangkuangxiahelingyifangshuo：“gongxiangniyigewofeichangaihaodegexing，tadegejiezouchaozandeei!”

 shijishangzheigejiushinijiandaolingyifangweixinpengyouquangongxiangdeyinlehou，zhixiangqujiansuogexing，suihouzaizhihouwuyijiandeshenghuoli，teyifasongjitade。

neiyangzuohenrongyizailingyifangneixinzhongxiayikelingyuguishugandezhongzi，henrongyiduinizaochenghaogandu。

三、带到情况篇

1)持续话题

huazhenqingganzixunkaopuma？xiabiandajiajiueryanyixiaruheliyongdajiadejiaohuxingdadaozuijiazhuangtai，youzhexianghuhuati。

xianghuhuati，shiyijudajiahutongxingtuokuande。

jianyieryanbianshi，zailingyifangyunihuatikaiqiyihou，nixuyaoxuehaochixuhuati。

 liruzhiqiandajiashuodao，shitaxiangxijieshaotesecai，xiayicijiubaquchitaxiangxijieshaodetesecaixiangpianfasongjita，bingjitamenxiangxijieshaoyixienichiqilaihenfeichanghaodecaixiangxijieshaojilingyifang，yicilaichixuzhiqiandehuati。

neiyanghuiranglingyifangjuede，nihenzaiyitaxiaideyixiewupin，jitamenyizhongdajiahennuanweidehuanjue。

2)rangnizaitaxinlibianweiyizhong“guanxingli”

qianwanbiesantiandayusantiandayudequhelingyifangliaotian，yaoxuehaorangzishenbianchenglingyifangdeyizhongguanxingli。

 ninengmeirizaitakuaishuijuedeshihou，hetakaizhanliaotian，youyukuaishuijuedeshihoushilingyifangyitiannaozhongzuishifangyalideqingkuangxia，yeshijijiangrumiandeqingkuangxia，zheigeshihouhenzhongyao。

youyuzuoweitayitianzhongzuihouyigehudongjiaoliuzhe，dajiayidinghuihudaowananhaomeng。

wananhaomengshiyigeshifennuanweidewenhouyuhui，youyujinyouhuyouhaogan，huoshishifenzhongyaoderen，caihuihudaowananhaomeng。

 jiarunimeirizheiyishijianchuxian，helingyifangliaoyixiemeirichanshengdeshier，youqudehuati，zuizhongzaihudaowananhaomeng，henrongyiranglingyifangjiangnihebierenchabieqilai。

bingguanxinglijuedemeiribixuyuniliaoshangyiliangjucaihuiqushuxinderushui。

 neiyangdeqingkuangxiahelingyifangliaoxialai，jiaruninayitianhuranbuzhaotale，tajiuhuizaochengzaodongbuan，zaixunzhaoguishugandebennengfanyingposhixia，tayehuijijiyuenide!