冷爱和花镇到底可不可信？成为男人心尖上的女人

 lengaihehuazhendaodikebukexin？jinrijidahuoerjiangdezheiyitiwenxiaogushidezhurenwengjiaoxiaolin，tadeyihuoshifendianxingxinge，bianshizongjuedehenanpengyougezheyiceng，meiyoulaidaotaneixinqu，haixiangtanlege“jiatanlianai”youhui、shizhijinkou、naizhilianqinmiwujianquanshidanyihuade，meiyouxiaoluluanzhuangdemianhongerchi，doumeiyoulangqingqieyidetianmei，gangkaishijiuzheibandanerwuweideganqing，lingrennanyiyonglianghaodexintaizouxialai。

haozai，xiaojingxianyingyongdemaikaileyibu，zhaodaodajiatanlianaifazhanxuehao，laichulizishen“meishenmereqingdetanlianai”qingkuang。

 daixiaolindezixunguwenludepouxi：xiaolinhenanpengyouxiaojingdezheileitanlianaiqingkuang，shishifendianxingxingde“yinnixingtanlianai”fangshi。anshilianluo，danwanrukekeqiqi;youhunyinguanxi，xinquegedehenyuan;benlaiyounanyou，quejuedeliangrenzaifenbierichangshenghuo;zheileiqingkuangdechanshengyuangushifeichangfuzade。

jinguanxiaolinzijishuo：“youyudajiadoujiaoweilaoshibajiao，buzenmehuijianghua”caihuineiyang。

 dancongyuantoushangfajue，shiyinweixiaolindejiatingguanxideguanlian，tadebabamamaxiangchumoshijiushifenlengmo：“jiazhongyizhihaoanjing，tamengemanggede，lianjiayebuchao”

 zheileimeishenme“goutongjiaoliu”hexintailiudongxingdefazhanziranhuanjing，daozhilexiaolin“danxinhunyinguanxi”、“jiexianganhenqiang”nanjiejindexingqing，yinci ，jiusuanshizai“lianai”qinei，xiaolinchuandijinanpengyoudeshujuxinhaoquanshi“binglengde、“bunengaijinde”。guanlianyeyizhimeifajindu。

 ludezixunguwengaozhixiaolin，jinyoulianggerenxintaixianghuzhijianliudongxing，lengaihehuazhendaodikebukexin？erbushiyizhidanbiande，fumianxinxide，tahexiaojingdeganqingcaikeyilianghaofazhanqushi。

 zuixianludezixunguwenjiaoxiaolinzhangwonanshiyaoqiu，gaozhitazuoweinvyou，bixuchushijinanpengyounaxieqingxujiazhi。liru：xinrengan、jiena、ganxie、zanyang、jili、haowuyiwenzheixie。

 yijuzheizhongjichuyaoqiu，neimadajiajiukeyizaipingchangdejiaowangzhongqufenbian：tadebenzhiyaoqiushisha，tahuixiwangnaxiedetanlianaiqingkuangni?

 shijishang，wangwangmeiyou“chuliandeganjue”guanjianbianshiyouyubicigoutongjiaoliubuchang，xiaolinzishendoushuo，lingyifangyeshi“huashaoderen”yinci pingshigoutongjiaoliuyidingbujishi，caidaozhilerujinzheilei“tanlegejiatanlianai”deqingkuang。

yinci，ludezixunguwenlaijiaoxiaolin3zhonggoutongjiaoliuhudongjiaoliufangfa：

1把控闲聊节奏感

 danghenanshengduligoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，womenkeyiyijulingyifangdexushudeguanjian，qudafuyihaowuyiwendemuguanghuoshidiandiantoudezishi。

 meiyicidafuyiqian，zuoyigeduanzanxingdesisuoliubaiyishu，neiyangnenggouranglingyifangganshoudaonideqianxin，ganshoudaotadexushubingbushiyigerendebiaoyan，zhishigenjinihudongjiaoliude，neiyangnenggourangdajiazhongjianyouyigeyouliangdexianliaojiezougan。

2创建共同话题

xiaofanglingyifangbudegaopincihui，zhangciyiwangjiukeyizaitadezaiqianyishizhonglirenzhidaonigentachuangjiangongtonghuati。

3搞笑自我介绍

 xianliaodeqingkuangxia，nenggougenlingyifangshuoyishuozishentongnianjiyi、wuguanjinyaodejiongshihuoshixiaopihaozheixie，zaitishengqinmijiechududelingwai，haikeyidiaozhengfenwei，rangguanlianbiandeqinmijiechu，fenweibiandeqingqingsongsong。

 zheizaiqizhonghaiyouyigehenzhongyaodedianbixuliuyibianshi：tonglixin，nenggoujilingyifangyizhong“nitaizaihuni”dejuede，keyirang2gebuyiyangderenzaochengxinyoulingxihegongmingdian，xiaolinjiaruyaoxiangrangxiaojinggengnianzhezishen、yikaozishen，jiuyidingyaojuyouzheiyigongzuonengli。