花镇情感官网之怎样选择人生伴侣？

 aboshisha?weixinyueduzheji，beikaoyixiaabojichulilun。huazhenqingganguanwangshuodaorendegongzuonenglifenshengfu、yunshiyounishun，siweiheduicedoushihuibansuizheyanjieyujingyugenggai。danmeiyigerendoushiyouyigebenzhide“he”，zheiyi“hexin”bunenggenggai，zhengqueyindaozherenzuochudemeiyigetiaoxuan。jiaruzaoshoujingkuangdeweihai，meifayanzhezishende“hexin”fangweifazhanqushi，jinguanyeshiyouhenyoukenengguodefeichanghao，danxinliyizhihuitongchu。zheiyi“hexin”，yejiushishuo“xingqing”，shi“nishisheiya”dezuizhonghuida。

rende“hexin”fensanzhong，alpha、beta、heomega。

alpha：yizhongbenrenxinniangaoyuyiqiedexingqing

zheileixingqingyoulianggenjiaoda degangxingxuqiu：

我想作主。

你需要重视我。

beta：yizhongbixuguishugandexingqing

zheileixingqingyoulianggengangxingxuqiu：

woxiangpingwenderichangshenghuo。

我想大量的权益。

omega：yizhongzhuiqiuwanmeixinlihemudexingqing

zheileixingqingyoulianggengangxingxuqiu：

我想维护内心深处。

woxiangjindaorongxuwoweichibenxingdeziranhuanjing。

爱情的定义

huazhenqingganguanwang，dajiadouzhidao，tanxinjizhangqixingbutanaiqing。zhenzhengdeaiqingyijiantanbuqingdeshier。

xuduo renkoushuliangzhongdeganqing，shi、panyuan、dadong、zhitu、taobizerenzhuduozhiniandedazahui。

xuduo renjuedeganqingjubeigaoyuyiqiedeshiyongjiazhi，lingwaimenkanqidi，sheidounengsuibiancongzheidangzhongdedao zheileishiyongjiazhi。

 kanbuqingchuyijianshiqing，jiujichubulaipingwenyouxiaodexintai。nvxingpengyoumentongchangkandeguozhong，nantongbaoyouguoduqingjian，zheierzhongxintaixianghudaoxiangxingbeiju。

baganqingdangzuoganqingzishen，nanyixunzhaoqiadanggousi，ruluxunxianshengsuoyan：renbirichangshenghuozhe，ganqingcaiyouyidingdefuli。

zhenzhengdeaiqingrenshengdaoludeyibufen，yaobatafangdaorenshengdaolujianghezhongtaolun。

zhenzhengdeaiqingfangshi，nibunengbatazuoweimudi。

zaiwomentaolunganqingdeqingkuangxia，dajiataolundeshirenshengdaoluairen，shiziwojiazhi，shibicichengjiu。

buweirenzhi，ganqingsuishifanyuchongdongdefushu，danzhikanzheigefangwei，quebuyidingkeyixingfukuaile。

 nianqingshi，dajiadouhuibeibennengfanyingheshehuiyingxiang，gengzhongshiyigerende“youcikejianshiyongjiazhi”，nvxingquzhaofuyoude，nanxingquzhaohaokande。

tashiweishengwudebenxing，tameiyoucuo，dantadaoxiangxingnenggougenghaodichuanzongjiedai，erbushiziwojiazhi。

renleifazhanshidemeiyicifazhanqushi，quanshichixutuolixiaodongwutexingdequanguocheng。

 zuihaoshiderenmen，shitaoliyichuanjiyinyumoyin(bianyusanbodewenhuayishuyinsu)caozong，youziyouyizhiqudongqi，chaoguopianjizishendeneiyizhong。

fanzhishijieguo，nibunengbatazuoweizhuguanyinsu。

zhenshidexingfujiushiziwojiazhi，zaizheigequanguochengzhong，nixuyaoyiweilianrendexiezhu。

 youyizhongshiyongjiazhi，bingbubaohanzailingyifangdetiaojianli，tashiyoulianggerenzhongjiandejingshenshizhiqiehezaojiude。tashiyizhong“buyoucikejianshiyongjiazhi”。

zheileishiyongjiazhijinyouzhaoduirenshi，caikeyixianghuzhijianjiqi。

congzheiyijiaoduguancha，yiqiejiuhenqingchule——keyishiniderenshengdaoluwangshangdeguanlian，caisuanshiyiduanqudechenggongdeguanlian。

neiyangdeguanliannengjiqinibianchenghenyoukenengfanchouneizuihaoshidenagezishen。

ABO的找对象

 zaiyiqiandeaboqudechenggongjindaozhong，wojiangguonizenyangbianbienishisheiya。youhenduopenyoujuyifansan，xianchangdianchuleabozhaoduixiangshoucedejutineirong。

zheiyiguanjianbijiaojiandan：azhaoo，bzhaob。

jiuzheiyijuhua，meiyoule。

danneiyangbingbukeyishidahuoershenkelinghui，suoyiwozhunbeironghedahuoerzanbujuekoude《zhenhuanchuan》，jinxingjiangxiaweihe。

 《zhenhuanchuan》zaizhongguowenxueshishangdeyingxiangli，yaoyuanxiaoyu《jiaofu》，danliangtaizhuzuoyoujiqigongtongzhichu：zaijingcaifenchengxinidequnxiangmiaohuizhong，meiyigerenderichangshenghuomaixiangdouyouliyouju。

 jiarushuo《jiaofu》yi“moulve”depichengxianlealphadechengzhangshi，《zhenhuanchuan》bianshiyi“yanqingxiaoshuo”depichengxianlealphadejuexingshi。

cong《zhenhuanchuan》zhonggeshigeyangzhuduojiaose，nengqingchujiandaoabodezhaoduixiangfangwei。

weimianpangyixiechu，wenzhongyixiaoshuojihedianshilianxujuronghejinxing，butanzhenzhenglishishijian。

ABO的感情喜好

Alpha

ruguonishiyigealpha，nizuihaodeairentiaoxuanshijishangshiomega。

danzheiyidian，alphamennianqingdeshihoubuyidingnenggaoqingchu。

zuoweialpha，jiarunitanguojihuimangmugenfengdetanlianai，niyidingsikaoguozishen。

 “wodexingziweiheneimechou?wozenmebukeyizaisuoshishangshihuaihetaren?dajiadouxianglaiding，nandaoshuoyaowujiezhidichaoxialai?quanshijieshibushicunyoukendingdezhongshi?”

zaiganqingzhong，nijingchangbukeyizhuyaobiaoxian“zhenshiziwo”，youyunifajuetarentongchangaidebushinide“zhenshiziwo”。

yaoshizhuiyiyixiaalphazuizhongyaodeerzhonggangxingxuqiu，jiufeichangrongyifenbiankunaojiujingshicongnalierlaideni?。

我想作主。

你需要重视我。

 diyitiaoshiniyulingyigealphazhongjiandeguanlianquxiangjiaolvbuan。youyuyiduanguanlianzhong，juenanbaozhenglianggerenwanquanyizhi。jianyimaodunshi，zhiyouyouyigerenzuozhu，lingyigerenzhuisui。

tashiyizhonglingheboyi：yigerendeyukuaiyaoyilingyigerendebushufuweichengben。

yishanburongerhu，aazuchengchufeishiyouwanmeidexianghuzongtimubiao，buranzaiyiqibianshiyongwuzhijindedouzheng。

 diertiaoshiniyubetazhongjiandeguanlianyizhinanyishencengci。youyubetazhuiqiuwanmeideguishugan，chuangjianzaijichengshishishang。nimeizaojiushi，tamenbishini“qiongyeyouxingzi”。nizaojiuyihou，tamenaideshinideshenshangdequanyi。

alphadexinqieryouduoda?“shuoaiwojiudeaiwodequanbu，baohanwodegaoyaokuqiuyi。”

aizhenideyoucikejianshiyongjiazhisuanbushangzhenzhengdeaiqing，liandaoniyishendexingziwentiyiqiai，caisuanshizhenzhengdeaiqing。

zheiguidingshijishanghenjiannan，jinyouomeganengsuibianbaozheng。

 omegakanqilairouruo，busijinqu，quepianyaoyoubenshijieshouni、gulini、pingfunidexintaichaojiheidong，shinizoudegenggengjiayuan，jinershitazishenyehuodexingfudeshenghuo。