花镇官网：如何做到喜欢一个人？

huazhenguanwangtixingyixienvhaigenwotaolunshuo，ganqinghaokanduolefandaohuirangtamenyulaiyumengbi。

liru，youyigebeixuduo ganqingshishangbozhutaolunguodezhongyaohuatitaolun，chengwei“xuqiugan”。

younvhaishuo，kanguozheimeduowenzhangneirong，wohaiyunle。

youxierenyaoshuo，pengdaoxiaidenanrenjiuxuyaojijifaxinxi，haoshitaduiniyinxianggengjiashenruyidian;

danyehuiduinishuo，bubiyizhijijijinanrenfaxinxi，yaoburongyikanqilaini“xuqiugan”hengao。

youxierenyaoshuo，nanrenyuenideqingkuangxianiyinggaijianmian，yaoburantazongshiyuebushangnixunsubianhuicuobai，suihoujianjuehuanbieren;

danyehuiduinishuo，nanrenyuenibuyaotaikuaitongyita，yaobuyehuikanqilaini“xuqiugan”hengao。

youxierenyaoshuo，gaizhitijiechudeqingkuangxiabiesong，nvxingjiuxuyaohuitiaodou，huishifangxingganmirenfengcaicaikeyirangnanrenchimi;

 danyehuiduinishuo，biechuanzhedabandetaixingganyouren，gengtaisuibianshitachuyudaoni，buranninengkanqilaihen“qingfu”，nide“xuqiugan”jiufeichanggaole……

 ziran，yehuiyixiewenzhangfabiaochushishijideshijicaozuofangfarangni，henyoukenenghuishijidaoniyinggaijirijijifayitiaoxinxijinanren，nanrenyuenijihuinicaikeyitongyi，jiqidijicipengmiannenggoushizhijinkou，zaiyiqiduozhangshijiannenggouqinwenzheixie，yankedijini“jianshaoxuqiugan”zhucengjiandu。

 keshi，youyouhenduonvhaibiaoming，bazheizhongjutibuzhoushengbanyingtaodaoyouhuizhong，fandaojuedegengchale，huazhenguanwangtixingbenlaihainenghenanhaizihaohaodixialiaotian，rujinfajuehuayebuhuijiangguo，shouyebuzhidaofangnalile，zuoyigexiaobiaoqingdoumeineimadangranle……

quanburendouyouyujiaolvbuanhebuzhisuozhongerkanqilaigenggaoxiaole。

 huoshiyeyouxierenshuo，tamenweilegenghaodifangzhizishen“xuqiugantaiqiang”，gancuijiuduinanrenailibuli，renweineiyangbianhuirangzishen“meiyouxuqiugan”le。

 jieguofajue，xuqiuganfangfoqueshishimeiyoule，youyueganyemeiyoule—liangsancibuhuixiaoxibujianmianyihou，nanrenjiubatamenwangjile。

它是必定的。

youyudabufenrenyemeiyounongqingchu，jiujingshenmejiao“xuqiugan”，weihenide“xuqiugan”huineimagao。

男人会一眼看穿你的“需求感”

 “xuqiugan”bingbushiyigeshijidegerenxingwei，zhishixiangzimianyisiyiyang，shiyizhong“juede”，yizhong“woxuyaozheigeren，woxiangtaweiwotouru”dejuede。

zheizhongganjuehenyoukenenghuiyanhuachuerzhongjieguo：

●diyi，ninengyuelaiyueshifenfanzaobuan。

youyunitaiguoduyaoxiangyige“jieguo”，erqiezheiyijieguowubidechangsuoyuan，tawubishuyuni，wubihenizaiyiqi。

●dier，ninenggangkaishibiequzijilaitaohaota。

 nishuoyijuhuazuoyijianshidoushihuidianjizhelingyifangshishafanying，lingyifangaibuaikaibugaoxing。youyuyidanlingyifangdefanyingbujia，niyejiumeiyoubanfa“huode”ta，meiyoubanfashitajinitourule。

 zheiyejiubiaoshule，weihebenlaidajiadouqidaishenai，qidaibeiyixingpengyouzhuiqiuwanmei，danmeiyigerenpengdao“xuqiugangao”deyixingpengyou，buyouzizhudefanyingquanshidichu：

youyu“xihuanyigeren”deshizhishi“touru”，er“xuqiugan”chedibenmodaozhi，tadeshizhishi“suoyao”。

jugejianyideshili，youyigerenchangchangguanzhuni，yaoxiangyunizuopengyou，niyidinghuiganjuehenkaixin，duima?

 keshinizaixiangxiangyixia，jiaruzheigerenshigexiaoshourenyuan，tatiejinniquyuenideweiyiyuangubianshijinitaoqianmaitatuixiaochanpindewupin，niyaohuiganjuehenkaixinma?

 haiyouyigekeguanshishishi，ruguonideneixinshikedoumimanzheneiyangdexintai，buguanniganlenaxie，nanrendounengyiyankanchuannide“xuqiugan”hengao。

 zheiyeshiweishenme，xuduo nvhaiyuanzhuangshengbanyingtaofangshihexiaoshouhuashu，huoshizhuangzuozishenhenaojiao，duinanrenbuxieyigu，danzuizhongjuedefandaogengcaogaodeyuangu。

 youyunizaizheigequanguochengzhongsuozhanxianchude，nide“jiaolvbuan”he“zaodongbuan”，bianshiyouyunineixinshikezaidianjizhe“jiaruneimeganle，tashifouhuigengxihuanwo，shifouhuigengxiangyaohewozaiyiqi”。

benlaiyiweichuanle，nirengranshigenjuzuokanqilai“jianshaoxuqiugan”deshier，laizaicibiaoshunidexuqiugan。

zheileizuofapiandanshinanren，yepiandanshizishen。

怎样均衡“积极”和“需求感”的关联

 gaoqingchujibenyuanliyihou，niyejiuhuifeichangrongyidifajue，“jianshaoxuqiugan”deguanjianbingbushiniyingdang“ganshenme”，zhishiniyizhizaizuoyiyangdeshiershi，zai“xiangganshenme”。

changchangyounvhaigenwoshuo，zenyangjunheng“jiji”he“xuqiugan”zhongjiandeguanlian，huidayequjueyuci：

 jiarunineixinxiangdeshizhongshi“jieguo”，shizhongshi“tashifouhuiyizhihewozaiyiqi”，nidequanburenchuansongchudeqizhibianshijiaolvqingxude，quefaanquangande，naizhitanyude。

 buguannikanqilaiganleshiduoshao“weitatouru”deshier，nizenyangqinfendizhuiqiuwanmeitataohaota，zheileiqizhiquanshibuyaneryuqienanyishihuaide，tayeyidingkeyijuededaozheileixuqiugansuochanshengdejidagongzuoyali。

 jiangnidecezhongdiancong“jieguo”qianyidao“shixia”，quxiangyixiang“zenmerangdajiajinrideyouhuigengkaixin”，“zenmerangtaxihuanniduoyidian”，“zenmerangdajiajiaowangdeshenghuogengnanyiwanghuai”，neimanideqizhibianhuibianweidandingcongrongde，tanrande，youxinxinheyouyouhuolide。

neishi，jibian nizuodeshierheyuanlaiyimoyiyang，dajiazhongjiande“diancichang”doushihuichanshengxiweidezhuanbian。