花镇教育：被男人捧在手心的女人

 huazhenjiaoyu，dajiajinriyaojiangdaodeshi“congzhongxiaoying”。congzhongxiaoyingjiushizhi：danggerenzaoshourenqundeweihai，huicaiyibinggaibianxianzhuangdejianjie、fenbianhegerenxingwei，xiangzheyurenqundabufenrenyizhidefangweizhuanbian。yejiushiyibandajiachangshuode“suibozhuliu”。meiyigeren，doushiyouzheiyiquxiang。

danzaiqizhong10%deren，huitishengcongzhongxiaoying，buzuochuyubeidongzhe，xianyibubiancheng“yinlingzhe”。

啥意思呢?

wojidahuoerjianggezhenrenzhenshi：

 wodexueshengxiaom，taheyigehaoxiedepenyouxiaokyiqijindaomougeqiye，yinweiquanshiyingjiesheng，tamendegongzuonenglidoujiaoweicha，yincitamendoubuguyiqiedeqinfen。

 butongdianqujueyu，xiaomxingqingjiaoweihaixiu，youganjuezishenshigexiaobai，naliyouzizhizhiyintarenni?yincitameiridoujinjinmomodizuozijidegongzuozhong。

 erxiaokyaoburan，tashineileixinxinbaomanderen，tabudanganhaozishendegongzuozhong，haiguanzhuquanbujingyingtuandui，meiyigerencishizaiganma，xinxiangmujindudaonaxieshuiping，younaxieshuhu，naerhainenggoutigao，zheixie。

 xiaokhaichangchangjijifaxianwenti，erqiejijitijianyi，weijingyingtuanduichaquebulou，zhangciyiwang，jinguantayilianzhinen，jingyingtuanduiquefandaoshifenyangzhangta，dahuoersixiadourentongyidian，zheiyijingyingtuanduitarennenggoubeigenghuan，zhiyoutashibunengbeigenghuande。

3geyueyihou，xiaokjiudangshangleader，xiaomfanerbianchengtadeshoudixia。

xiaokxianeryijianbianshinei10%，yongzheiyishili，wojuedebiaoshudeshi：

 xinxinbingbingbushigongzuonenglidefuchanwu，zhishiyizhongbaoguidezhiliang，huazhenjiaoyu，youzhezixinxinderen，zaiquntizhongtongchangkeyichongfenfahuigenggaodegongxiao，beidajiazuowei“zhiyang”yiyangyangzhang。

yingyongzaiganqingzhongyeyiyangzheiban。

dajiaganjue，naxiedezhenzhengdeaiqinggenghaodeaiqing?

wojuede，yinggaishiliangrenzaizheicilianaizhong，douyangwangzhelingyifang。

neima，zenyangbaozhengbeilingyibanyangwangni?

zheibujinyunidebiaomian，shenxing，fengcaixiangguan，yunidexinxin，lingdaonengliyemiqiexiangguan。

 chuduixiangzheijianshiqing，daduoshushiqiguxiangdangde，zuizhongnenglaidaoyiqide，quanshiganqingshiyongjiazhileisideren，zaiganqingshiyongjiazhilabudongchabiedeqingkuangxia，youzhechongzudexinxin，lingdaonengli，jiuxiandefenwaiguanjian。

 wodeyiweixueshengxiaou，tagennanpengyouzaiyicijuhuihuodongzhongyijianzhongqing，neishihou，zheiliangrenyanzhongjinyoulingyifang，aideyusiyuxiandeneilei。

 nantijiuchuxianzaixiaoudexingqingshang，xiaoushineileibijiaominganmingan，xiaizixiangmaodunderen，tadeyidaxihaobianshichanzhenanpengyoushuo：

“niyaoaiwoma”，“nishifouhuixuanzelikaia”?

yaobubianshizhuaizhenanyoudeyixiu，zainanyouyanqiantanluzishenquanbudeyoulvhexiaochen。

xiaoujijidibazijibaifangzailebeilingyifangfukandeyingxiangli。

 zhangciyiwang，nanyouyifangmianfanzheta，lingyifangmianyeyulaiyuganjuetameiyoushenmebujiandan，manmandi，shoujiweixinbumiaohuile，buzhudongjitatongdianhuale，duitadehaoganduyemanmanqueshile。

 daozuizhong，xiaou“wanchenglezishendelixiang”，tashoudaolenanyoufaguolaidetichufenshouxinxineirong——taqueshibeinanpengyoushuaile。

tagaobudongyigedadaoli，zailianaizhong，xinxinzishenbianshiyizhongfengcai。

ruguonizailianaiguanxizhong，zhanshichuxinxin、youzhujiandetexingdeqingkuangxia，zheileitexingzishenbianhuijilingyibanhenhaodeyinxiang。

 erzheixiezhanqianguhou，zailingyifangyanqiankuanrongdadudenvsheng，tamendejiejutongchanghe“mofeidinglv”suoxushudeleisi，yuepadeshi，jiuyuehenyoukenengchansheng，haipabeilingyifangshuaile，daozuizhongqueshihuibeilingyifangshuai。

neima，zailianaizhong，yaozenyangbianchengyige“tantuanyi，yushengjulaixinxin”derenni?

●shikejizhegerenyoudian，suishisuidilinchuquweizijikanyixia

 nixuyaolejie，yigerenduiniyouganjue，bingbushiyouyunimeiyoushenmequexianerduiniyouganjue，zhishiyouyuniyongyoumouzhongyoushi，cushilingyifangganxinqingyuanqujieshounidequexian。

 yinci ，jiniyoushijiukeyile，ziranwojuedeyiweizheyouquexianshiqiadangde。keshiquexianyongyumomodidiaozhengde，bushiniyonglaidakuazishende。

●guanhaozishendeluojisiwei，bubiquxianghaimeiyouchanshengdeshier

fangzhitichufenshoudezuihaoshidefangfa，jiushinijiangyandixiademeiyijianshidouzuodui。

jianglaizheigedongxi，suiranyouyidingchuangxinxing，keshiqueshichanshengnaxie，daodishisheidoushuojinzhide。

guoyitian，jiuhuanleyitian，jintianwoyongyouni，wohenkaixin。

这就充足了。

●xunzhaoxiaide，shanyude，zuihaoshihainengliangrenyiqizuodeshier

 nikanqilaimeitapiaoliang，niyizhiquefaanquangan，turanyouyitiantatingwenninengdalol，yidingyaoyunilaiyiju，jieguo，tafajuenijingranbitawandeqiangdadeduo。

zheileishieryouyigeyiliangjian，xinxinjiubaomanle。

●weizijiyige“zhujiaoguanghuan”

nixuyaolejieyijianshi，zaizheigequanshijie，nizhiyouyige，buguantarenzaichuse，doubutaikenengchedibianchengnizheigeren。

zainidejiaoduli，nijiushizheiyishijieweiyidezhurengong，biedederenzainidezhuguanyishili，quanshinvpeijiao。

yinci ，jirantazaizheigeshijielijinjinweiniershengdenvpeijiao，nei，niyoumeiyoushenmehaojiaolvbuandeni?