花镇咨询：从看老公脸色的主妇变成他的精神伴侣

 huazhenzixun，woyouyigeqianpengyou，tahenzaoyiqianyiqianshigebeipiaoyizu，tanleyichangkuajiejitanlianaihou，jialegefuerdai，yixiazibianchenglekuotaitai。jiazhongzaibeijingshunyihehaidianqudoushiyoubieshufang，bingqiequanshifeichanghaodexueweifang。

 neiyitianwoheguimihexiawuchashijian，qiaoyuleta。tayuwodiaokanshenghuoburongyi，jinguanzhubieshufang，quexukanzhangfuhejiapodemianse，guodexinlibushufu。

shenghuoshi“ruyuyinshui，lengnuanziru”，zhuzaibieshufang，kailehaohuache，youxierenguodehuanleyouxierenguodebukaixin。

 kuajiejimeiyoushenmelebuqide，yaoshifangshizhengquelejiunengwancheng，jiarunideshenpangjiuhuiyouxuduo chusedeyixingpengyou，youxierenzhiaini，niquequefazixinzhanzhanjingjing，ganjueshiyongjiazhichahendahaipajienahuoshitanbuxialai，niyinggaizenmeban?

jiarunideairenbianshiyigejiazhibinigaoderen，niyinggaizenmeban?

shiwojigefangmiantiyinenggoujizheizhongnvhaizimenyixiecanzhao，qidainengrangdajiachongzuxiangyouaiqing。

●01.你很重要，不必作低自身

qianwanbuyaoshitaganjuenishigeshangganzhe、suibianbidedenvxing。

nizijiganjuenizhide，nanshengyehuiganjuenizhide;

 youxiudenanrencongbuquenvxingzhui，jiarushangganzi，huilingrenganjuenifeitabuke，neitayuanbenduiniyouganjuehenyoukenengdoushihuizaixinlidagu。

nizhenxizishen，juedeniduideqishangxingfudeshenghuoyuren，tayehuineimejuede。

●02.创建同屏的語言管理体系

 wolejieyigenvhai，zaitaxinlizhixiangfeigaoshuaifubujia，genjugezhonggeyangrenjijiaowangshejiaoquanjieshilejinduonansheng，keguangjindaoshejiaoquanshihaibugoude，tadediyiduantanlianaibingbujinrenyi，nanshengdaitaqujianpenyou，tayidunfandoubuqingchuruhezuo，huayebuzhidaozenmejie。

 gaojiecengnanrenxuyaodebingbushiyigezongshimaimeng、denghoushouyidenvxing。tamenyiyangbixubierenbangfu，yiyangyeshiyoumingxiandeyilaixing。

 tamenyehuiqipannvpengyouhuolaopoyuzishentongshengbai、qipanxinxinxiangxidezhiji，zheijiuguidingniyutachuangjiantongpingdeyuyanguanlitixi，shikeweichisixiangguanniandetongxintongde。

 meitianzaijialidaizhedejiatingfunvbuyidingbuxingfukuaile，woyouyigeqinjiejie，jiazhongyeshiyouduotaobieshufang，tabianshiyigejiatingfunv，keshijiazhongzaitadezhuchirenxiawandejingranyouxu，taneiyitianyuwotaolaoshuoyaoquzhongguokexueyuandugeshu，tigaozijidegongzuonengli。

tadezhangfushizishenchengligongside，duitafeichanghao，jiarutananshou，zhangfudiyigehuichonghuijialezhaoliaota。

 keshiwodezheimingqinjiejiexiangmaojianzhiyibandebukeyizaiyibanle，naizhiyouyixiejianjie，shenghuoyehenzhipo，tacongyidilaibeijingshichuangdang，benkebiye20nianle，rujinjiazhonghaicunzheyuedushidebeidan，jiuzheiyangzhipoderichangshenghuo，zhipoderen，jiazhongguodehuanhuanxixi。

zaiyiqi，jingshenshizhishangdeduidenghenzhongyao，youhuashuohenzhongyao。

●03.坚持不懈一份好工作，便是对自身较大 的爱

 zaizheigegaozhongguolihunlvdeshehuifazhan，zuoweinvxingdeniyebuhuitainanfajue，jinyouzishenxiangandehao，richangshenghuocaikeyigengshangyebaoxianxie。

 bingbingbuyidingdenvxingdounengxiangwogangshuodezheiweiqinjiejieyiyangzaijialihainengbaochixuexili，youzhehelaoxianshengdejingshenshizhiduideng。

 huazhenzixun，xuduo nvhaierhuijialehoujiufangqilexuexipeixunheshehuifazhancuowei，budanzishenzaishehuifazhanshangwanchengbushangdangshidelixianghua，zaijialiyehelingyibanyulaiyumeiyouhuashuo。

 youzheyifengongzuo，yigezishenaidegongzuozhong，duidajiajuedaduoshunvxingeryanbudannengzhuanqianyangzishenhejiaqin，yekeyirangfuqiganqinggengqiang，dajiagengyoudeliao。

 kuajiejidenvxingzuihaoshiyaoyouzhezishendegongzuo，nixuyaotiqianzhunbeiniyaodezhangfujianglaidegongzuoyuebianyuehaodegailv，tahenyoukenenghuijinizhaoliaojia，nijibian meiquzuobanzhi，haikeyikaijiazishendexiaodianpu。

 zaiyouxiudenanrenzaiwaimianchuangdangyingduizheishijiehenbuyi，jiniyifenshouyijiazhongyeduoyifenquebao，yeshibaohuzijidexiaojiating，weitapaiyoujienan。

 meiyigerenquanshidandude，nifazhanqushizishen，fazhanqushidehao，tayehuigangkaishishangxini，jianglailizaiyigejiejishang，ninengjuedeguanliangenglaoguhehuanle。

aiqingwushiguanjieji，qidaishenaiderenyebujianxingjianyuan。

dongtaixinghuiheiseyinlefuhao

 shijishangzaikuajiejilianaizhong，jibaiaiqingdebingbingbushijingjishilidechaju，zhishidiqu、yuyan、gongzuonenglijiqixihaodefenquannei。