花镇情感：如何靠“撒娇”赢得男人心？

geweihao!，woshidajiademingxinjiaoshi，huazhenqinggan，zheiqizongyijiemu，womenlailiaoyiliaomaimengzheiyishi。

 maimengzheijianshiqing，xuduo nvhaiburongyizuo，yeyouxuduo nvhaishibuyuanyizuode，tamenzongyouyizhongxinlizhuangtai，ganjuemaimenga，quanshi“lvchaye”jijianshi。keshiwomingbai，xuduo nvhaishijishangdouyanxiantamen。

yanxianbierenyoufangshi，judongdedang，quanshiyouxiurencai，fayanyouchaohaoting，keshifangzishendeshenshanghenyoukenengjiuzuobuchulai。

neima，zhenduimaimengzheileigerenxingwei，womenyaoruhekandaini?

 dajiadouxuexipeixunguoyigeci，chengwei“binqi”，zhenduimaimengzheijianshiqing，dajiahaiyaobingzhe“binqi”dexintai，xuexipeixundaomaimengde“shu”，gechudiaomaimengshenhoudezheixie“xinji”。

zheiyangyilai，ninengrangnidenanrenganjuenihenquwei，lingwaihenizaiyiqifeichangshuxin，youyuniyoutaorenxihuanyoumeihai。

大家先看来一个有关卖萌的实例。

 buguancongnayigejiaoduguancha，baidanquanshigejiweimengdenvhaile，shuangmaweibian，pingliuhai，loliqun，lanrenxieshitadepingshichuanzhedaban，dajiacaitananyouweihezhuita?

 tazuozhelanqiuchangdibiankanshouji，cikeyigelanqiusaipaoguolai，tajiandaolanqiusaiduizhetayidanyidanhuilai，“aiyaaiya”shouzuwucuodeduo，nageduoqiudeshashadezitaiyishunjianmenglaidaotananyou。

nanyoubuyouzizhuchenmile：

“quanshijiejingranyouneimetaorenxihuandenvhai!tianna”

zaiyiqiyihou，nanyouyouqilingrenmanyi，keshizhihouhuanshibatajishuaile。

youyubaidanhenaimaimengle。

nanyouqukanshudeqingkuangxia，baidanshuo：

“gangxiabanlejiuqukanshu，ninengbunengxuehuifangxiashu，kanyixiabierena。”

nanyouzishendahuishoujiyouxi，yijingdazuizhongyaodeqingkuangxia，baidanyiwanglatadeshoubuxutada。

虽然他苦苦挽留：

“rangdawanzheiyidiankebukeyi?”

 baidanhuanshibufangshou，jieguonanyoubeilingyifangshale，zhengqiaoneipanshoujiyouxihuanshigefuziju，zhengduimianjiansuankebodefengciqilai，babaidandenanyoujidedashenghanjiao。

zuirangnanshengbenkuideyidianshi，buguantaganshenme，baidanyidinghuizhaoyiwang，meimingqiyueshi“peita”。

 baidanyagenhetamenwanbushangyiqiqu，wanbushangyihui，baidanjiuyouhuimaimeng，“naoqiaoteng，nikeyipeizhewohuilaima”——nanshengmeiyiciquanshichuqumeiyouduojiu，jiubeibaidanjisichanlandahuilai。

 shijishang，baidankanqilaiyemeng，xiangshengyetaorenxihuan，yuanbenshigehenheshimaimengdenvhai，keshichengyemaimengbaiyemaimeng，tazuizhonghuanshidaozailemaimengshang。

yinci zenmehuineiyangni?

zaizheierwogendahuoergongxianghaoduogedingyi:

“duoqingyingyong”“jueqingyingyong”yeyou“chedibuyingyong”。

 dajiaxianeryanshuo“jueqingyingyong”，shijishangbaidandezhuangkuangjiuguishuyujueqingyingyong，shuodaozheierhenyoukenengdahuoerhuiganjuehaoqixin，womeiganjuebaidanduinanyoumeiyouganqinga。

“jueqingyingyong”he“meiyouaiqing”shijishangshiliangmashi。

 jugeshilieryanba，rujinxuduo gongsi，huazhenqinggan，youqishihulianwanggongsi，zhenduizhigongtuixing996xianxingzhengce，ji“shangjiudianxiajiudian，yizhouliutian”，zheileigerenxingweijiuchengwei“jueqingyingyong”。

 laozongbingbuguanzhuzhigongxiuxirishifouchongzu，shifouyoufangsongshenxindeshijian，shifouyoushijiantannvyou，jiujinjinyiweiderangzhigongjiabanjiadian，youdenaizhi996haibugou，yeyaorangzhigongxingqiriyejiajiabanjiadian。

zheijiujiao“jueqingyingyong”。

 buqingchudahuoerkanbukanqiu，shangniannbajuesai，dulantegenjiansipo，suihounbahuojianduiweilegenghaodikaoshichengji，duiyimanbaobingkuang，shuozhanmusijinjin“gugeshanghaidao”，erqienbahuojianduizuoyoudouhuijizhanmusiwuxingzhongdegongzuoyali。

 zuizhongzhanmusichengbuzhugongzuoyali，youshangchuchang，genjiansiliexianchangjiubianchenglegenjianduanlie，genjianduanlieshixuanshouzuikongbudeshangshi，yixiazhanmusiquanbuzhiyefazhandoucuihuile。

zheijiushi“jueqingyingyong”：bubalingyifangdangrenkan，jinjinyiweidisuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。

baidandegerenxingweiwangwangshi“jueqingyingyong”，shiyouyubaidanbingmeiyoubananyoudangzuoyigeyingshengshengderen。

 tacongbukaolvdaonanyouyeshiyoushejiaomeitidezhipeiquan，yebixusuiyideshineikongjian，tajinjinganjuezishenwuqu，jiuyiciciyongmaimengdefangfasuoyaonanpengyoudeshijianhehuoli。

fanguolai，ruguoshiwanquantourudehua，bianshichedibuyingyongle。

 youyigefeichanghaodeshili，《feihuwaichuan》lidenvzhujiaochenglingsu，taxiainanzhujiao，zuizhonghaiweilegenghaodijiunanzhujiaoxianshangzishendexingming。

 henduorenganjuenanzhujiaoyingdanghenvzhujiaozaiyiqi，keshicongdajiadeshijiaokanlai，chenglingsushijishangbingbingbushiyigeduomedelixianghuadenvyou。

chenglingsutaichunle，bingqiezhangkongyujiqiang，taweirenchushidefangfashi“nishenmedoubuyaowen，tingwozhiyinjiukeyile”。

shijishangzheijiushiyizhongdajiashuodechedibuyingyong，tayizhibalingyifangdangxiaopengyou，yiqieshierdouzishenshibigongqin。

taxiangdeshizongzhijieguohufeilingrenmanyijiuhaole，danshijishangrenxingfudeganjueshi：

“worenweiwogengetixianmuouyemeiyoushenmechabie。”

“chedibuyingyong”，jiuzheiyang：

“求你听我的吧”

“nijiuyaobierenrangninongbazenmeyang”。

 duduanzhuanxing，chedibalingyifangdangzuoyigewuduliminshixingweinenglideren，henbunengjilingyifangchuanqiuku，chuanwanqiuyichuanwazi，zaibaqiuyijibierenqinzisaidaomianwalibian。

yinci ，maimengzheileishier，“jueqingyingyong”he“chedibuyingyong”doubukequ。

jiarunishiguishuyuzheierzhongjiduanhuadeshili，bibushangjiuxianzaizuodiaojie，rangzishendeqingganbuyouyu“maimeng”erzouxiapo。

zuihaoshidemaimengshiyaoyou“du”de，yejiushidajiatichang“duoqingyingyong”。

shijishangbianshi，balingyifangzuoweiyigedandude，pingfanerbupingyong，youguannian，youchongdongdegerenquduidai。

nabaidaneryan，tajiuguannianbushangyijianshi：zishendenanpengyoubupeizishen，bingbingbushitaoyanzishenle。

bingbingbushitanlianaile，liangrenjiuxuyaoshishikekedezhandaoyiqi。

谈恋爱的常态化是：

 nilaizuonideshier，yinweiwozuowodeshier，dajiameishierdeqingkuangxiakeyizaiyiqi，zaiyiqideqingkuangxiadajiayinweiyouyiduanshijianbujianle，pengmiandeqingkuangxiahuihenqinjin，hentianmei，zheicaisuanshitanlianaidechangtaihua。

 bingzhezheiyibiaozhunqusajiaodehua，ninengmeishimeikeyishidaolingyifangdedaodedixian，meishimeikeyizhongshilingyifangweiqiantitiaojian，neiyanglingyifangcaiburongyiganjueyougongzuoyali，zhishihuihenshifangyali，danchunxingxiangyounimaimengchanshengdehudongjiaoliugan。

maimengshizhishangeryanshigenju“guanjianrenrang”qusuoyaodegerenxingwei。