花镇情感是正规的公司吗？情侣之间没话说了怎么办？

 huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima？“meiyouhuashuo”zishenbingbushicuo，dandanglianggerendouba“meiyouhuashuo”zuoweijiedi，neimatajiubianchenglecuo。

zuixian，nixuyaoqueli：niweijudebingbushi“meiyouhuashuo”，zhishi“aidanle”：

nidezaiqianyishizhongzhong，“meiyouhuashuo”bianshi“aibianqianle”dezhengzhao。

yinci niyixiangzhegaijinzheiyishijigerenxingwei，bingjuedegailezheiyigerenxingwei，bicideqingganjiuneng”sierfusheng“。

dannixuyaomingquedajiadeqingganshi“zhensi”，huanshi“zhasi”?

zaizheier，wojiang“meiyouhuashuo”fenchengerzhongzhuangkuang：ebianhelianghao。

一、恶变：沟通障碍

biciqueshichuxianlegoutongjiaoliunanti，dajiabingbushiqueshimeiyouhuashuo，zhishibuyuangenlingyifangduojianghua。

yibaneryan，zheileijieguoguigongyuerzhongyuangu：

①goutongjiaoliushijiedaolingyifangyijianfankuibujia

②duiqingganzaochengnifanxinlizhuangtai

1、goutongjiaoliushijiedaolingyifangyijianfankuibujia

shijishangshigoutongzhangaidedagailvzhuangkuang。

 zheileiyijianfankuibujiayibanbaohan：lingyifangchangchangyanlidaji、biandinidezhudongxing，duinicaiyongfuyanleshilengmodexintai、wufagenshangnidegousi，jiniganjueduiniudanqindeng。

tongyangtuisuan，ruguonijuedelingyifangqueshi“buyuangennijianghua”，nenggoushizhecongzishendeshenshangxunzhaosuoshuyuangubudongzhuangdong，

xiashougaijin，danglingyifangfajuenidegaijin，jiuhuishoulongfangyuli，changshigennigoutongjiaoliu。

2、duiqingganzaochengnifanxinlizhuangtai

shizuibijiaoyanzhongdeyizhongzhuangkuang：“meiyouhuashuo”jinjinzhuyaobiaoxianzhiyi，shizhishilianggerendeqingganchuxianlenanti。

 jiaruxiangxiufuganqing，zuizhongyaodeshijishangbingbushi“meihuazhaohua”，zhishiconggenbenyuanyinxiashou，xunzhaoliangrendeqingganliekaichu，congerchugen。

二、良好：情感的当然流动性

ruguoshilianghaode“meiyouhuashuo”，shijishangshibuyongzaijiagujide。

为何这样说?

zuixian，yiqiezhengchangtanlianaiyousigebijingjieduan：

1、ruoyinruoxianqi：youbeichengweiaimeiqi。

yejiushilianggerenxinzhaobuxuandenuanwei、danhaimeiyouquedingguanxidehuanjie。

zheiyihuanjieshihenduojiaolvxingyilianhehuibixingyiliandequntizuixihuandejieduan：

 youyulianggerenzhishenzai“xiwang“zhong，weilegenghaodidadaozongtimubiao，huiquanxinquanyiquanliyifuchengxiangerenyoudianyoudian，kandaiqingganyehuigengxizhiyongxin。

2、relian：relian，yejiushiquanbutanlianaidehuoyueqi。

lianggerenyizhiqinmiwujian，qinmiwujian。

 yiribujianrugesanqiu，laidaonaquanshiqianzhehuaizhe，lingyifangtaitianzhenzainiyanzhongshitaorenxihuan，lingyifangdequexianniyekeyizhiruowangwen。

“qingrenyanlichuxishi”bianshizaizheigehuanjiezaochengde。

3、moheshijian：zheiyihuanjie，guishuyu“jiuchanbuqing”dejieduan。

 lianggerendoucongrelianlilikailechuqu，manmanlizhi，keguanxingdikandaolelingyifangdeshenshangdeyoudianhequedian，lingwaiyemanmanpululezishendeshenshangdeyoudianhequedian。

zheiyijieduanmianbulezhengzhi、biequ、renrang;

jiarulianggerenzaimoushishangmeifashangyitongyi，feichangrongyiyipailiangsan。

4、pingdanqi：youbeichengweiwendingxing。

zaizheigejieduan，bansuizherentishengzhangjisudaixiemanmanqinghuan，zuikaishideshenmigangangkaishixiaoshi，

 keguanmanmanzhonggui，shuangfangdounanyizaiganshoudaolianaiqineirehuochaotiandecijixing——henduorenbazheiguijieweiyu“ruguobuaile”。

shijishangzhenghaoxiangfan，zheitongchangcaisuanshiyiduantanlianaidezhenshigangkaishi。

youyulianggerenzaoyichanshengleteyoudejiaowangfangshi，chansheng“hulaifangshi”。

 zaibujingyijianzhong，lianggerenzaoyijiangzishendamopaoguangchengyulingyifangxiangfuxiangchengdemoyang。wozhongyouninizhongyouwo，bicizaoyichediqiehe。

zheiqinei，yidantichufenshou，budanshiganqingshangdefenlichulai——genghaoxiangjiangzishenlingyibandexingmingtuolile。

yiduanshenxinjiankangdepingdanqi，zuidianxingxingzhuyaobiaoxianbianshi：wending，qieqingqingsongsong。

 wending，zhuyaobiaoxianzaibicijibenshangburongyiyouyuwuguanjinyaodeshizaixianqibolan，zhongjiuzaoyixianghuxinren，youxieshizaojiubennengfanyingxingdikuanrong。

qingqingsongsongzezhuyaobiaoxianzai：suiyigan。

genlingyifangzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，genzishenyurenxiangchushiyiyangqingqingsongsongqieshifangyali。

buyongquyue、guanzhe，liangrenzaitongyishineikongjian，gemanggedeshi，danlingyifangsuishidaiming，jiniyouyizhongtashigan。

 yiqieyigerendouwufabaozhengshikeyouhuashuo，danzaibiciguanlianhaimeiyoudaomouyilianjiediandeqingkuangxia，nihenyoukenenghuiyouyimeihuazhaohua、

 youyiguanzhelingyifang、tingconglingyifang——zheikanqilairehuochaotian，qishishishengchanzhizaodecuojue，zhangjiuyiwangbingbushishenmehaoshier。

 jinyouguanlianqueshifazhanlaidaoyidingnongduzhi，zuodao“xiangshuobianshuo，meiyouhuashuojiubuyongshuo”deshuiping，shijishangcaisuanshigenlingyifangyiqizhenshihuanledegangkaishi。

yinci ，lianrenjiande“meiyouhuashuo”，queshizhenzhengcunyou，danshijishangbingbukongbu，erqieshifenyiqiezhengchang。

ruguonimingquebicizaiyiqichongzuqingqingsongsong，jiubuyongyouyizhaohua，xiangyouzheileishifangyali。