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laidao17nian，shujuxinxifashenglejidadezhuanbian。

 “nandanvxiao”dehunyinshenghuocong70%jiangdidao43%，er“nanshaonvda”dehunyinshenghuozecong13%shenggaodao40%，jiedilianqinghunyinshenghuozongshujizeng。

 danjibian shineiyang，huanshiyouhenduoxueshenghaipajienajiedilianqing，naizhipengdaolejiedilianqingjiujiaolv，dahuoerchangchanghuigenwoshuoyouguanjiedilianqingdexuduo nanti：

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 shijishang，wofaxianle，bujinduiyujiedilianqing，dajiadouyouqixiaibanantibiaoqianhua，liruyiguolian、huanghunlian、yidilian、junlian……

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●一、选准自我定位，使他学好承担

wozuixianwenyixiadahuoer，jiedilianqingzuipubiandenantishisha?

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 shijishang，xuduo jiedilianqingdoushihuipengdaoleisidezaoshou：niyiqianweitataoxintaofeitouru，dengdaonibixutadeqingkuangxia，quefajue，quandoujixiwangyubule。

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 xuduo he“zhizi”tanlianaidexueshenga，doufeichangrongyishenxianyigecuowuguannian，neibianshi，juedezishennianjida、mingbaiduo，jiuyingdangdanqiquanbuyiwuzhaoliaolingyifang，guanzhelingyifang。huixiangduizhiziduixiaohaiyiyangkandaizishendelianren。

 keshi，yaolejie，tashizheifenairen，bingbushinidehaizi。tashigennigongpingderen，youzishendexie，youzishendedulisikao，zuizhongyaodeshi，tayougongzuonenglidanfuzishendeshenghuo，yougongzuonenglitanlianaihefuzeren。

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dangtazijintouruyulaiyuduo，tayejiuyulaiyubuyuanyifangqini。

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●二、跟他玩到一块儿去

 wonianyiqiankandaoyigeqinjiejie，chuanleyijianyouqitaorenxihuandelianmaoweiyi，juedeyixiesibuxiang，taqiaoqiaodegaosuwo，tatanlianaile，nanyoushige95hou。yinci tarujinchuanzhedabanyulaiyudilinghuale。

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 zheieryaotishizhuweijiedilianqingzhongde“jiejiemen”，dajiachedimeibiyaofeidezaiyizhedabanshangbannianqing，bantaorenxihuan，youyu，tazaiaishanglenideqingkuangxia，aidejiubushinidenianqing，zhishinidewanshan。chuandebufunianji，fandaolingrenyanfan。

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yinci ，bubiyouyiqubannen，niyikaishixiyinzhutade，jiubushinidenen。

yaoxianggenlingyifangkanqilaixiangpei?nenggoujiezhuerzhongfangfa：

 diyi，yaojiaqiangduanlian，rangzishenyoumeili，tianmanhuoli。yigejiantidewushisuinvshi，yebiyigezhainande20suinvhaiergengyoufengcai。

dier，jindaotadequanqiu，xuexipeixunbingcanjiatadexiuxianhuodong，gentawandaoyikuaierqu。

 jiedilianqingzhongde“zhizi”tongchangshiaiwande，jiarunvyoujinjinyigejiazhangshidejiaodao，erbukeyipeitayiqiquwan，shijianjiule，tabianhuipanni、xinfan。