花镇情感咨询师骗局吗？这样说话的女人更容易被爱

 huazhenqingganzixunshipianjuma？richangshenghuoyoudefufuhuoshilianrenjiuzheiyang，kuangfengbaoyushideguanhuai，renweishi“weitahao”，jieguomanqiangrechenhuandeshilingyifangdebulijie，yukanbushang。

 danggoutongjiaoliuchuxiannantideqingkuangxia，haihuijixuyi“wobuhuijiujianghuajiledian，woshiweitahaoya”weiyuanyin，qidaidedao lingyifangdeyuanliang。

 quebuzhidao，meiyourulaodayelaotaitaibanchijiudehunyinguanxi，kuangfengbaoyushidegoutongjiaoliu，shijishangshiweizijidexingfukuailemailei。

nvren，bawozheisangegoutongdejiqiao，huirangnanrengengweiaizheni!

用他人喜爱听的方法讲话

youyici，dengcuiwenbaomingcanjia《feichangjingjuli》gongxiangletahelaogongdeyijianshi，lingrenyinxiangshenke。

 zhangzhilinhedengcuiwenyouhuiyoushihuitizaodao，suihouzishendianyilongchashaobaoxunsudechile，dengdengcuiwenlaila，tayoushuozishenchiguole，nenggoupeidengcuiwenchi。

 tanlianaideqingkuangxiadengcuiwenjiaoweiketao，meiyougaozhizhangzhilin，tataoyantaneiban。keshihunhoujiubuyiyangle，tataoyan，jiuxuyaolijijiangchuqu。

yizhaozhangzhilindexingqing，jiarutabulijijiang，tadayueburongyizishengaoqingchu。

 jiemuzhuchirenwen，jiarutayaoxiangyigewupinhuianshizhejizhangzhilinma?dengcuiwenshuoburongyi，youyutaganjuenanrenzongshitingtamenxiaitingdehua。

yinci ，liangzhezhijiananshizhehaibibushanglijihuilaidegengweiqingxi，yebuhuirangxianghujianchanshengwujie。

 queshi，henduorendoushihuiganjue，nanrenyingdangshikeduinvrenhao，chongninvren，dankeguanshishishi，neiyangdenanrenfeichangshao，fanershibansuizhebicizhijiandeshencengci，tahuizhuyaobiaoxiandebibushangganglejiedeqingkuangxianeimazaihunvrendetihui，duinvrenshuodehua，yehuikexuanzexingdeting。

 penyoudelaogongzaihunqianshiyigejiqilanmanderen，wanhundeqian2nianyetingzhuzhonglanman，xianrujinwanhunbanianle，youyicipenyougaosuta，qingchunouxiangjulidenanzhujiaodouzenyangzenyangde，queshichaoshuaihaoyoufengcai。

tashizaianshizhelaogongyaolanmanyixie，jieguolaogonghuita：“jiade，yanqingdianshijukanduole。”

nanren，tanlianaideqingkuangxiaertingbafang，nizaishuoshenmetadouneimazaihu，jiehunyihoujiumeineimagaokuanbijizhongjinglile。

nanrenzongshitiaoxuantingzishenxiaitingdehua，tiaoxuanyizhongheshitadegoutongfangshi，caikeyizuodaogoutongjiaoliudemudi。

别让工作方面的情绪，危害情感

shehuixinlixueshangyouyigezhimingdexiaoyong:timaoxiaoying。

 xiaogushishineiyangde，youyiweibabazaiqiyezaoshoulezhize，yincihenshengqidehuilejia，jiandaojiazhongxiaohaizaitiaobuyishafa，jiugengweifahuo，baxiaohaijimaleyidun;xiaohaiganjuehenweiqu，jiutileshenpangyijingfangundemao，maoshoudaojinghejiupaolaidaojieshang。

zaijieshangguoludedejiashiyuanhuranjiandaomaochuangchulai，jiugankuaidebirang，jieguoyouzhuanglemalubiandebiedexiaohai。

duiruoyuzishenhuoshijibiexiaoyuzishendemubiaoxuanxiebumanyiqingxu，erzaochengdelianshifanying，bianshitimaoxiaoying。

 shijishangneiyangdeshichangchangchanshengzaidajiashenpang，qianjiriyouyigegebilinju，xiabanledeqingkuangxiaqichongchongde，zailoudixiahuifulehaozhangshijiandeqingxu，jieguolaidaojia，youyulaogongbumingbaihaizixiezuoye，jiubalaogongmaiyuanleyitong。yichayanxiaohaigongzuoyouyigehaoduogecuozi，youduixiaohaiyidunzeguai。

 tapingchangdoubuneimaaimaiyuan，jinjingongzuoshangdeqingxumeiyoujiejuehao，caizaocheng lerichangshenghuodekanshenmeshenmebukanbuguandezhuangkuang。

 neiyangdezhuangkuangfenbuqingnanhaihenvhai，sheidouzaisuonanmianjianggongzuoshangdeqingxudaihuiqu，renweitamenshidajiashenaideren，nenggouwujinkuanrongzishenfandebuzhengque，youshihoushuofayicimomingqimiaodexingziyewukebimian。

 danshi，zaiwomenbazuiaiderendangzuoqingxulajixiangdeqingkuangxia，tamenyehuichuxianqingxu，yaobujileizaixinzhong，yaobuchongzhexianghuchaoyidun，youqibushangheqi。

bubajiazhongzhiwaideqingxudaihuiqu，caihuijijiazaojiuyifenpingjing，duoyouzheyifenxingfukuaile。

擅于发觉另一方的优势

henduorenshuo，youshiyexiangshuohuazhidao，kehuadaozuibianyoushuobuchukou。

huazhenqingganzixunshipianjuma？shijishangxuduo yuyanjiqiaodouburufazifeifudeshangxi。

shangnianqixijiedeqingkuangxia，youyigepengyoutizaohaojitian，jiuzaiweixinpengyouquananshizhelaogongyingdangsongzishenshenme。

jieguolaidaoqingrenjie，laogongzaiqiyejiabanjiadiandaoyelishidian，juranshenmeyemeiyoubiaoming，huidaojiadaochuangjiushui。

 diertianpengyoujiumeisonglaogongtiqianzhunbeizaocanjiushangbanle，yelihaiwenzelaogongweihetarendeqixijiedouneimalanman，tazhuanqianhenshao，jiabanjiadianxuduo，pingchanglianfengnianguojiedoubuqingchu。

jieguolaogonggengweibiequ，jianxinzhuanqianyangjiahukou，yeyaobeixifutiaosanjiansi。

yincilianggerendachaoyijia，lengbaolilehaojitian。

shijishang，qixijiebuyidingyaodengdainanrensongli，niyenenggousonglijinanren，haowuyiwentaduijiazhongdexinqinfuchu。

 nanrenbingbingbushimeiyoulangmandeguannian，jinjinxuduo qingkuangxiameibeihuanqi，yinci nvrenxiangyaogengqiangdeqinggantiyan，nenggouzijilaishiyanhuanqizhe，rangnanrenlejie，tarangnisongli，gaoyiwaijingxidegerenxingweijinihenkaixin，nenggourangdajiadeganqingtiwen，tahuihenyuanyiquzuo。

weilegenghaodiranglianrentihuidaliangdeai，nvrenjijizhengqueyindaoyeshifeichangzhidede。

youyiciwozuosanbeiji，heijiaojikuaihendawoqiebudong，jiuyaolaogongjiwogekai。

zhihousanbeijigaohaole，laogongchangleyikuai，ganjueyouqimeiwei。

zheishihouwoyewenqi：“nilejieweihecicideyouqihaochima?”

tashuodao：“buqingchu。”

woyoushuo：“neishiyouyuniqiedehao，yinci jifurouchongzuxiaohuaxishouleliaozhi，gengjinweile。”

congcizhihoulaogongrutongdakailepengzhixingzhengjiguanyiyang，meishierjiuxihuankexueyanjiutesemeishi，woyedengdaichi。

 yaoxiangzhengqueyindaonanrenbanshi，jiuxuyaobameirirenwuchaifenweihaoduogeyixiaokuai，liruyaotabangzhuzhufan，jiucongsuoshixiashou，bosuan，qietudousizheileide，meirirenwuxiaoyijinxing，nanrenhuigengxiangyaojienahejinxing。

 zaishehuixinlixueshangzheijiaoxinlizhuangtaichufa，tanenggoufensanhuarenduizongzongtimubiaodezhuanzhulierzheyanyuyigefeichangrongyidadaodegerenmubiao，jinerhuanjiejingshenyali，tigaodadaomubiaodezixinxin，tisheng zhutihuodongdegaoxiaolv。

bixuliuyideshinvrenhaiyaocanjiazaiqizhong，zuizhongliuyidebianshiduoduodekuazan，kuazanrangrenfazhan，yeshiqinggantiwendetaijie。

 zheibushixuqingjiayi，shishenghuolequdeyilixiangdai，dangnvrenkeyifajuenanrendeyoushibingzhenxinshiyizanyangdeqingkuangxia，nanrenyehuifajuenvrendeyoushi，shijianjiulebianhuichanshengwenbufazhan。