冷爱花镇怎么样？什么才是真正的懂男人？

 lengaihuazhenzenmeyang？zaitarenyanzhongtashigebangyangzhangfu，tiexinzhaoliaowodeshenghuoqiju，congbuxuwoquganjiawu。pengyoumendouhenyanxianwo，keshizhenzhengdezhuangkuang，sheiyounenglejie。

tayuwodexiangchumoshi，haoxiangbabazaizhaoguhaozijideguinv，meiyoulangman，meiyouhuayanqiaoyu，naizhimeixing...

yinweiwochangshigenggaineiyangdexiankuang，xiangtamaimengshuoyaoxianglipin，chanzhetayaoxiangyigeyiwaijingxi...

dantazongshijuedewohaizaimanbujiangli，yiciyouyicidihushiwodeguiding。

 zaiwolaogongneixin，shifouyagenjiumeiyouaiqinga?tajuedeliangrenzaiyiqibianshidahuoguorizi，lanmanheqinmiwujianquanshixuyouqibiaode。

youyici，wohaoguimibangwochuxiangfashuo：

 “yaobuneiyang，wodaizhunanyou，suihouniyexiedainizhangfu，womenyiqichuquyongcan，neishihouwomenliangjiugezhonggeyangqinmiwujian，tazaishayehuilejieshayisileba!”

keshubuzhifangangenbushangzhuanbian，fuwuyuandaohongjiudeqingkuangxia，yibuxiaoxinsazailewolaogongdebaisechenyishang。

tashifenfahuo，zhanliqilaijiuyurenchaoleqilai，cuhualianpian。

neishiworenweiyouqidiuren，zaimalubianlanleliangdeshijiulikai。

 woyebuzhidaoruhezaicizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，woyexiangxiangaitianmei，lengaihuazhenzenmeyang？xiangzishendezhangfuwenrunruyu，erwodeqinfenfangfobingmeiyougaibianshenme。

 woxiangtaruguoshigeyijianshihenbutaihaodehuaxinnan，wohaowuyiwennengsatuoxuanzelikaile。danshitayijianshineimatiexin，fandaoyaowohendanxin。

jiaoshi，ninshuowogaizenmezuoni?

yiqieshier、yiqieqinggandoubukeyizhitingyigerenshuodehua，yidingyaoquanfangwei、zongtididuidainanti。

hexueshengxiaoyaliaowanyihou，dajiafajuetamenrujindeqingkuangbingbingbushixiangxiaoyamiaoshudeneiban。

 tadezhangfushigeyishi，siweimoshishifenkeguande，nanyihuicaizhongxiaoyazhenzhengdeyongyi，yinci bianhuilijihushidiao，erxiaoyakanzishendeguidingbingmeiyouhuodedafubianhuiganjuelingyifangbushandaiziji。

 erxiaoyadenantiqujueyutahuibayixiebudadedeguanjiandianjibianda，yijianfeichangjiandandeshier，zhangfuganjuemeishenmebudui，erxiaoyabianhuishenggaodao“nibuaiwo”fangmianshang，yinci caihuizaocheng lexiaoyayaoxiangchuangjianhunyinguanxidanyicicizaigentoudeqingkuang。

xuexipeixunchengzhangquanguocheng：

一、了解男人逻辑思维，发觉存在的问题

dafangjiaoshifajuexiaoyahezhangfudegoutongfangshicunyouzhehenyanzhongdenanti：

 jiunatashuozanghuazheijianshiqingeryan，nixuyaoxianxiangyixiangtazheiyiqingxushishenmezaochengde，yaolejietazenmehuiyaoxiangmacuhua，yidianyidiandilvqingxi。

 congtaderenzhinenglifangshigangkaishikaolv，bangtajiangchutadetihui：“yinweinihenshengqi，shijishangshuozhenhuawoyexiangma，keshiwomabuchurukou。shibushiniyouyu...”

 ruguonineimeshuotabianhuizhongzhimale，erbushiqushuo：“nibuyaoma!”neiyanglingyifanghuigengfahuo，bujinyeyaoma，bingqiehaihuijixuduiniyouxintai。

二、检测丈夫的真正念头

ganzaizhangfuzuoshengri，dafangjiaoshirangxiaoyajitamentiaoyigeshengrilipin，yueyouqingyiyuehao。

yincixiaoyazaiwangluoshangganleyibenxiangpianshu，shangbianjiluzhelianggerendeyidianyidi，haiyouhenduolianggerentanlianaijieduandexiangpian。

shengchenneiyitian，xiaoyabaxiangpianshuzengjilezhangfu，jieguotakanguoyiyanjiulijifangdaolechazhuoshang。

 xiaoyakanjianzishenyongxinxuanzezhizuodelipinyidianyebubeizaihu，tashifennanguo，yulaoshishipinyuyindeqingkuangxiabuduandiku，wenjiaoshi：“woneimerenzhentiqianzhunbeidelipin，taweiheliankanyebukan?”

jiaoshigaozhixiaoyabubizhikanshierbiaocengshangxianxianchulaidexinxineirong，zhishiyaolizhisisuo，xunzhaotaneimezuodeyuangu：

 “zaiwoyunishuodenimenliangdeshizhong，woganjuedaonidezhangfushishifenneixiangxingde，naizhiqutarenjiawandouguoyibuquzaitarenjiazhongniaoniao。jiaruzainiyanqiankanzheizhongzhuiyi，tayoukenenghuiku，yehenyoukenenghuiguoyibuqu。”

dafangjiaoshijixiaoyachuxiangfa：

 “nixianshiyishishifouwojiangdezheiyiyuangu，nijiangneibenxiangpianshujiufangdaonei，suihouzuoyigebiaoshi，kanyixiatazainibuzaideqingkuangxiashifouhuikan。”

xiaoyaduizheganle，guoquleertiantafajuezhangfuyizhiyemeiyoukan，jiaoshirangtalijiwen：

“zheiyishuniyaokanbukanle，buyaokandehuawoshouqilaile。”

tingjianzheijuhuazhangfuganmangshuo：

“jiufangdaoneiba，doubuyaojin，wohuoxushenmeshihoujiukanguo。”

 taneiyangdefanyingrangxiaoyashifengaoxing，neiyangzuishaonengzhengshizhangfushihuailianguoqude，shishandaizijide。yerangxiaoyadongledafangjiaoshiyizhizaigaozhitadehua：

“nanhaihenvhailuojisiweishiyoushifendadebuyiyangde，nibuyaoyizhiyongnizijideluojisiweiqucaicenanrendeniantou。”

 zaixiaoyaxiangqingxizheiyidianhou，jiexiaqudeshierjiuhenchenggongle，zaijiaoshidexiezhuxia，xiaoyayulaiyulejiezhangfudexinlizhuangtai，yexuehuilehuanweisikaoyixia。

三、立即变换人物角色，使他越来越爱你

zainannvguanxidejiaowangzhong，yaoyihuierzuoguanliangongpingdefufu，yihuierzuoxiaohai，yihuierzuoyigemuqinderenwujiaose。

zaiyouyaoqiudeqingkuangxiayaozuoyigexiaohai，rangnanrenganshoudaozishenbeixuyaodeshiyongjiazhi;

zainanrenfahuo、kuangzaodeqingkuangxiazuoyigemuqin，kuanweita，duitashuozheiyijianshiermeiyoushenmelebuqi;

zaipingshijiaowangshizuoyigelaopo。

neiyangcaisuanshihunyinshenghuozhongzuilixianghuadeqingkuang。

 erxiaoyazaizheiliduanhunyinshenghuozhongdejuedaduoshushijianquanshibeichongnidexiaohai，meiyoujidaonanrenchongzudeguanai，fandaoyizhidadanaonao，bulijiezhangfu。

 dafangjiaoshichangshuo：“fenqichanshengshiyaoxianxiangdao3gelingyifangzuozheijianshiqingdeyuanyin，zaixiangyixiangnayigeyuanyingenghehuzhenlidekeguanxing，zaixiangyixiangzishendetihui。”

yiqieduokeguandesisuo，huijiangdixuduo duoyudezhengzhi，duiqinggandeyunyinggengweiheli。

 jiushizheiyang，zaidafangjiaoshijishuzhuanyexixindejutizhidaoxia，bushangliangyuedeshijian，xiaoyahexiaofengrujinzaoyifanhuilianaijieduanle，xiaoyashuo：

 “yiqiandouzaoyiwanquanxinhanle，xingkuiyoudafangjiaoshi，jiejuelewodekunhuo，rangwoxuehuilejiewolaogong，erbushiyitiandaowannaozilidouhuixiangtadebudui。”