huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma?xiaozhaohelinglingshidaxuetongxue,zhihouzaishejiaopingtaishangpengdaole,lianggerenganjueyuanfennannengkegui,congtongxueqingxuxujiudaoliaoxianjieduangongzuozhong,errenhenshitoujixing。
jinguanzaixuexiaoqingkuangxia,errenchaleliangren,bingwuxiangjiao,dangongzuozhonghouyiyangbaoyouchulidanshennantidetamenyinweitongxuezhenshishenfen,yishunjianjuedejinlexuduo,wangshangliaotianyizhouhou,errenjiuxiangjupengmianle。
xiaozhaoqueduicicipengmianhenxinhan,tazhaodaowoshi,duiwoshuo:
“andijie,dajiawangshangliaotiandeqingkuangxiajuedeyiqiedoushixiangyurugu,erqiedoulejieshibenzhegaoduixiangqude,keshipengmianhoutabutongyigenwoshizhijinkou,worenweihaomeiyouqingmian,tashiyoushenmewentima?
weihewangshangliaotiandeneimanuan,yipengmianfangfoyoujianju……houbianwojinbuzhukuzhegentashuodaowodejuede,lingyifangquebuhuiyingwole,neiyangdeqingganwogaizenmexiufuni?”
yingduixiaozhaodezhuangkuang,zheierwoyaodechuhaoduogeguanjianhuanjiezuoweibiaoming:
一、学习培训区别“病理性吸引住”和“隐匿性吸引住”
qianduanshijiangangchuxianhulianwangjishushejiaomeitishi,youjuzhumingdeguandianshi:“niyagenbuqingchugennihuihuadeneitoushirenshigou”,jibian fangdaoxinxineironggengjiagongkaihuadejinri,zheijuhuarengrankeyong。
biaocengshangkanshangqulinglinghexiaozhaozaiwangluoshanghenliaodelai,gongtongyuyanxuduo ,yincixiaozhaojiuganjuecicileisiyingdangnengbiancheng,youyulingyifangyijianshidexingquaihaoyehenxianzhu,bingqielinglingdeyoumogaoxiao、xianliaojiegeng,jibenqingkuangyeshifenhehuzishendeguiding,yinci pengmianshijishangbubianshiquedingguanxiqudema?
zixunzhong,baoyouneiyangdeniantoudenvhaibuzaishaoshu,keshiniyizhizaimeiyoukandaolingyifang,huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma?meihelingyifangxiangchu,zhishitinglingyifangzenmejiangjiujilingyifangshisharenzuoyigexiaoxiangdehua,jiunanmianyoudianerbushenzhongle。
jianyanzhi,youderenhuibaozhuang,youderenbushanyu,rutongtaobaowanghuichuxiantaobaomaijiaxiuhemaijiaxiuyiyang,bujianyanqianneiquanshiyinnixingxiyinzhu。
niyidingyaoxianjiandaorenle,jiaowangjihuiyihou,zaizhuanguolaigenzishenduitazhuguanyiduanzaochengdeyinxiangzuoyigeduibi,ruguoyoubuyiyangdediqu,zengjiaguanchaqi,burandehua,nishijishangbingbushizaihezheigerenchuduixiang,daliangshihe“wojuedede、woxiangxiangde”tazaitanlianai。
xiaozhaohenxianeryijianjiufanlezheiyibuzhengque,ernanshenglinglingkeguanfangmiangaoxie,meiyoujienachucipengmianjiushizhijinkoudegerenxingweiyeshizhuyaobiaoxiantaxiangshensishulv,bukeyibaguanlianneimezaomingque,zheiduibizheixiechucipengmianjiuxunsutuidongguanliandenanshengeryan,linglingqueshikekaotaiduole。
二、了解“心理账户”
jianyieryan,bulunshidajiagoumaishangpinhuanshitiqianzhunbeijinxingyiduanguanlianshi,doushihuiduilingyifangtouyingyidingdeqiwangzhi,zheiyibianshixinlizhanghu。
fangdaoxiangqinyuehuijieduan,xinlizhanghunenggoufenchengsilei。
diyileichengwei“yijianzhongqing:
shifenlingrenmanyi”denanhaihenvhaishenzhanghu,yejiushilianggerengenjuxinxineironghuanquhou,yifangduilingyifangpingfenhengao,shifenxiangyaojijizhuiqiuwanmeidezhuangkuang;
dierleichengwei“juedefeichanghao:
meishadacuo,nenggouguanchaxia”denuanweihouxuanzhanghu,yejiushihuhuanxinxineironghuoshiduanzanxingjiaowanghou,huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma?juedelingyifangnenggouzaiwodezhaoduixiangzongtimubiaozhonghehu70fenba,keshihenyoukenengyeyougengqiangde,zheiyixianburongcuoguo,keshizhuiqiuwanmeiqudongliyemeineimamingxiandezhuangkuang;
disanleichengwei“wenminglimaoxiangchu:
danggepenyou,zhihouzhibudingyouxiangjiao”dexiangyushiyuanzhanghu,jiarunifajuelingyifangduinikeyizuodaoyouwenbida,buguanshenmeshihou,keshimeishayanshen,feichangshaojiji,keshidoubushandiaoni,zheijichubianshicileizhuangkuang;
zuizhongyileichengwei“buyuanjianni,sanguanbuhe:
bukenfengpei”deshihuazhanghu,zheierdezhuyaobiaoxianbianshijiufengzhijiqianbeishao,jifanimingxiandichudezhuangkuang,jiarutarangnineiyangdejuede,jiusuanshilingyifangdewaizaibiaozhunzaihao,yetiyibubibaocun,jishiyouxierenshuoneijinhounenggougongzuozhonglianluo,zheileizuihaoshiyebubi。
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