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 womenzaishehuixinlixueshangjingchangyaoshuo，huazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，hunyinguanxishizishenxinlijiankangwentidegaobeifangdajing，jindaohunyinguanxiyihounenggoubangdajiazhaojianwomenzijidexinli，chajuezijipingchangyanzangdefeichanghaodehuoshigenbenmeiyoufajueguodezaiqianyishizhongjiechuyizhidenanti。

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 jinriaipinshengjiuxueshengxiaomeilidezheileinanti，jidahuoereryanxia，zenyanggenjujunhenghunyinguanxizhongmeigerenwujiaose，quyunyinghaoyiduanguanlian。

shuodaozheiyidian，xianjidahuoerpujihuayigezhishiyaodian——

nvshizaihunyinguanxizhongdesigepubianziwodingweifenbieshi：laopo、guinv、muqin、lianren。

1.diyibu：zaibuyiyanghuanjie，zhuanhuanhejunhengzheisigerenwujiaose。

 neimawomenyaozuodiyibushi：chabieyudajiayijuzishendeyixiangqutiaoxuanyigerenwujiaosejiuwanshidajile，zhishiyaoqingxizaiguanliandebuyiyangdehuanjie，buyiyangdeshijianli，womenyaozuodeshijiangzheisigerenwujiaosequzhuanhuanhejunheng。

(1)guinvrenwujiaoseluanyong

 jiunagangjidahuoerjiangdexiaomeilideshilieryan，zaiyiduanguanlianliguoduozhanren，butinghua，zhuyaobiaoxianchuquzishenhenhaiziqideyimian，neibianshiguoduozhuyaobiaoxianzishenguinvrenwujiaosedeyimian。

taneishihoubianshiyitiandaowanchanzheqianren，yihuiwenxia：

“gegezaima?niyaoxiaobaobaolemeiyou?xiaobaobaohaoxiangniya。”

 jiarulingyifangyihuiermeihuiyingxinxi，neihenyoukenengbianshiquanpiandezezeze，hengjihengji，woshengqilemiao，yaohonghongyaolouloubaobaojugaogaozheileide。

 neiyangdebiaoshuzishenshimeiyouwentide，nanshenggenneiyangdenvhaierchuduixiangzuichuyehuiganjueyoushenmigan，huiganjuetaorenxihuanzheileide，keshishijianzhangle，shenmiganguoqule，haiyouxixindenanhaiziyehuiganjuezhan。

 huanweisikaoyixiaxia，nanshengchuduixiangdechuxinshijishanghenvshengshiyiyangde，quanshiweilegenghaodizishengaoxing、shushi。guinvderenwujiaosechanshengdejinjinyibufendeyukuai，kaolvnanshengde“beixuyao”dejuedehe“beiqinpei”dejuede。keshidangshenghuoluodishibianweiyouyanjiangcuderichangshenghuo，dangranjiuwufabaochile。

(2)恋人人物角色

 yiyang，qianqianzaihoumianyiduanqingganzhongyoudanyidiqushiyanleyigeyoucengcigandelianrenderenwujiaose，bazijidexuqiugansuoyouquhui，goujiangezhonggeyangmeixuqiugan，rangnanshengmeifatieshen，yiyangzhizhuiqiuwanmeilanmandeganshou。

 lirutagenlingyifangdegoutongfangshibianshi：jiarulingyifangbuzhudongzhaotajianghua，tajishitiantaledeshiyebuhuijilingyifangfayitiaoxinxineirong。

lingyifangfaguolaiguanzhudexinxineirong，qianqianjinguanxinlikuangxi，danhuiyingbianshilengbingbing：e。ang。bai。tuo。

xuduo qingkuangxia，nanyouhuahaimeiyoushuoyiliangju，qianqianbianshuo：woxiangquxianzaole，wananhaomeng。

shishishangcaiyeli9dian，haineimazao，zishenyeshuibuzhejueya，wuqudaohuaizheshoujishangdetishikuangfanlaifanqukanshangyiyibaibian。

neiyangbiaoshushijishangjileguanlianzhongdelingyifangfeichangdadexiangxianghehuanxiangkongjian，duiguanlianshiyouyichude。

 kenantiqujueyu，jiaruyizhineiyangjiaowang，paoquzishenxinlinanaobuyongshuo，dangyigenanrendehuanxiangkongjianguodudadeqingkuangxia，nanshengyezaisuonanmianganjuezheiyiduanqingganquefaanquangan，quefaanquangandechengbenbianshinanyouganjueqianqianshigebaijinnv，zishenjinjinyigebeidiaozhudebeiyongtai，yincibianhuititichufenshou。

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例如：

 dangzaiqingganzuikaishichuangjianxiyinzhudeqingkuangxia，nenggouzhuanhuanlianrenrenwujiaose，jiandaonideshenshangdecengcigan，nenggoucujinnanshengduinixingquaihaomanmande，jiqiduzhanyu。

qinggantianmeiwendingxingnenggouzhuanhuanguinvrenwujiaose，shitaxiangyaoquzhaoliaoni。

 huoshizaiqinggandekuzaoqi，youshihouzhuanhuanlianrenrenwujiaoseheguinvrenwujiaose，dounenggoubuyiyangshuipingdetishengqinggandeshenmigan。

2.dierbu：jingzhundingweihaolaoporenwujiaosehemuqinrenwujiaose。

 neimazenmerangyiduanreqingzhiaibianweiyiduanchengzhiyoupingwendezhangqixingqingganni?zheigewentiyegengshiqianqianzaixiangwozixundenanti，yejiushiaipinshengyaojidahuoerjiangdedierbu，zenyangdingweihaolaoporenwujiaosehemuqinrenwujiaose，jinanshengyigewennuandehaigang，rangyiduanqingganpingwenerchijiu。

(1)老婆人物角色

 yigehaodelaoporenwujiaose，dalianghaoxiangyigebuqibulidezuihaodepengyou，yitongzuozhandelaozhanyou。jiuhaoxiangyouneiyangdeyijuhuanenggoufeichanghaodeguina：

 yigejiandandexingfuren，bingbushizainifancuowudeqingkuangxiaqupinleminglanzheni，zhishizainizuobuduishier，chuitousangqidehuijiadeqingkuangxia，yiranrangnihuanhushuo：gandepiaoliang!

 yigehaodelaopo，nenggouzaitakunaodeqingkuangxiakeyiyongxintingtajianghua，meiqudianping，nenghetatonglixin，shitajuedenishizhonglizaitazheili，henizaiyiqihenshufu，meiyouyali，nengshitazuohaoziji。

 qianqianzaigenxianjieduanjiaowangdemubiaozhong，yepengdaolezheigewenti，nanyouzaihetaqingtushuozishengongzuoshangpengdaoduanbannanyitisheng，yizhaoqianqianyiqiandexingqinghenyoukenengbianshizishenxianjile，yaoshuo：aiyoneizenmebanya，neiyangshifouhuiweihainianmodingjia，nishibushinalinalizuodebutaihao，shibushininayounantia。

huoshijiutaobinanti，yaoshuo：qinaidejiayoujiyou，niyidingmeishenmewentide，nizaiwoxinzhongshizuizande!

zheierzhonggoutongfangshishijishangjiuxiangdangyushixiaogoutongjiaoliu，zongshiranglingyifangganjuezishenbingmeiyoubeijiandaobeiguanxindao。

 yinci wogenqianqianshuo，dangtagenniqingtuzheigewentideqingkuangxiashijishangbingbingbushilaixiangnixunzhaoyigejiejuefangfa。zhishixunzhaoyigeshiyong，yishuangnenggoulazhedeshou。

yinci wojianyiqianqianhenanyoushuo：

 “worenweinizaoyiganlezheimeduole，zheiyuanbenzaoyiyuanchaonidegongzuozhizele，zheiyibingbushisheidoujuyoudezerengan，bingqieniyizhiyilaikandaigongzuozhongdexintaidouneimayongxin，henyoukenengrujinmeiyoubeilingdaoganbujiandao，keshirijiujianrenxin，xiangxinyidinghuiyouxierenjiandaonideshiyongjiazhi。”

 zhishang，jianyidetonglixinbingbuyidinghenkuazhangdeyanyuhuoshihenmingxiandexintai，zhibixushitajuededaozishenshibeijieshoude，youxierenmingbaitadetouru，zheigerengentashitongpingde，zheijiushishenaidetihui。

(2)母亲人物角色

 zuizhongzailiaodaomuqinderenwujiaose，muqinderenwujiaosedaliangzhanxiandeshibuqibulideshiyongnengliang，jiqigaoguolingyifangdesixiangyinling。

 liru，zaidajiaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，nideniantoushinenggoushuodongtaren，nenggourangtarenganjue：wa，lihai。huoshishi：ng，youdianeryisi。

 huoshizaigoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，nijuededaodedianshitayixiangbudaodedian，yejiushitaluojisiweizhongdexitongloudong。lirunanrenmendoujiaoweipianzhongyupingxingxiandulisikao，neinijiulizaifasanxingsiweideshijiaoshangjitamentiyi，neiyangzheigenanrenhuiganjuenishinenggouxiezhutade，shinenggougentaxiangfuxiangchengde，shiwukequdaide，neiyangdeyindaohetuidongzhenduinanshengeryanshigengpingwendenengliang。

 xuduo xueshenghuiganjuezheiyidiannanyi，bixuxuduxuduo shuhuoshimingbaixuduo dedadaoli，shijishangwomenzaiheyigerenjiaowangdequanguochengzhongnenggoufajuelingyifangyouhenduoluojisiweidexitongloudong，liruyigenanrenyizhijiangluojixing，xiaijiangli，neimanixuyaozuodebianshigentaliaotihui，jiusuanniliaodeshifeichangjiandandetihui，tayehuiganjuehenlihaidemoyang。