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neimazheizhongyuanyouxintaishinalaideni?

大概有二种概率：

一、由小到大积少成多的心态沒有宣泄的方式

liruershinidanxin，muqinshuobuxuku，youshenmehaokude，suihounibuganku，jiubazheigedanxindexintaichucunqilaile。

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二、沒有学好鉴别自身的心态

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yanchimanzujiushizhi：weilegenghaodizhangjiude、genggaodequanyiertongyijianhuanhuoshisheqixianjieduande、jiaoxiaodekaolv。

xuduo nvshengzaitanlianaidequanguochengzhong，doushihuizai“qingxukongzhi”zheiyijieduanzouxiapolu。

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 yinci ，womenzaidiaojieqingxuzhongdeguanjianchutibianshixuehaoyanchimanzufa，bubiyouyuyishixintaidekaolv，dangeletanlianaidejizhidu。