小鹿乱撞情感和花镇 如何维持异地恋？

 xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenxiaoaijinrigendahuoergongxiangyige：yinwaidizaijiashangbumingbainanrenxinli、bumingbaigoutongdejiqiaozaocheng cuoguojihui，lijingjishuzhuanyejutizhidaozuihouxunzhao“yinyuan”deshili，keweishiganhuomanmanyo~

rangwomenyiqikanlaiyixiaba~

01为什么说高龄就沒有实现人生价值的支配权!

 xueshengmiaomiao(biming)，2020nian34sui。yongyou feichanghaodeshouyi、youyuedejiatingtiaojian，yiqiedeyiqiequanshineimadexingfuheshushianyi。

 weiyirangtatoutongdeshizishenderenshengdashi，yikaishiqubaomingcanjiaguohenshucixiangqinyuehuidanquanshibuchenggongjieshu。yaobusanguanbuhe、yaobubufuzishendeguifan、yaobuxinshuibugao，zongeryanzhibianshimeiyoukanzhongbieren。

 xiangqinyuehuibangeyueyihou，jingpengyouxiangxijieshaomiaomiaolejielebizishendasansuideayou。tagenmiaomiaoguishuyutongyijiaqiye，jinjinlingyifangshizaizonggongsiermiaomiaozaijituanqixiadefengongsi。liangrenjianmianchiwanyicifan，wuhuabutan，ayoukanqilaihenqingxiu，185degaogezi。

 zheirangmiaomiao“chunxinmengdong”、“fangxinanxu”，liangrenhaihuliuleshoujiweixin。yihouliangrenmeiridoushihuishipinyuyin、shipin，goutongjiaoliuyitiandesuowensuojianheqiyededongtaixing。

 guoquleyigeyue，miaomiaoganjueliangrenzaoyihenshutou，jiubuzijuedeyinvyoudezhenshishenfenzixu。buduandewen：“shenpangneimeduohaokandepiaoliangxiaojiejie，nishifouhuixindonga?”“nishifouhuiganjuewoliangbinbanbai，shifouhuitaoyanwoya?”“heshiwanhun?”zheixieyixiexiqiguguaidenanti。

 yiguolianyuanbenbianshigaofuchu、dishouyideyiduanguanlian，meiyigerendoushiyouzishenderenshoudejixian，yidanchengdaojixianbianhuibaofa。

 miaomiaojiuzheiyangbuduandicaiyi、zhengzhi、naizhihaihuijixu“chaqin”。yikaishi，lingyifanghaihuijixufuweiyixiamiaomiaodexintai，keshijianyulaiyuzhangayouzhendeshihenzhirugu，zuizhongxintaiyulaiyulengmo，daozuizhongayoumingquetichuletichufenshou，liangrenzhongjiandejiediyulaiyulengmo，zaidaozuizhongliangrenjiumeilexiamian。

 yingduiayoushiliaoweijidefanzhuan，yishizhijianmiaomiaoyoudianershouzuwucuo。youyuayoushitadiyigexindongdenanhaiziyinci fenwaidegaoduzhongshi，buyuancuoguozheiyiduanqinggan!

 zaipenyoudexiangxijieshaoxia，gandaoledajiatanlianaifazhan。zaigenxiaozhuligoutongjiaoliuguoyihou，xiaozhuliweitaqianglietuijianledajiade“tanlianaimoushi”——guangsijiaoshi。

 guangsijiaoshizaigenmiaomiaogenju2cishipinyuyinyihou，duitabenshendenantijiulejieleqiqibaba。laoshishuomiaomiaofanxiadebuzhengqueshijuedaduoshuyiguoliannvhaidoushihuifandebuzhengque，rangwomenyiqikanlaixiadouyounaxienanti：

02找到“疾病”，对症治疗

 jiushinichedimeiyoububiguoshaodeguanxinlingyifang，meiriduozuoxieyouyisideshi、zuoxieyouyisideshiqing，tisheng zishendejiazhigan。”

 zaiguangsijiaoshideqianglietuijianxia。miaomiaoshizhezhequduyixietisheng benshenshiyongjiazhideshuben、zuoyixieyouyangyundongjianfeilaibaochizishendewanmeishencai。yeyaolejiezishen“qidaizhongzishen”demoyang，yejiushizishende“renwuguanxi”。

 suihouqinfenxiangbianchengzheiyi“renwuguanxi”erqinfen，zaiwomenbianchengzishen“qidai”demoyang，dajiayejiubianchenggengyoufengcaidezishenle。

 jiuhexiaonvhaizhui“chaojiouxiang”yiyang，zhibuguoshinide“chaojiouxiang”shi“qidaizhongdezishen”。congerzengjia“cengcigan”ranglingyifangyouyaoxiangyitanjiujingde“chongdong”

diergenanti：bumingbaiqiadangbiaoshuzishen

 miaomiaoyizhibuzijuedebazishendequedianchedipulutaiyangdixia，meiyicigenlingyifangxianliaotachangchangshuozishenkanqilaimeiyouzheixie256suidepiaoliangxiaojiejiezhangdepiaoliangzheixie。

zhiyoujiandaobenshendequexianchedikanbujiangerenyoudian，pengdaonantizongdianjizheduobierbushizhudongjingongjibailingyifang。

 guangsilaoshishuo：“yiduanguanliandegangkaishidaowanbi，yigongfenchengsigehuanjiexihao—xintai—sanguan—mimi。meiyigehuanjiesuobiaoshudeyujuyeshibuyiyangde，zaizuikaishidehuanjieyaoxuehaobizhongjiuqing。

bianshiyaojilingyifangzhanxianchuzuijizhideqingkuang，suihouyibuyibudetuidongdaozuizhongmingmuzhangdanbaoyou。”

 shehuixinlixueshangyouyigezhuangkuang“shouyinxiaoying”，liru：nilaiyijiafandianyongcan，shangqudediyidaocaihennanyixiayan，neizainidezaiqianyishizhongliniyidinghuiganjuezheigefanguandefanshihenyiban，yinerniyidingburongyizaiqudenghoudierdaocai;danfanguolai，jiarudiyidaocaihenhaochidehua，neimenihaihuijixuxiwangdierdaocaiwuluntaweierzenyangnirengranhuidenghou。zheijiushiziwoanshi

yinci ，zaiyikaishideqingkuangxiabubijilingyifangpuluguoduodequexian，neibanhuiranglingyifangbuyouzizhudehuila。

disangenanti：yiguoliandebiaodaxingshi

情景一：

“jiaruwomenliangnengchengdehua，wojiuqutoukaoni!”

“woshixiangyaoquzheiyichengshidefazhanbingqieyouwanshandefangan”

情景二：

“duibiyubiedenvhai，nizuixihuandeshiwohaishitamen”

“womingbaizijinianjibingbushichuziyuquedian，danduibiyutameneryanwogengwenzhonggengweilejieni!”

 miaomiaoshuo：“yizhaojiaoshidejutizhidao，wozuolexuduo genggai，xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenguozhenrujinzishenrutongfashengbianhuayigerenyiyangquanburendouyuelaiyuegengyoufengcai。”

 rujindemiaomiaomingbaiqiadangdezhengqueyindaoxiaoshouhuashu、fangkongzijidefengcai、tishengziwoshiyongjiazhiheguishugan。zaoyiyoulianggeyixingpengyouleni!jianxinmeiduojiudeweilaijiunengjiedaotadexixunleni~

 yiguolianzuizhongyaodeshizhengqueyindaohegoutongjiaoliu，shijishangzuihaoshide“gaobiedanshen”he“xiyinzhu”fangfaquanshineiyangrunwuwushengde，zaiwomenhuoerzishen，xunzhaozishen，jienaziji，shandaiziji，“bierenzhiai”duidajiayejiumeiyouneimaguanjianle。

 youxierenshuo，yiguolianshilianaizhongzuishoujinzhemodeyizhongfangfa，qingsierbukeyixiangyu，xiangxianghuwennuan，queyouchubushanglingyifangdehuaili。

 yikaishihaiganjuexinxian，danshijianjiule，jiupijuanle，buyuanyizaiyizheileijiaowangdefangfa，shikedicuicanzhezishen，yinci jiujianjiandilengdanle，yiwangle。

03算不上总结的总结

 shijishang，yiguolianzuiqianquebianshixinlaiganheguishugan，yinci pingchangdegoutongjiaoliujiukanqilaifeichangguanjian。bingbushiyiguolianyoubaituobushangdekunnan，zhishinimeiyouxuanzhunjiejuekunnandefangshibale。