花镇情感咨询大曝光 喜欢的男生突然不冷不热怎么办？

huazhenqingganzixundapuguang，tawenpinggao、gaoyanzhi、jiazhonghao，wohaipazishenbupei

jinqi，wojingchangjiedaoneiyangdezixun：

weihehaohaodide，nanyouhuranjiuyijianshibuwenbuhuoleni?

xinlejiedenanhaizi，yikaishihaidadehuore，ruhebujiujiuzhuyaobiaoxiandebuwenbuhuoleni?

wohenanpengyoudeguanlianjinrulebuwenbuhuodehuanjie，gaizenyangbaituokunju?

“buwenbuhuo”haijianzhixiangjilerujindezheileiqiwen!neimaxianshiwomenlaitingyitingxueshengxiaoqingdegushi：

 wojinnian28sui，shiyijiasanjiayiyuanxinxinyuangongruzhideyishi，babamamayedouhuizheigeyiyuanmenzhengongzuozhong。babashiyiyuanmenzhendehouqinbuzhang，mamashifuchankeyishengdezhuzhiyisheng。

 wozixiaobianshiyoujiatingbaomuyangdade，youyubabamamadegongzuozhongdouyouqimang，youshiwonaizhiyizhoudoujianbushangtamenjidao。woxiaodeshihoujiuyouqiqidaimuqinnengxiangtarendemuqinneibanchangchangpeizhezishen，ketayizhishuo“qingerguai，yiyuanliyoudaliangderenbixuwo!”

yinci ，woyizhiyouqiqipanyouxierennengjiwoquanbudeai，meiyourenhejiekoudeneilei。

 qianbujiu，wochengzuoditieshilejieleyigenansheng。liaoleyihoujuranfajue，tayuwobiyeyutongyisuogaoxiao，shilinjubandetongxue。woliangxiangyuhenwan，suihoujialeshoujiweixin。

 zaizheiliyihoudeyizhouli，dajiachangchangpengmian，congdaxuejiaoshiliaodexianghuzhijianlejiedetongxuemen，zaidaobiyezhihouduirichangshenghuoderenzhinengli，jiqiduiweilaideguihuahexiwangzheixie。

 wofaxianletabianshiwoyaozhaodeneileiren，quanshendoushifangzheguanghui，lingrenjinbuzhuquaijin。huazhenqingganzixundapuguang，meiduojiuyihou，dajiafashengleguanxi。jinguantamingquetichulaideqingkuangxia，wohenbuxiaxinquhuijue，bingqiewoshiqueshixiaita，danshiguohouwoneixinhuanshihenyoulvde。

 yifangmian，tabenkebiye，zhangxiangyegao，rengzaiyijiadazhongxingqiyegongzuozhong。lingyifangmian，tababamamadouzuoshengyi，jiashifeichangfeichanghao。

yinci ，woyouqidanxinzishenbupeita，yejiushishuotababamamabujienawo。

 woduiqingganshihenyongxinde，yeqidaitanenghaohaoaiwo。danshirujin，woxianzhujuededaotayijianshideguanzhudu，bibushangganglejiedeqingkuangxiale，keshiquebuqingchuyinggaizenmeban。

zheizhongganjuejianzhihaonanshoule，wogaizenyangcainenghaohaodiyunyingneiyangyiduanlianaiguanxi?

为何遇上爱的人，会觉得自卑心理呢?

 wocengjingjianguoxuduonvhai，tamenbiaozhunchuse，xingqingyeba，keshiyipengdaoaideren，bingqieyaoshineirenbizishenchuse，tamenjiusongle，pingchangdexinxinhechusejingtoujiuquanmeiyoule，yuelaiyueqienuoheshouzuwucuo。

 neimaweihedajiahuizaiyushangaiderenshi，ganshoudaozibeixinlini?zheishijishanggendajiadexinlizhangaishilibukaide，zuixianlailiaoyiliaodajiasuoqipanyoudanyoude“zishenxianlu”yibufen。

 zishenxianlu，jiushizhidajiayaoxiangjiwaizaideguanzhongmen(taren)hebenzhideguanzhongmen(zishen)zhanshichuyizhongshouchengzandepinpaixingxiang。

 zishenxianlujichulilunjiading，dajiadouqipanyongyizhongjitarenliuyouxingfuyinxiangdefangfalaichengxianzishen。keshizaiwomenxiangjibierenliuyouhaodeyinxiang，danyoucaiyizishenkefoubaozhengshi，dajiabianhuijuedejiaolvqingxu。

zhenduiaideren，dajiahuiqidaiyuzhiyoudaliangdexiangchu，zheiyehuishiwomenquxiangyukaizhandaliangdezishenxianlu。

 erzheiyikuai，bianhuiqianshedaodaliangzishenxinliliji、zhenzhengdebiaoshu，youhuiyouyuneibandeqidai，“tamenduidajiadeyinxiang，jiuyouweizhongyao”。zheihuishiwomenzaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongguodubudangran，bingjiangzhuyilijizhongyuzishenhezishendegerenxingweishang。

 dantongchangyehuiyouyuzheilei“qidaijitarenliuyouhaoyinxiang”suozaocheng dejiaolvqingxu，changchangdaozhibutaihaodeyinxiang。zheileizhuyaobiaoxiandebutaihaodeqingxu，youzaochengdaliangdejiaolvqingxu，zuizhongyinqixidexingwuzhu，zairangrenshengdaoluchuduoduoshaoshaodebuzixin。

erzheizhongzibeixinli，zaibierenyanqianyeshibuhuiyou，jinyouzaizuizaihuderenyanqian，caihuizhujianzizhang。

 jiulianyishudoushuoguo：“yudaoniwoyuelaiyuehendihendi，yizhibeiweidaochenailiqu。”dannixuyaolejie，nidezheizhongzishentichuzhiyiduiganqingfenhaomeiyouxiezhu，fandaohuijiniyuelaiyuebuneimataorenxihuan。

 yinci ，jibian nizishenyouneiyangneibandebugou，yeshinenggougenjuhoutianxingqinfenergenggaide。yiqieyiduanganqingdegangkaishi，nizuikaishiyaoxuexipeixundebianshihaohaodeaiziji!

yongzhimouzhishengshizuihaoshidefangfa

 sunbinbingfayouyun：shangbingfamou，cizhifajiao，cizhifabing，qixiagongchenglvedi。jianyieryanbianshi，yongzhimouzhishengshizuihaoshidefangfa，biedefangshidouqici。

jiexiaqulaitingyitingxiaozijizheimingxueshengdetiyiba：

一、提升 你一直在喜爱的男士心中中的服务质量。

 yixienanhaizizaitanlianaiyiduanshijianyihou，jiuburongyizaijingchanglianluoni，yehenyoukenengshiyouyutabixufenlichulaiyibufenhuoli，qujiejuegongzuo。

 jiaruzheishihou，nibaoyuantabulini，bujiangnifangzaixinli，fandaohuishitaganjueniwuliqunao。danjiarunijiweizuodoubunao，haihuijixuzaiweixinpengyouquangongxiangyundongjianshendexiangpian、pengzhidetesemeishi，juhuideweixiaozheixie，shizhongbaochizishendeyouhuoli。

 tabianhuiganjuenishiyigejidandu，feichanghuixiangshourenshengdehaonvren，ruguonibazijideshiyongjiazhitigaodaoyidingshuipingshi，jiusuanshihuiladoukeyixiyinzhudaota。

 yaolejie，jibenshangmeiyouyigenanshengnenggoubaozhengyibeizidouchongzhenide，tayeqidaikeyihuodeshouyi。yinci ，niyinggaigesanchawudejitamenyidianershunxiangganenhuikui，zheileishunxiangganenhuikuizuihaojingshenshizhishangde。

 liru，tasongnijinrucheneihuoshipeizheniguangjiegouwushi，nixuyaoxiexieta，kuata：“xuduo nanhaizidoubugaoxingpeinvyouguangjiegouwuni，nikeyipeiwoganjuehaoxingfua!”

 yeyouzaitadebinghuoshimangdeqingkuangxia，nixuyaoduozhaoliaotayidian，danbubiguoduotouru，buyongjitamendangma。lingwaihaiyaozhaoliaotadetihui，huoshilejieta，caihuishitaganjuenibutongxunchang。

二、加强自身优点，提高内在价值感。

 pingchangliuyiquwajuezishendeyoudian，xiangyixiangniyoushenmeyangdezuodebijiaohaode，bubijiaotiaozhuyidejuedejinyouzaojiuleshiyongjiazhidecaisuanshiyoudian。

ruguoninenggaohaodequanshiyoudian，liru：

youqihuijiansuo，xiangzhaoshenmexinxidounengwadao;

youqihuizhufan，jibian shijiachangxiaochaoyezuodeshifenshuangkou;

youqihuipouxitarendeshi，changchangzhaodaojiejuedefangshi……

 zheizhongquanshiyoudian，nenggouduoquxunlianjiaqiangta，yaolejiemeishenmezhuanyejinengshimeiyongde，ruguoniqueshihenqiangshi，niyejiuhuifajuezheizhongyoudian，yiyoutakuozhandediqu。