花镇情感咨询大曝光 该如何尽快推进关系？

 woshiyimingshineishejishi，sanshiwusui，hezhunnanpengyoushigenjupenyoulejie，tabiwoxiaoliangsui，huazhenqingganzixundapuguang，lejiehaozhangshijianyiduanshijianle。nuanweiduo，lianrenweiman，nanyituidongguanlian。

jiaoshi，wogaizabanni?yinweinianlingwenti，woyizhihenbuzixin，yizhibutaiganbiaoshuxinlideniantou，yaoqiuyeshizhizibuti。

jiaoshi，woqueshihenjiaolvqingxu，nianjijinguanhenda，ganqingjingliquehenshao，wogaizenyangtuidongwomendeguanxini?

nuanweiduo，lianrenweiman，yinggaizenmeban?

 yizhishikunhuonvhaibijiaoduodenanti，neixinmiandehuidayizhishi，taruguoaiwo，bianhuijiji，meiyoujiji，kenengshibuaiwo。naizhicengjingdewoyouxuesheng，haiyouyunanhaizibugaobai，nuanweiqingkuangtaicuican，lijimalenanhaiziyitonghuaxinnan，balingyifangjiaruheimingdan，laosibuxiangwanglai。

weishenmelianggerennuanweixujiu，bianshijibenxiangtongguanlian?huoxuheyixiajigefangmianxiangguan：

1.男孩子，就应当积极

zaiaiqingwentishang，nvhaiguangfanyouyizhongluojisiwei：nanhaizijiuyingdangjiji。

 nanhaiziyingdangjijisongliwujinvhai;nanhaiziyingdangquzhuinvhaizi;nanhaiziyingdangqugennvshengbiaobai……zongeryanzhi，nanhaiziyaojiji。

 shehuijingjifazhan，nvhaitiantianyaominzhuziyou，danshitanlianaishi，quebazijifangdaolieshiyingxiangli，kanqilaiyixiemaodun，duima?

 danquehandeshi，xuduo zhuangkuangxia，nanhaiziyehuichuxianyiyangdegousi，zheiyinvhaihenyoukenengnanyizhui，jiaruruguoxihuanwo，weishenmeyizhibengzhe，buzhudongyixie?zuizhong，liangrendouhuixianghuzhijiancaixiangzhong，annaibuzhupiqi，laosibuxiangwanglai。

2.她不爱我

 mowenyuyoushougequ，jiao《tabuaiwo》，zaiqizhongyougequgecishuo，shizhijinkoudeqingkuangxiataiqingleng，xiangyongdeqingkuangxiabuzuaijin，tabuaiwo。

 zainannvaimeishiyejingchangyouneiyangdenanti，tayaoshizhuyaobiaoxiandehewojuededebuyiyang，bianshibuaiwo。shehuixinlixueshangyouyigexinliguocheng，chengwei“zishenzhengshi”xinlizhuangtai。

 dangtingjianlingyifangjiyubuquelideliangsanjushi，tongchangxiangzishenlejiedefangweiqufanfutuiqiao。ruguonijuedelingyifangmeiyouainineimeduodeqingkuangxia，jiuguanchalianggerenhudongjiaoliuquanguochengzhongdeyixiedian，jinerlaizhengshi，lingyifangdequemeiyouneimashandaiziji。

 danggangkaishitichuzhiyilingyifangshibushishandaizijideqingkuangxia，yejinxingleziwofouding，liru，xiangkaichangzhongzixunzhedetijidenanti，wonianjibianda，henyoukenenglingyifanghuizaihu。

 huazhenqingganzixundapuguang，wobuzenmehuifayan，henyoukenengbingbushihentaolingyifangxiai，henyoukenengtabutaishuoaiwo，yinci caibuzhejiquedingguanxi。neijirantadoubuaiwo，neimewoganshenmehaijiji，duodiumianziya。

3.想的太多

shehuixinlixueshangmianyouneiyangyileiren，beichengzuo“gaomingan”deren。

 qichanshengdeguanjianyuangushiqueshaozixin，wujietarendeyongyihegerenxingwei，rangzishenhelingyifangxiangchushishenxiankunjing，yizhiyurangzishenshenxianshenshendidexiaojibeiguan。

 ergaochaoganxingderen，zuituxiandetedian，bianshixiangdetaiduo。kaichangzhongtidaodenvhai，huixiangzishennianjida，huiganjuezishenhenyoukenengmeiyouneimataorenxihuan，haipabiaoshuzishendeyaoqiuheniantou。

yaolejie，nanhaiziyebushinidulidejishengchong，henyoukenengyebuzhidaonideyoulvqianwan。

rutongliya，tayongdezheixiezhaoshuhefangfadequejuyouleyidingdegongxiao，keshiquebukeyirangguanlianzhangjiudefazhanqushixialai。

 erqie，duitaeryanzuikongbudeshi，neiyangyicicidefenshoufuhe，jidadihaofeiqianrenduizishendexinrenganshuiping，rangmeiyicitichufenshoudouhaoxiangpansixing，gengweizhongletadejiaolvqingxu。

 youyutazishenneixinyeqingxi，yexuzhidaoqiannanyoucongcibuyuanyijianxinzijideqingkuangxia，zheiyiduanqingganbianhuimaixiangzuihoutichufenshoudejieguo。

 nanhaiziyoushimeiqujijiquedingguanxi，shijishangyeshiyouhenyoukenenghuicunyouziwofouding，yebixulejienideniantouheyongyi，caiganjinxingjinyibudexingdong。

haijide，zainixiangdetaiduodelingwai，lingyifangyehenyoukenenghuixiangxuduo e。

 ruguonijuedelianggerendeguanlianzaoyifazhanqushidaotanlianaideshike，lingyifangquezishizhizhongmeiyouxiayibuxingdong，hebusisuoyixiashangbiandeyuangu。