轻松化解男人冷暴力，花镇情感靠谱吗？

 “woliangzhongjianweiyidexinyoulingxishiwomeilita，tayebuliwo。”huazhenqinggankaopuma？xunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxia，tahetadelaogongzaoyilengbaolihenjiu，2gebanyuemeiyoushuoguoyiqieyijuhuale……

 hunyinshenghuozhongzaisuonanmianyoudiediezhuangzhuang，dan，xuduo qingkuangxia，dangfufubicipengdaowufagoutongjiaoliudefenqishi，xiaoxiaosasadidachaoyijiayuanbifenbiebiezhubuzuoshengyaogengfeichangrongyixunzhaojiejuefangan。

 neima，zaiyingduinanshengjiatinglengbaolishi，nvxinggaizenyangjiejuecaikeyijijiejuelenanti，hainengrangliangrendeganqingtiwen，shitagengaizhenini?

1)他不愿在情绪激动时损害你

rendaoqingxujidonghuoshiqingxushikongdeqingkuangxia，zuifeichangrongyizuochuzhuihuimojideshier。

 tebieshizainanshengyushengjulaijiubinvxinggengjubeigongjinengli，tamenyegengweiqingxizishendezhenzhengxingqing，tamendanxinyidanchanshengzhenshidezhengzhi，huikongzhibuzhuzishendexintaisunhaidaoni，yinci tamenhuibipozishenpingjingxialai，yuelaiyuejianmo。

shide，nimeiyoukancuo，youshinanshengdejianmoshijishangshizaiyongtadefangfaaixizheni。

jinjindabufennvxingbukeyilejienanshengdezheicenghanyi，zaitamenyanzhong：jianmo=buxihuanta。

 yinciyuexiangyueqi，yingduinanshengdejianmo，meiridouhuibaozoudebianyanxingzou，yizhixiangganxieshierzaochengnanshengdeliuyi，weicilaizhengshinanshenghaishenaizhezishen。

2)对你如果不爱了

haowuyiwen，jiatinglengbaolishinanxingyongyubinvrentichufenshoudechangyongzhaoshu。

 dangnanrenduinvrennile、yibudonglexin，tamenxuduo qingkuangxiaburongyijijititichufenshou，zhishiyongjiatinglengbaolibinvrentitichufenshou。

neiyangdejiatinglengbaoliyibanyouneiyangjileizhuyaobiaoxian：

 ①ba“mang”guazaizuishang。burongyiweilegenghaodipeizhenihuijueduoyudejiaoji，huijingchangdejiabanjiadian、gongchu，nishaoyoumaiyuan，tabianhuiyi“mang”weiyuanyin，saizhuniyaoshuodequanbudehua。

 ②buhuiyingxinxineirong。nijitamenfatiaoxinxineirong，tayaobudangmeikanjianbuhui，yaobugehenjiuhenjiucaifuyanleshidehuiyige“ng”“e”“hao”，qieneiyangdezhuangkuangbingbushiouyouchansheng，zhishibuduankaizhanzhe。

③juebujijilianluoni。nimeijijilianluota，tarutongxiaoshileyiyang，juebunengjijilailianluoni。

 ④shilengshire。duinidexintaiyaoshitadeqingxuerding，taxinqingyukuaijiudouniwanyixia，xinqingyumenjiuduiniwudongyuzhong，neiyangfanfu，shilengshire。ruguonizongsuanchibuxiaotifenshoudeshihou，tahuiguoduanditongyi。

niduitasixintadi，taganjueniwuguanjinyao，nifanganzhejianglai，taquefangancehuazheliqu。

解决困难

jiranyuanguzhaodao，neimaduizhengzhiliaojiukeyile。

1)jiarutashiyouyubuyuansunhainicaitiaoxuandejianmo，nidejiejuefangshiyinggaishi：huanweisikaoyixia，congtadeshijiaolejieta。

 yibanyouzheileizhuyaobiaoxianderen，xingqingdoujiaoweineixiangxingfengbishi，tamenzaipengdaonantideqingkuangxiagengxihuanduziyirenchuli，jiarunanyijiejue，jiuguoduanzhuyigeyuanqiang，suozailimianbuchulai。

zheigeshihou，zuoweilaopoheairen，yingdangjitamenduoyidianjili，shaodianchize，shundaizhaoyigejietirangliangrenhehaoruchu。

huazhenqinggankaopuma？wangjilezainaerkanleneiyangyigegushi：

yiduifuqidachaodanaoleyijiahougangkaishilengbaoli，laogongzuozhedaketingshengqi，laopodaizaiwofangjinbifangjianmen。

 jiushizheiyangduizhilebantianyihou，laopocongwofangchuqu，yizheyitiaolasuozaibeibudezhangqun，zhijielaidaozhangfumianqiandunxiaqu，shouzhizhibeibuxianglaogongqiuzhu，laogongyexinzhaobuxuan，banglaopobalasuolahaoyihou，chenjibalaopoyongruhuaili，liangrenzhongguiyuhao。

shijishangxuduo qingkuangxia，yidiandiandaotui、yidiandianlejie，liangrenjiunengdakaixinfei，xiangaihexie。

2)jiarutaduiniruguobuaile，xiangyaojiatinglengbaolibinitichufenshou，cikenijiuxuyao：bawoganqingdezhudaoquan。

jiaruzainanshenglengdannideqingkuangxia，nimeitianyuantianyouren、jijixiangtatitichufenshou，jiuqiahaoheletadeqingyi。

 fanguolaide，nijiaruzaizheishihouzhanshichuzishendegaoaozida，chedibuguanzhutalengdannideshier，gaigongzuozhonggongzuozhong、gaiguangjiegouwuguangjiegouwu、gaijuhuihuodongjuhuihuodong，fandaohuijifananshengdehaoqixin，tahuichuaimonideyongyi，shitazaiciduinikaizhanxintaixiangmutouzi。