怎样沟通让你们越“谈”越甜蜜？花镇情感靠谱吗？

 huazhenqinggankaopuma？xuduo nvshengzaihoutaiguanlibangwoliuyanbanliuyanshuo，benshenbiaozhunfeichanghaokeshiyizhibeiduanze，benlaizishenbudiweiheyizhimeifayouzheyiduanchijiutanlianai，buqingchuyijingkanwenzhangneirongdejinigantongshenshouma?jinriwoyelaihedahuoerpouxiyixiazheigewenti。

 xueshengnana，richangshenghuozaiyixianchengshi，shiyimingzhongxuejiaoshi，youfangyoucheyouwendinggongzuo，33suidenianling，jiaoguonanyou，danjiaowangzhongyizhibunenggoubaochipingwendehunyinguanxi。xianjieduanhenanpengyoudeganqingyeshichuyuyaoyaoyuzhuidehuanjie，nanahenpazheiyicihuanshibunenggouchijiudetanlianai。

yinci jiudaizhunantigandaoletanlianaifazhanxuehao，qidaidajianengxiezhutajiejuekunnan，zhutazaiganqingdelumianshangfazhan。

 yutagoutongjiaoliulejihuiyihou，dajiazhangwodaoshijishangnanashigehentaoyangoutongjiaoliudenvsheng，zuoshiqingyizhiyoudianerfeilibutaohaodehanyi。youyuyizhiyilainanadouxiguanduobanshibuhangsheng，yinci zaocheng zhihoutanlianaishi，gennanpengyoujiaowangqilaiyizhichuxiangezhonggeyangnanti。

 youyicinanyouyuetaquwan，nanpengyouxiangyaoqukanzuqiubisai，nanaganjuequbuqudoukeyi，jiumeijianghua。nanpengyourenweibuhangshengbianshibuyuanqu，yishifahuojiulikai，yelideqingkuangxianananazhezuqiubisaimenpiaofeijinanpengyoutongdianhuajieguoneilixianshixinxidaiji，nanajiushangxinyujue。

 shijishangnanabaokaoxueleyihou，zaixiangwomiaoshushierdelijingshi，wokeyijuedetashixianghenanpengyouyouhuide，keshimeiyicidouyouyubudanggoutongjiaoliuzaocheng youhuikaizhanbuxialai，nanaxianzailiangjihuaquanziyulaiyubuzixin，zaocheng nanpengyouyeganjuezishenbingbushizuiheshinanaderen。liangrendeganqingyeyulaiyudanle。

jinrihedahuoerjianyigongxiang2gexiaoqiaomen：

1.非语言沟通的改进方式

 zaigoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong，dajiahuiyongerzhonggerenxingweifangfabiaoshuzishen，bianshiyuyangerenxingweihefeiyuyangerenxingwei，yaoshizaizheilierzhonggerenxingweizhongjinliangqingchubuqingchu、bujingquedechengfen，jiunenghelidijiangdixiangchuzhongdejiedi。

 dajiaxianlaizhangwofeiyuyangerenxingwei。zuixian，heyuyangerenxingweiyiyang，feiyuyangerenxingweiyejubeichushixinxidezuoyong，tanenggouzhanxianchudajiadeqingxuzhuangtaihezhenzhengyongyi。

 liru，youshihoudajiahetarenwanxiao，huijiangchushifendezuidaobierendehua。erzheishihoujiarulingyifangyaofenbiandajiashibushiyouchengjian，dajiajianghuadeshengdiao、jiezouganhelianbuqingxujiubianchengzhongyaodeanjianxiansuo。

 gengshidajiafukuadeyuqihehanyouxiaoyedexiaobiaoqing，huazhenqinggankaopuma？ranglingyifanglejiedaowomendoushizaiwanxiao，jiuburongyijuedefahuo。

 feiyuyangerenxingweidezheiyizuoyongyouweizhongyao，yinci dajiacaihuizaiwangluoliaotianshiyingyongemojilaixiaofangdajiadelianbuqingxu，jinerbiaoshuzishendezhenzhengyongyi。

 feiyuyangerenxingweinenggoubiaoluchudajiaduixianghudexingquaihao，jingchangzaiyikaishijiujueceledajiadegoutongjiaoliukefoukaizhanxialai。

 liru，nixinggaocailiediweiairenxushuzishendeniantou，quefajuelingyifangyagenmeiyouzaikanni，niyejiuhuimashangjuedexiaochennaizhinaonu。

 jiarulianaizhongdeliangrenduifeiyuyangerenxingweibuyongliuyi，jiuhenyoukenenghuizaochengxuduo wuhui，yehuijianshaohunyinguanxizhongdemanzuganhefuwuzhiliang。

 erjijizhudongdefeiyuyanhudongjiaoliu，nenggouranggoutongjiaoliudebicishikeganshoudaoxianghudexintai，lingrennenggoujingquedixunzhaolingyifangdexingquaihaodian，ranggoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuegengweijubeijiangshangshijiyiyi，jinershiquanbugoutongjiaoliuquanguochengshunchangerkaixindikaizhanxialai。

 shijishang，yingyongfeiyuyangerenxingweishijishangshirenmendebennengfanying，yaoshigoutongjiaoliushuangfangdouxixinkan、xixinting、renzhensikao，tamenzaifeiyuyangoutongjiaoliushangjiuyidingnengzuodegengqiang。

 bingqie，duibiluren，dajiayibannenggengshuliandijiangjieqinmiwujianairendefeiyuyangerenxingwei。yinci zaihunyinguanxizhong，feiyuyangerenxingweiyaobizaiyibanyurenxiangchuzhonggengweiguanjianyegengjiayouyiyi。

 rutongnana，yuanxianbushanyugoutongjiaoliu，lijingxuexipeixunyihou，rujinhuiyongxiaobiaoqinghegerenxingweilaichuansongzishendezhenzhengtihuile，geleyiduanshijian，tagenwoshuo：youyicitaouranjianpengchulenanpengyouyixia，nanpengyouhuranxiuseleqilai。jiushizheiyangliangrendeganqingjianjiandigangkaishitiwenle。

2.语言沟通的改进方式

dajiazaoyilejielefeiyuyangoutongdebiyaoxing，neimazaihunyinguanxizhong，yuyangoutongyouyoushenmeshijiyiyihefangfani?

 yuyangoutongshihunyinguanxizhongshifenguanjiandeyibufen，talijiweihaizhehunyinguanxidefazhanqushi。yuyangoutongshishishangshizaikaizhanyizhongzishenxianlu。shuobailezishenxianlu，bianshixiangbierenbiaolusirenxinxidegerenxingwei。

 tashikaoliangqinmiwujianshuipingdeguanjianzhibiaozhi，huanjuhuashuo，jinyouliangrenxianghuyouzheyixiegerende、xiangduixingmimidexinxineirong，tamendeguanliancaichengzhiweishiqinmiwujian。

 ziran，zaijutirichangshenghuo，dabufenrenjijiaowangshiyihuhuanqianbodexinxineirongweiqishidiande，suihouzaimanmanzhuandaogengjiayouyiyidehuatitaolunshang。

 huoxuninengwen：youshihouwobenlaijiangchulezhixinhua，qinfendexiangheairengoutongjiaoliu，jieguoquebururenyi，zheiyeshiweishenmeni?

 jiazhoudaxuedexuezhemenduiyucishikexueyanjiule30henduonian，zongsuanzhaodaolehuida，binghuizongchuleerzhongpubiandebuzhengqueyuyangoutongjiqiao。

 diyishiyaojingquelejieduifangdeyisi，diershiyaolijixianglingyifangchuandiguanxinhelejie，ranglingyifanglejiedajiazaihuta。(shijizheilianggebuzhengquegoutongfangshizenyangdiaozhengni?jiashangwenweixiaozhulihuode)

 guigenjiedigoutongjiaoliushizhenxinshiyihefangfaqueyibukedezaoxingyishu，lianghaodegoutongnengshiwomendehunyinguanxiyuelaiyuegengweishenxinjiankang，yekeyirangwomenderichangshenghuogengweixingfukuaile。

 nanashizhequzhenglilezishendegoutongfangshi，dajiayeweitaliangshendingzuoledingzhileyitaowennuanbiaodafangshi，nanahaiwanxiaoshuozheiyifangshixianggongshiyiyang，jishibuhuiliaotiandetadounengshuodehenjingcaifencheng，haishuozishenjinqihaoxiangfanhuilegangtanlianaideqingkuangxia。