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weihenanshengsonglibujijizhudong?

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huazhen lengaiweishenmeni?

有二种状况：

zhuangkuang1：huoxudajiaxianjieduandeqingganhuanjie，haibuyijijianshizheyaolipin。

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 zhuangkuang2：jishidajiaguanlianzaoyijiaoweishen，zaiyaolipinzheijianshiqingshangyiranyaobawonanrenxinli，caikeyidiaoqitamendezijuexing。

dangbeianshizheyaoxianglipindeqingkuangxia，nanshengneixinshizenmexiangdeni?

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jiandaozhei，nilejienanshengdezhenzhengxinlizhuangtaileba?

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