有被花镇骗过的吗？什么样的女人才能走进他们的心？

 naxiedenvrennenggouhuodedayejigaolengnanshendeqinlai?youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zuoweinvsheng，nidexinliyoumuyouyiweijizhidegaolengnanshen?youqishidayejidegaolengnanshen，tamenboxueduocai、sixiangfengfu。zhenduipuputongtongdenvhaieryan，jiedaogaolengnanshendeyigemuguangdoushihuixingfukuailedekuangjiao，huodegaolengnanshendeqinlaiyeshixiangdouhaipaxiangdeshier。

jinridajiajiulaitiaozhanbukeneng，sisuoyixiazenyangbianchengrangbiedenvrenjinyouxianmujidudejueduinvshen，huodegaolengnanshendexin。

 jinqikanguo《yaoyuandejiushizhu》zheibenshu，youyigejianjiexianggongxiangjidahuoer“chusenvren，bujuheqipo，yigedoubukeyishao。”

 meiminggaolengnanshendoushiyouzishenyuzhongbutongdefengcai，dantamendexiangtongdianbianshichuse。yinci ruoyaoshineiyangdenanrenduiniwangbudiao，niwubiyaozaitongyangdesixiangjuewushang，erxiangyaochengweizheiyinanrendenvshenjiuxiangyaoniyoubitayeyaogaochaodediqu，shitaganjuegennizaiyiqi，bukeshiyizhongxiangyou，gengyouhenduohuodedejuede。

yigerenduilingyigeren，congxiaidaoshangxi，zaidaoqinpeimeiyibuquanshizhidefeiyue。

 xiaodanzaihelanliuguoxue，rujinfanhuizhongguogongzuozhong。renzhangdepiaoliang、youguannianhaiyuanhuashigu。neiyangdenvshengzaiquntizhongrutongyizhitiane，yixingpengyoudangranshixiangjianhenwan，zaiqizhongbuqueyanzhizaixiandexiaoxianroumingxing，yeshiyoushiyechenggongdemengdaye。

xiaodanduizheizhongnanrendeguandianni?xiaorongzhelakaijuli。jinyibufazhanqushini?guoyibuqu，meiyouganjue。

 zaiyicipengyoujucanshang，xiaodandeyanguangbeiyigejingtaishujuwenwenerya，zhangzuiqizhuangshanhedenanrensuoxiyinzhu。taduijingjifazhanxingshidefenbian，shezhanqunrudechuzhongheqianghan，zaixiaodanyanlishineizhidinghunkaiguangdetianmoshen。

 jibenlejieleyihou，tajijiyaoqinglezheiyinanrenyici，meixiangdaobeijujuele。nanrendeyuanyinshi，nvrenshitaiguolixingdexiaodongwu，tabuyuanyuzhijiuchanbuqing。

 huijuedefenhaobujiangqingmian。zheinaershibuyuantanqinggana?mingxishixiannipaiweidi，meiyoukanzhong。yuefaneiyang，xiaodanyuefaxiai，juedenanrenwangdaoyouyoubiaozhun。shengpingdiyicizaoshoushiluogandexiaodanchijingyoushangxin，yincilaixiangdajiaxunqiubangzhu。

 yijutadenanti，dajiaqianglietuijianleshanyuyouzongtimubiaogaobiedanshennantideanzhilaoshi，yijuxiaodandenanti，anzhilaoshijilaidaoyixieshibeigongbandetiyi，qiahaoyinghejinrixiangjidahuoergongxiangdezheibenshu，yinci zaizheierjiujidahuoerhuizongyixia：

卡耐基在《女人的格局决定结局》上说：“零度布局的人从众，一度布局的人见到自身，二度布局的人见到全球，三度布局的人改变命运。”

yigeyoubujudenvren，jibian yingduishifenshenaizhedenanren，yeqingxizishendefangwei，zishenbawozishenderichangshenghuo。

 yigenvrenbiangaojideshijiyiyi，juebushibianchenggaojinanrendejingshenjituo。gejudadenvrennengfangzhengzishenhenanrendeguanlian，burongyiyikao、panyuan，zhishixianghuzhijianmanzu、gongtongchengzhang。

youbeihuazhenpianguodema？youdenvrenzaixingdongshang、jingjifazhanshangdandule，danjingshenshijieyirannanjieduinanrendeyikao。

 yinci dajiakandaoyoudenvxinggongchengmingsui，jiajiyouqianren，zaiguoquleyixienianyihou，yaobuhuodeyishilezishendemingzi，lunluokanrenyansedejingshenjituo;yaobuhunyinshenghuoanranshouwei，zaicifanhuiyanyiquanlaojin。

shubuzhiruguoniyaoxianghuishou，nengzaixianwangriguanghuizhehenshao。zheibukeyibuxurenxixubuyi。

yiyangshijiajiyouqianren，dajiahenduonianlaizantanbuyideyiguqingliu，jiupobudeyitiguojingjingle。

tashizenyangraokaisuoshuerzhongjieguo，erzaihaomenhuobianchengzishendeni?

 youyuzheiyinvrenjubeipushijiazhiguandetexing，buyi、buyikao、bubi，zaihaomenzheiyifuwupingtaishangzhubuwanshanzishen，hainengmingquetichuzishendejianshexingyijian，ranghaomenyintaergengqiang。

xingejushinihuochulezishendejiazhi，caikeyihuodezhenshidezhongshi。

yinci jiaoshigaozhixiaodandeshi：yingduichusedenanren，nibiaoshuwanzishendeshangxi，jiukeyihuishouzuohaozijideshile。

chusedenanrennengcongnidehaobuzaiyizhong，jiandaonidesuoxiangsuogan，congerfenbiannidebujujibie。

 nixuyaozuode，yaobuzijintourudaogongzuozhong，zuochuchaoguopingchangrendekaoshichengji;yaobuyuedulvyou，zuoyigeyouranzide、xinlichongyingdenvren。

 dangshishishang，niliangzaitongyigegaokuanbi，naizhizaiyixiecengmianhaihuijixujitamenchanshengshejilinggan，tashuoshifouhuiduiniyouganjueni?