qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?jinqijiandaoyijuhenzhaxindehua“youqingyishang,lianrenweiman,buganxinpenyou,haipalianren”。
jinguantingqilaihensong,danzheihaoxiangqueshibianchengleyizhongfazhanqushi,yiweizhezhemuqianfeichangdayibufenrendeqingganxiankuang。
youxierenfannaoyu“zenyangtishengtongxueguanxi,shengjibianchengqinglv”,youxierendanyoudanxin“dangbuleqinglv,penyoudouwufazuo”,yeyourenkegumingxinganshoule“yuanxianmeizigechidecu,queshizuishixinsuan”。
diediezhuangzhuang,henduorenchajuezijishi“jinyibumeizige,tuiyibuyoubushede”,shenxianlezheileiwoxiangshuita,taquezhiweiyuwodangpenyoudenankanchujing。
congshehuixinlixueshijiaopouxi,ruguonineiyangxiangdeqingkuangxia,niyejiushenxianle“youqingqu”。
hanyishizhi,zaitongxueguanxizhong,nizuixianfaxianzishenzaochenglechaoguoyouyideqinggan,qidaixianghubujinzuopengyou;erlingyifangbuqingchunideqinggan,huoshizaoyikaolvyuzhizuopengyoudexiankuang,buyuanyijinyibufazhanqushi。neimacike,niyejiushenxianle“youqingqu”。
keguanxingeryan,zheileiqingkuangshishifenshoujinzhemode,jiuhaoxiangxinjihuoliao,rangrenbuduanchuzaiyigehushanghuxiadeqingkuang。xintaihuiyuelaiyuebijiaominganbianhuaduoduan,meiridouchuaizhezhezishendexiaoqingyi,youyubuding,yihuierduizishenjilijiayoudaqiganjuelingyifangshixiaizishende,yihuierhuixinsangqideweizijilengyanlengyu。
danniruobushigaijinzheileizhuangkuang,shijianjiule,nidefumianqingxuyehuiweihaidaolingyifang,jianjiandihaofeixianghudehaogandu。
tuodaozuizhong,budanshiqutishengguanliandejiyu,gengyoukenengshiqueshirangguanlianmaixiangmotu,lianpenyoudouzuobule,naizhijiusuanmubiaobushita,duilingyigerenyebukeyiquanqingyidejindaodaoyiduanqingganle。
shuodaozhei,yerangwoxiangqilexiaochuandexiaogushi。xiaochuandiyicipengdaoshixiongshizaitongxianghuishang,zhihouyouyucanjiajicengdangjiangongzuodeguanlian,liangrenlianluomanmanzengjia。yikaishixiaochuanyejinjinbashixiongdangpenyou,chedimeiduoxiangganshenme。
kezhihoujiaowangjiule,xiaochuanfajueshixiongbudanqinfenhaoxue,weirenchushiwenxunyoushan,jiulianjuhuihuodongdoushihuifenpeiyuliuchesongheduoledetongxuehuijiale,neiyangdexiaoguanjiandianshenshendidexiyinzhulexiaochuan,rangxiaochuanxiaishanglingyifang。
kebuxingdeshi,wulunxiaochuanruhejiechuan,shixiongdouzhuyaobiaoxianchuyifu,wobanizuohaopenyoudexintai。xiaochuanyoujiyouqi,keyebuzhidaogaizaban?
henxianzhuxiaochuanpengdaodezhuangkuang,bianshishenxianle“youqingqu”dedianxingxingyuzhao。ziran,“youqingqu”yeshiyoubuyiyangdezhonglei,yijuxiangchumoshidebuyiyang,jiaoshizaizheierjidahuoerhuizongle3zhongpubiande“youqingqu”zhonglei。
1、“好兄弟”型友情区
duidabufenshenxian“youqingqu”denvhaimeneryan,dayuedoushihuibeilingyifangbiaoshang“haoxiongdi”、“jiyou”“haomeimei”zheileidejiaofa。
erwangwangchuxianneiyangdeqingkuang,shijishangjiaoda deyuanguhenkenengbianshinizaiyikaishibingmeiyoukaolvlingyifangzhaoduixiangdebiaozhun,yinci weiquqiuquandebianchengleshuobaile“zuihaodepengyou”deguanlian。
rutongyoukexueyanjiudiaoyanfajue,yibanlejiebushang9geyuejiugangkaishiyouhuidelianren,tongchangbiaomianyouhuolishuizhunshishifenxiangfangde。yejiushishuo,zhangxiangxiangfangderen,huixunsubeixianghuxiyinzhujindaotanlianai,eryizhichuzaipenyou,wufajindaotanlianaidezhuangkuang,youfeichangdayibufenyuangu,dayuebianshiyouhuolibuzu。
2、功能性友情区
zheileiyouqingguanlian,tongchangchuangjianzaiyou“li”ketudejibenshang,lirunishanyupsxiutu,huoshiweixiudiannao,huoshifabiaowenzhangwenbihaozheileide,zongeryanzhinidemouzhongzhuanyejinengnenggouxiezhudaolingyifang。
feichangjiandandeshili,nishifouhaijidenianshuneihui,banjizonghuiyouyilianggeyouyujingchangjibiedetongxuechaozuoye,erhuodedahuoeryouqingderenduibudui?zheileiyouqingbianshidianxingxingdegongnengxingyouqingle。
yinci jiarunifajue,nixinaidemubiaoyizhijiaonibangtazheiyibangtaneige,danbianshibuyunifazhanqushiguanlian,neidaduoshulingyifangshijiangnidanggegongjurenzaiyingyongle,yejiushishuo,nishenxianlegongnengxingyouqingqu。
qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?gengbeiaideshi,danglingyifangjiangnizuoweigongjuren,yeyebujiaoliuhuigujinidetihuile。henyoukenengtazijiwuqulekongxujimo,jiuyuenishuoshuohua;yuenvwangyuebuchulaixinlinanshoudeqingkuangxia,jiuyuenipincoushu。
ruojiushiniyinershangxin,yaoxiangjinyibufazhanqushiguanlian,jijizhudongzhaotadeqingkuangxia,tabidingjiasi,zhaojiekou,gezhonggeyangbulicai。
3、暖味型友情区
tangruonifajuexinaidemubiaoyuniwuhuabushuo,xixiwanshua,xianliaoliaodehuobao,yehuiduinixiangmutouzi,doubudichurentideqinjin,danbianshibuchuoponeicengchuangzhi,jinihuanghuanghuhudemobutoutadeniantou。
jianyanzhibianshihanzhepenyoudechenghao,ganzhelianrendeshier,neimenidagaibianshishenxianleaimeixingdeyouqingqu。
yinci ,jiarunibeijushenxianle“youqingqu”yaoxiangbaituokunjing,neimejiudeduizhengzhiliao。dajiadoulejiecongtongxueguanxishengjiqinglvguanlian,zuiqianquebianshixiongxingheermengdexiyinzhu。yinci zhongzhongzhizhongbianshi,baituoyuanyoupinpaixingxiang,xiangbanfazaicishengchanzhizaoxiongxingheermengdexiyinzhu。
yibanlaishuo,dangliangrenzaoyichanshenglepengyoujiaowangdexiguanxingfangshi,xianghuzailingyifangyanzhongyehuizaochengyuanyoupinpaixingxiang,erzheiyipinpaixingxiangjiubianchenglexiandingguanlianfazhanqushidezuizhongyaoyaosu。
youderenhenyoukenenghuidanyou,qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?baituozheiyipinpaixingxianghenjiannan,yedanyougenggaiyihoulingyifangwufajiena,yinci yizhigubuzifeng,meifatuidongguanlian。
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