花镇收费5900之感情里自吞委屈一万次

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nv：buxiangjiehunjiutichufenshou?!

nan：hao!fenkaijiufenkai!

 33suidexiaoyan，gaodengyuanxiaobenshuobodaxuebiye，juzhumeiguohuashengdungaokexueyanjiu，nianxin100wan，shineileidianxingxingdegaoshiyongjiazhinvhai。

kerangrenyixiangbudaodeshi，suirantazheibanchuse，nanpengyouquebuyuanyiqu。

 xiaoyandenanpengyouaidenshiyingguodangdiren，hetayiyangchuse，caisanshiwusuijiubianchengleqiyedegaocengzhuzhaiguanlifangfa，zhenzhenshinianfuliqiang!

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对，她想尽早完婚!

 dannanpengyouaidenyouyuyiqianhunyinpolie，jiqiershidexinlichuangshang，henquefaanquangan，xinlihenbijiaomingan，duihunyinshenghuonaizhiyixiehaipa。

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yinci，jihuijijitiwanhunbeijujuehou，xiaoyangengxinjile。

她传出最终的通牒：

“yaobuniquwodechengshirichangshenghuo，wonengkaolvdaolinshibuxiangjiehun?

要不大家就完婚!

否则就提出分手!”

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但如今，她慌了!

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为何?

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danzainanrenyanzhongjiubianchengle“henjia”：

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1.“摆脱负面信息预测，引起好奇心”

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zheizaishehuixinlixueshangyejiao“baituofumianxinxiyuce”。

rutongtianxinbaobeijiaoshijiaoxiaoyande：

“yaoxiangbaituoqiannanyouduidajiadefumianxinxiyuce，zhibixujitamenchixudeshengchanzhizaochuxianyiwai。”

 shengchanzhizaochuxianyiwaideyichujiuqujueyu，tahuibaituoqiannanyoudeyuanyourenzhinengli，jinerduinizaochengxindexiwang。(shijizenyang“baituofumianxinxiyuce”，rangnanrenzaiciaishangleni?wenweisaoerweimalijiehuidayouxiangxishuoming)

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