我在花镇购买了感情咨询服务，摆脱“吸渣”体质？

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juedaduoshurenzhenduinvhaimendezaoshouhuibiaoshiweiwen，keshiyeshiyoukeguandenanshengbiaoming：

jiaruyigenvshengbiancheng“zhananshougeji”，neimahetazishenyeshiyouyidingdeguanlian，bukeyibasuoyouyiwutuijinansheng。

shuodaozheier，dajiaxiantaolunyixiaxizhatizhishizenmelaide?

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 zhihouni，tatiaoxuanbizishenchadenansheng，gangkaishideqingkuangxiaduitafeichanghao，danguobushangdabannianyegangkaishiyuelaiyuemankouhuangyan。

xixinlejielejiaowangguanjiandian，wofaxianlemengmengdazaichuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，youneiyanghaoduogetexing：

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 2、zaihenanpengyoudejiaowangquanguochengzhong，meiyoudixianhebiaozhun，yiweiderongrenherangbu，liruduitabaolixingweidenansheng，guohouguixiachengrencuowu，likejiuyourouguaduankuanrong，zaocheng yierzaizaiersandezaoshousunhai。

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neizaishenghuoqijuzhong，lianaizhong，dajiaruhequfangzhiyudaozhanan?gaijinzishendexizhatizhini?

●最先是在谈恋爱以前先留够对男生的观察期

 dajiakexueyanjiuzheixieyudaozhanandenvhai，youyigexiangtongdianbianshibieryuanzhi，xunsujindaoyiduanlianaiguanxi。neiyangjiuzaocheng yifangmianzhenduinanshengdezhangwoheguanchabugou，dengyishidaolingyifangshihuaxinnandeqingkuangxia，zaoyizijintourulebijiaoduodechendianchengben，youmeiyoujianhaojiushoudedanliangheqipo。

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neizaizheigeguanchaqiwomenyaoguanchaxieshenme?

能看他干了哪些。

 guanjiandianchongfentixianyigerendefengcai，zhenshiaizheniderenburongyiyizhikuishiniderenti，tahuizhongshizishenqingkuangle，huishidangdigennikaizhanzhitijiechu，huibiguoquduinigengweinuanxin，xiangyaohuashijianquyunyingniduitadexinrengan。

●次之能够听一听他共享哪些

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●随后能够尝试融进他的社交圈。

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 yizhongbushiquelidedixian，liruyaoshandaiziji，yaogujiajiaju，yaoduizishenhaozheixie。dixianjinjinyijuzishengerenqingkuangweizijihuadeyitiaojingjiexian，natiaoxianbianshigaozhizishen，daomouyidiqudajiagaigupiaozhisunle。

 neizaiqingganzhongyebixuzuoyigeyoudixianderen，youdixianderenyouzishendebiaozhun，yegengnengrangtarenzhongshi，jishisunhaichansheng，yekeyicaozongzaiyidingfanchounei。

 ermeiyoudixianderen，duizishenbuzaihu，neitarenyehuiyongbuzaihudexintailaiduini，zuihoubianweiyigehaoqiyaderen;yituizaitui，yirenzairen，zongshirangzishenshenxiangenggaodesunhaizhong。

 zhenshikebeidebingbushineirenzenmekeyineiyangduini，neiyangsunhaini，zhishiniyibuyibuchengshou，ruheyemeiyoushenmeyongqiheqipoliqulingyifang。

●最终便是想和你在一起他人以前，先好好爱自己。

satiyashuoguo：yusuoyourenenai，quanshiyuzishenenaidelingyizhongfangshi。

yueshandaizijidenvxing，yuebuhaipayudaozhanan。eryuefaquefaanquangandenvxing，yuefeichangrongyiyudaozhanan。