wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu,zixunzhong,changchangtingjiannvhaimaiyuan:gaobiedanshenqueshishizhendehennan,xuduo nvhaiyeshimutaisolo,naizhiersanshinianyemeiyoutanguotanlianai。
tamenjingchangshuo:“qidaiwoshiyigejinidongxinderen,erbushihengliangxuanzepouxiliyubihou,ganjuefeichanghaoderen。”huoshibingzhepengdaofeichanghao,yubushangladaodefoxingxinlizhuangtai,yizhidanshenzhe。
tamenhuishulizishenmutaisoloshiyouyubuyuancouhe,keshizaibierenlaikan,chunsuishixiaitadetaqiaobuqi,takandeshangdeyouyizhitaoyanta,zaixiangqinyuehuijienaizhiguangweiliuchuanzheyijuhua:sanshisuidegaolingmutaisolobilihundaizhuxiaohaihuoshishierhundenvxinggengjiakongbu。
youyunanshengganjuemutaisolomeiyoutanguotanlianai,duiganqingqidaiguogao,diaoshihemoheqidechengbenfeihaibibushanglijizhaoyigelilehundenvxing,zhishaoyougongzuojingyan,jiaowangqilaijieshengchengben。
mutaisoloqueshineimekongbuma?yaoxianggaobiedanshenqueyizhiyubushangshihejiujingyinggaizenmeban?denglezheimeduoniannandaoshuoyaorangbuma?niyaoranggaobiedanshenyuelaiyuexiangdiaofayiyangqingqingsongsongma?
jinrijiugendahuoerjiangxiagaolingmutaisolozenmecainengkuaisugaobiedanshen?
xueshengxiliu2020nian31,peixunjigoujiaoshi,yuegongzi8000+,zhangxiangzhongdengshuiping,shenxingyiban,xingqingyixiechenwen,ningjingdebiaomianxia,youkezaodongdexin。
tabingbuneixiangxingkuzao,gaoxiaodeqingkuangxiachurenguowenhuayulekezhang,gongzuozhongshiyechangchangbaomingcanjiapengyoujuhuihuodong,yiqilvyou,kantadeweixinpengyouquan,yejuedeshigeshenghuoqieyiyougediaodenvhai,keshiyeshenrenjingshideqingkuangxia,gudanyizhisuibianxilai。
youshitabaqipanjiyuyuqingchunouxiangju,kanjianzheixietianmei,xiangxiangzishendeganqingyangzi,dantayebushiyigezhikanzhangxiangdenvhai,tayeqipanyouzheyigezhongshenbanlv,keshitaxinlingshenchuquejingchangwenyixiaziji:lingyifanghuikandelaima?tashizhenxinshiyixihuanwodema?
yinci ,pengdaoxinaideren,tayaobuyaoyuandekanjian,yaobudengbierenyiaijin,jiuyongjinglakai。
mutaisolodejingkuangshiduoshaodoushiyouleisi,keshidaozhimutaisolodeyuanguquedouyougedebuyiyang,wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu,zixunzhongchupenglegeshigeyangmutaisolodenvhai,huizongleyixia,zenmehuimutaisolo,youxialiejileiyuangu:
第一种、自我认知出现偏差的原因
wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu,fenerzhongzhuangkuang:yizhongshiguoduobuzixin,yizhongshiguoduoziyiweishi。
guoduobuzixinrutongshilizhongdexiliuyiyang,bujianxinzijishifeichangzhideshenaide,pengdaoqingganyizhihuila。
yuzhifanguolaideshiduiguoduoziyiweishi,zishenyanlidezishenhebierenyanlidezishencunyouchabie,jingchangganjuezishenfeichanghaohenchuse,daozhikandeshangzishenderenganjuebupeizishen,kandeshangdeyouzhinanyouqiaobuqizishendeqingkuang。
第二种、“心灵毒鸡汤并发症”
zhenduiqingganyoutuolishijidexiangxiang,liruxihuankanqingchunouxiangju,duiganqingchongmanlelangmanpaidexiangxiang,yangaoshoudinaxiangxiangzhongdeganqingqukaoliangshiji。
rutonghaoduohaoduonvhaizuibianshuodeshimeiyouguifan,shishishangbushishexianzhi,youshiganglejiedeqingkuangxiaganjuelingyifanghaibucuo,zhangwoyihouyouganjuetabuguoshigepingchangren。
第三种、“过多思考谈恋爱成本费”
jinguanshuoyingduiqinggan,keguanchaoguoganqingshichengshudebiaozhi,keshiqinggantazishenshiyigeshifenlixingdeshier,yuefazhanqianguhou,keguanjishizhisun,jiuyuenanpengdaoheshide,eryuenangaobiedanshen,biranyouzaocheng gengkeguanshenzhong,shenxianneiyangdeyigebihuankongzhizhizhong,zongshiranggaobiedanshenyuelaiyuegengweinanyidadao。
yigemutaisolo33niandexueshengshuoguoyiduanhuayinxiangyouqikegumingxin,tashuo:
“shibasuideqingkuangxianishiganyuchangshide,nijuedehexiaidenanshengyechabuguoduo,meiyouyouqidadejianju。sanshisuideqingkuangxia,nixiaileyigenansheng,danniyejiuqingxidelejieniliangbutaikeneng,bingbushiyigeshijiederen。ninengsisuotaruhekanni,huisisuozhibuzhigangkaishizheiyiduantanlianai,huikaolvdaotanlianaidechengbenfei,huikaolvdaozheikaolvdaonei,kaolvdaodeyueda,jiuyuebutaikenenggangkaishi。”
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