我在花镇购买了感情咨询服务，你过得不顺是因为丢了这个？

 wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，zaibansuizhewuzhitiaojianbuduanwanshanderujindeshehui，yiziwoweizhongxinderenriquzengjia。tamenchenzuizaizishenwuzuqingzhongdequdechenggongli，jiaoaozida，diushileqianxundeshizhi。

 dajiadounenggouxiangdao，neiyangderendangranjianjiandihuinanyihuodezhoubianrendexiezhu，yeyidinghuifangaizishendefazhan。xianggudairenjiangde“shanwaiyoushan，tianwaiyoutian”，bianshiduidajiahoudaidetishi。

 nishifouhaijidekonglaofuzidexueyuancengzishuo：“zhiqian，zhuisuizhejiaoshiyiqixuexidezheixielaoqianbeishixiongmen，wuluntamenduomedeconghuidouburongyiqiaoweiba。zhenduiwanbei，yehuixuehuifangxiashenziyongtongsuyidongdeyuyanfayan。”

 congcengzidehuazhong，dajiaguanjianyingdangxuexipeixundeshi“pengdaodesuoyourenquanshiqinaidelaoshi”zheiyizhongqianxundejingshenshizhi。yuyichengxiangdaidexinyiyang，zhiyouqianxuncaisuanshihuodezhuanyezhishi、tishengnenglideyuandongli。

一、当谦逊被遗弃以后，大家会出現什么原因?

 wulunshizaizhirenyuanchangzhongyeba，huanshizaiganqingshangyeba，dajiadoushihuifajueyizhongzhuangkuang，neibianshizaiqianxunbeiyiqiyihou，dajiahuichuxian“gongzuonengliminyinghua”zhuangkuang。

 rutongwoguoyijuhua，jiaotantianxiagong，juweijiyou。shenmejiaotantianxiagong，bianshibatiangongdegongxianzhanweijiyou。zhijiangtarenhetuantidegongxian，chengzuoshizishende。

womenbaihuawenyidianshuo，neibianshidajiakeyizhichengzheiyijianshier，juebushiyouyudajiayigerendegongxiao。

 keshidajiadexintaiyidangaoaoqilai，dajiabianhuiganjue，ruobushiwoweishenmehuiyouneiyangdejieguo，congerwujinbiandazishendegongxiao，bazhoubianyiqieyinyuanhegezhonggeyangxiezhu、tianshidilideyaosujiqidahuanjing、xiaoziranhuanjing、jingyingtuanduizuyuandengsuoyoudoujianruo，suoyoudoubianchengledajiabenrendegongzuonengli，zheijiushigongzuonengliminyinghua。

ruguowomengongzuonengliminyinghua，dajiajiubidinghuipengzhang，dajiayidanpengzhang，dajiabianhuisangshiqianxundejingshenshizhi。

 meiyouqianxundejingshenshizhibianhuifanyixiliedebuzhengque，yinci ，zaiwomenjiandaozhoubianderenyebukanbuguandeqingkuangxia，womenyaochangchangwenyiwenzishen，woshibushiyouzihaole?woshibushiyouganjuezishenyoukuangwangzidale?

谦逊，实际上是大家磨炼性情的最好是的方法。

 daoshenghefulaoxianshengcengshuo：“zaiyishidaozheiyidianshi，wojinbuzhusongshubuzhijing。youyuyinweiwocengjuedezishendegongzuonenglishishuhefacaichan，pingzhezheicaikeyihuodedechengxiaoliyingyouzishenxiangyou。”nengwudaozheiyidian，daoshenghefulaoxianshengderenshengjingjiehaowuyiwenshirangrenwangchenmojide。

 wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，zaiqiye，ruguonishilingdaorenyuanqiewujianggongzuonengliminyinghua。kanyixiashijizhongdechuruzhichang，youderen，guqiebushuomeiyourucirenshengjingjie，haixiangfangshefabagonggongquanlibumenhua，danweiquanligexinghua，benrenlirunzuidahua。

 yiqianyouyigexuesheng，tazuoweiqiyedejingyinglingdaoganbu，meiyicizuoleyigexinxiangmudeqingkuangxia，burongyikuajiangshoudixiadetouru，kanbujianmeiyigeshoudixiadegongzuonengli，ganjueshizishendeguanlinenglihao，caiqudechenggongde。zuizhong，youlishoudixiayiyilikai，tacaixingguolai，yuanxianquanshizishenyishileqianxun，bagongzuonengliminyinghuala。

 jiaruyigerenmingbaibagongzuonengligongyouhua，jiangtayongyuweidahuoerfuwuxiangmu，zishendecaikeyicaihuihuodejiaoda shuipingdechongfenfahui，caihuizishizhizhongneixinhuoda，caihuiningjulijingyingtuanduidexieli，zaishiyeyouchengdelingwai，dedao jingshenshizhishangjiaoda dekaolvyuwending。

 wulunshizaishenmeqingkuang，churuzhichangzhong，dajiawubiyishidao，yongyoudahuoercaihuichuxianziji。jinyouchixubaochiqianxundexintai，caikeyichanshengjingyingtuanduidexieli，zaihemudeqifenzhonghelidekaizhangongzuo，zheishifenguanjian。

二、不只是在职人员场中，实际上在感情上，大家也是必须谦逊的!

 nishifouhaijidexiaoxiongjiaoshibangwoshuoguozishendeyigexuesheng，tadebabamamashishifenhuigandechuangyezhehejiguanshiyedanweichuchagongzuorenyuan。zaihetananyouxiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxia，xianghuzhijianxiangxijieshaozirannanyibimiande，bianshiliaodebabamama，nvhaierdoushihuishuozishenbabamamaquanshihenqinfendepingchangren。

 zhidaoliangrenguanlianwanshandeqingkuangxia，nanshengcaifajuenvhaierdejiazhongshichaozhongliangjide，keshinanshengbingbuhuiganjuenvhaierneishihoupianleta，jiuganjuezheiyixiaogunianghenbuzhangyang，henqianxun，gengweixiainvhaierla!