花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？为什么我总能遇上渣男？

huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？laoshininhao，woshiyigegongsiyuangong，31sui，nianxindayueershiwanzuoyou。

cengjingdewoyongxindetanguoyiduantanlianai，keshilingyifangbuqinfenjingjifazhangongzuonengliyebuhao，zuihoufenshou。

 fenshouzhihou，woyemeizaichuduixiangle。yizhimangliugongzuo，yemeisixukaolvdaozishenderenshengdashi，yituozaituojiutuolaidaorujinzheiyinankandenianling。

 xiwangnengyouyigenansheng，tawenzhongfengquqinfenyoukailang，youzishendegongzuoshifenyoushiminggan，banshikekaohuizhaoliaoren，youfangyouchegezibushaoyuyimiqi，xiangmaokexiangduixingjianshao，woxiangwenyixialaoshiwogairuhegaobiedanshenni?

广思老师解释：

nidexuqiujichusuanzuogaoshuaifudefanchou，neimaneiyangdenanhaizidajiayingdangruhequzhaoni?

 huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？zuixian，dajiabixukuozhanzishenderenmaiguanxi，rangzishenlejieneiyangdenanhaizi，neiyangcaihaiyoujihuibaneiyangdenanhaizibianweinidenanyou。

 liru：womenkeyiqubaomingcanjiayixiegaodangdeshequluntan、womenkeyiqubaomingcanjiayixieguojishangxueyuan、dajiahaikeyiquyixiejiaoweigaoduandaqideshalonghuodongkafeiguan，zheidoushiyouhenyoukenenghuipengdaozheizhong，ziranjiaruniyouxierenmaidehua，qingpenyouyigongzuozhongdeweimingrangnixiangxijieshaoyeshinenggoude。

 lejielezheizhongnanhaiziyihou，xiayibujiugengguanjianle，jiaruzheiyinanhaizizuozheniyanqian，tabixuyigenvyou，jiufangfozhaopinmianshiyiyang，neimaniyoushenmeyangdedetianduhoudebiaozhunnenggoubianchengtadenvyouni?

womenyaohuiguotoulai，rujindajiachuzaizheiyinianji，zheiyishouyidenvshifangfozaidadoushiyetingpubiande。

chufeishijinidianyingnvmingxingyiyangdemei，nenggoushitayikanjiudongxin，burantahenyoukenengbudakenengduiniyijianzhongqing。

 keshidajiayeshiyoubiededefangfa，youyuxiangnijuededeneiyangdegongzuojiaoweiqudechenggongdenanxing，tahenyoukenenggengzhongshinvxingjitamenrichangshenghuochanshengdeshushigan，erjuedaduoshudenvshengdoufeichangrongyiqingxubuwending，youshirangnanshenghuiganjuehentoutong。

yinci ，ruguonixintaichongzupingwen，neimaniyejiubibaifenzhibajiushidenvhaigengyoujingzhengnengli。

danqiantitiaojianshi，niqueshishifenhuizishengenzishenxinkuan，erbushichangchangbazijidenaonuxuanxiezainanhaizideshenshang。

 ruguonigengnenglejietadeqingkuangxia，tahuigaoqingchusheicaisuanshiduitazhenshigengqiang，nagezhenshiduitahaodeyouxiurencaishitazuihoukeyitiaoxuanderen。

 rujinnihenyoukenengchenjinzaizishendeshushiquanzhizhong，buyuanyizouxiangshijie，ganjuezhoubiandenanhaizinihenyoukenengdouqiaobuqi，keshiniyidingyaoliuyideshi，jiarushuonibuyuanmaichudiyibu，xianxuehaogenzhoubiandenanshengshuoyijianghua。

 neima，niyebudakenengyixiazijiuxunzhaoyigerangzishenhenlingrenmanyidezongtimubiao，yinci womenzaichuqidejihuichupengzhizhongyidinghuiyouhenduocuozhe，keshimeiyigerenquanshizaicuozhezhizhongchixujileijingyan，zuihoucaikeyiqudechenggongde。

 yinci xianmaichudiyibu，zhaoyigehainengcouhedoukanshangdenanhaizi，xiangentalianyilianxianliao，neiyangdehuanicaikeyixuehaogoujilingyifangqingxujiazhi，pengdaozhenshidongxindeyouxiurencainengzhuadezhu。

nandaoshuoshuoaiwodefangfabianshi“caozong”?

问：

wojinniansanshisui，nanpengyoubiwodashisui。

cengjingdewotanguoyiduanjigeyuedetanlianai，nanhaiziyijianshibutaihao，fenshou。

 dierduanjiushimuqianzheiyi，tashizuojinrongyede，tajinguanyixinzhong，kongzhiyuqiang，jiangwodang“jinsique”yangdanyijianshitebiehao，yaoshenmejinaxie。

 youyuwobuxiangbiaoshuxinliniantou，changchanggennanhaizizhengchao，zaocheng nanhaizixinzangbingfazhuyuanzhiliao。rujintayijianshifangfoyouyidingdebaocun，buxiangyiqianneimahaola。

daoqijinweizhi，dajiazaoyilengbaolihaojitianle，woxiangwenyixiawogaizenmezuoni?

子沐老师解释：

 rujinnihaoxiangzhenduinimenliangdezheileiguanlianjuedebumanyi，niqidaitourudeyuelaiyueshao，huanjuhuashuoqidaitacaozongniyuelaiyueshao，keshiyirannenghuodezhiqiandezheixieliyi。

neimaziranhuizaochengmaodun，dajia2gezhengchaoyejiuwukebimianle。

zirantanianjijiaoweibianda，zhenduinidezheizhongzhengzhi，tahenyoukenengyingfubuhuilai，zaocheng bingfazhuyuanzhiliao。

 ciketahuixiangyixiangnigentajiujingshifouyitiaoxin，yaobushiyitiaoxindehua，neimatahuijinkenengdegenniweichiyidianjianju，lingwaigennitourudeyehuigengshaole。

 yinci ，jiaruniyiranqidaitaxiangzhiqianneibanduinitourudehua，neimadajiazuishaoyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，dajiagentashitongyigejiazhongtongyigeshilideneimeyizhongqingkuang，jinyouneiyangdehua，tacaihuigengxinganqingyuantouru，erbushigennilixinlide。

dajia2geyouxiurencainengchanshengyigetuanjieyizhimibukefendejingshenshizhilianmeng。

 jiaruniyaoqidaixiufuzheiyiduanguanliandehua，tiyiniyitadeshenxinjiankangweidiyiguanjiandeshier，xianguanzhuyixiatadeshenxinjiankang，jiusuanyaozhengchao，yezhidaotazhuyuanyihoudajiazaizaicichao。

 neiyangdehua，dajiadeguanliancaibuhuiwanquanpolie，bingqietazhongjiubinida10sui，jiaruniyaoxianggentazaiyiqidehua，nidezhiliangzhibiaoyehuitisheng yixie，renwanshandeyigeguanjianguifanbianshiwomenyaocongbuyiyangdeshijiaolaiduidainanti，dajiarongxudaliangdepingdingguifancunyou。

 yinci aiyouhenduozhongduoyang，bingbingbushiwubiyaomanzunideyaoqiu，neileicaisuanshiai，dajiameigerendouyizhaozishendefangfalaiailingyifang。