买了花镇一个月服务，引导男人投资心锚

 xuduo lianaiyuhunyinbuxingfudenvrendoushihuimaiyuanzishenshiyouyunongcuoleyouxiurencaihuizaocheng rujindebeiju，mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，haichangchangjiadingjiaruhuanbenrenhenyoukenengshenghuojiuxingfukuailele。

 zaibanlvtiaoxuanshang，zhiqianzhuzhongmenbudanghubudui，rujinguanxinyoufangyouche，huibahunyinshenghuozhifangzaizheileikelianghuafenxidewuzhihuaguifanzhongqukaoliang，lingwaiyeshizaoshoubabamamahepenyouzhaoduixianggongzuojingyandeweihai。

 lirudajiadoulejiedeyijuhua“nvpajiacuolang”，zheizhongdoubiaomingdajiaganjuexuanduibanlv，xunzhaoduideneiren，bianhuiyouyigexingfukuailedejianglai。

 yiyang，gandaowozheilidexueshengbaifenzhiershi95%zhishangderendoushihuimaiyuanbanlvyougeshigeyangdenanti，yizhiyuzaocheng lerujinganqingshangdebeiju。

 youdenvhaiganjuenanyoutaibusijinqu，zhiyaoshitaqinfenyidiandouburongyiganjuekanbudaoxiwang;yeshiyounvshengganjuezheigenanrenyizhiweizijikaigezhonggeyangkongbaizhipiaoyouduifubushang，manmanduitasangshizixinxin。

 hunyinshenghuozhongdenvhaijuedaduoshudouganjuezishendelaogongbukaopu，duijiazhongtaobizeren，shenghuoshangyeshiyougezhonggeyangbuliangxiguan，zishenyizhitouruxuduo caosuilexin，dianjizhejiarutiaoxuanyigeyoujinquxinchengdanzerendezhangfushenghuohenyoukenengjiubuyiyangle。

 xueshengxiaoyongjiupengdaolezheileinanti，tayulaogongjiangyaoyaowanhun，danyizhihuangkongbuanganjueliangrenzhihouhenyoukenengburongyixingfukuaile，yizhiyujiehunriqiyituozaituomeiyoumingque。

 tahaigesanchawuxiangdaoqiannanyou，ganjuexinrenmeiyouqiannanyouduihao，yulaogongjiaowangdequanguochenghaipabiaoshuzishendeniantou，yizhidanyounanyoufahuo，ganjuenanhaiziduitayebushihentengxi，yeshidanxinjianglaidehunyinshenghuoshenghuo。

yikaishizixundeqingkuangxiayizhiyuwoqueding，“jiaoshi，woxuanzedezheigenanrenshiduidema?”

 jinqiaodaliyaxiandalvegaoxiaoxinlixuezhuanjiasamansha·qiaoerduilanmanguanxideyanjiubiaoming，banlvdebenrentedianshijishangbutaixiangyucefenxizishenyubanlvzhongjianguanxidepinzhi，guanxidepinzhichedizaiyuguanxidongtaixingzishen，huanjuhuashuo“nichuangjiandeguanxibinitiaoxuanderengengguanjian。”

 henduorenmaiyuandenongcuobanlvbenzhishangshishenxianleyinnixingtiaorendeguaiquan，huanjuhuashuodangyigerenduibenshenbuquedingxing，bukeyidanfuguanxiyunyingyiwushi，huiquxiangbaguanxiyouliedeyiwutuituodaobanlvdeshenshang。

 neineiyangzishenjiumeiyouyiwudoumeiyoucuo，xiangxiangzhehuanbenrenjiuhaole。tiaorenjinguanhenzhongyao，dandajiadeganqingzenmeyangzuiguanjiandehuanshikanyunying。

neizenyangcaikeyiyunyinghaoganqingdedao xingfukuaileni?wozailuojisiweishijiaojidahuoer6diantiyi：

更出色不一定更幸福快乐，积极乐观会得到 幸福快乐的机遇

 gengchusebuyidinggengxingfukuaile，neiyangshuohenyoukenenghenduorendoushihuiyouyihuo，woxuanzeleyigechenggongderennandaoshuobukeyigengxingfukuailema?

 mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，zheihenyoukenengyudahuoerpingshishenghuozhongdegongzuojingyanyixiequbie，jutishenghuozhongtiaoxuanbanlvshi，henduorenzaoyixiguanyong“nianji”“wenping”“shouyi”“diwei”zheizhongbenrentediandezhibiaozhiqufenbianyigerenshifouchongzuchusebianchengzishendebanlv。

 danshijishang，zheizhongbenrentedianzhibiaozhizaiyuzhiweilaibanlvguanxipinzhishanghenyoukenengbingbukaopu。hegengchenggongderenzaiyiqi，bukeyigengxingfukuaile。tingjianzheierhenyoukenenghuiyouxierenjinbuzhuduiwoyiju，“nandaoshuoyaohebuchenggongderenzaiyiqijiuxingfukuailema?”

那如何得到 幸福快乐呢?

 dajiahenyoukenengbixugengweizhuzhongliangrenjiaowangzhongdeguanxi，liruguanxizhongdexinrengan、guanxizhangdu、jiaowangtihuizheixiezheizhong。neizheizhongyouheshenmeyouguanxini?hedajiakandaiyiduanganqingdexintaiheziwojiazhiyouguanxi。

liruxiaoyongkandaiganqingdexintaishizongganjuetayunanyoujianglaideganqinghuichuxiannanti，duiganqingjiaoweibeiguanyanshi。

 shenghuozhonghuibuzijuedirenzhengnanyoushibushishandaiziji，genghuidangxinchaxunliangrennaeryouchuxianlenanti，dangfaxianwentideqingkuangxia，buzijuediyouhuicaiyinanhaizishibushidongnideren，youlvliangrenjianglaihenyoukenenggengbuxing。

 kandaiganqingzheileixiaochendexintaihaowuyiwenhuicushizuizhongcaogaodejieguo。xiaochenluojisiweihuicujinguanxingezhonggeyangbukaixindeshi，jiaruyingduiganqingjijileguan，ganjueganqingzhonghaowuyiwenhuipengdaokunnan，danjianxinkeyiyunyinghao，zheileijijizhudongdexintaibianhuicujinxianggezhonggeyangfangfayunyinghaoganqing，jieguodangranhuishihaode。