买了花镇一个月服务，怎样在爱情中打造自己的名媛感？

 youyuyizemaifushanghaimingyuanqundegongzhonghaowen，mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，rangyiqungenjupintuanguzuomingaidequanlimeishaonvbaohuo，pingjiaqingyisequanshijifenghebuxieyigu。

erzhimingdemingaiguanyingzezaifangtanzhongbiaolu：“bieyaowomingai，haoxiangmazanghua。”

 mingaizheigecihaoxiangzaijinnianbianchengyigequnchao，danshibenlaitayiweizhezheyiquncaihuachuzhong、yantanjuzhipoyouzishenshenyun、shejiaomeitiheshenghuoyouzhiliangdenvhai，zheiyizhimingxingdenvxingmeili，yeyoutashifangdecengciganrengranshixuduonvshengchenshixinchishenwangde。

youxierenshuosheibuqingchushanghaishi“pinxixi”mingaineixinxiangdesha?neibubianshibeihouyilunshenjiaxiangtanmuxurongma?

erqunneiyigenvhaibengchulaidafu“wohuazishendeqian，zhibuguoshikaolvzishendeaimuxurong，youwuma?”

 zaicicidequnchaoshenhou，dajiahebukandelveweizhenglianyixie，xiangshangqianhun，meiyoucuo;chushengbuzufuyou，xiangganshouyixiadingjianshenghuo，doumeiyoucuo。

 jiarukeyiqueshijindaoyigegaopinzhishejiaoquan，bujinshenghuozhiliang、siweimoshibujuzheixiedoushihuifashenggaibian，cihoudakai“yangqunxiaoying”，yulaiyuyou，yueyouyuegao。

 zheiyilizudianqueshinenggouyou，womenjinriliaoyiliao，nvhaiwuxuyoujihuaxuedefangshi，zenyangrangzishenzhuyaobiaoxianchumingaigan，xiyinzhulaichusenanhaizideyanguangni!

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 ganglaizixundeqingkuangxiani，weiweijianghuaquanshiweiweisuosuode，jishirangtagenwoziwojieshaodejiatingguanxi，tadoushihuihentifangdeshuo：

“womenjiabiaozhunhuanshibudide，woyizhishiyixianchengshishenghuo，yeshiyouhuji……”

 keduiyuqita，weiweiyigaihenmohubuqing，zhizhitachixudiaokanshuo“weihenanyoulaoxianghawodianqian，butouruyeyoukanbushangdeyanguang”shi，tajinbuzhurenke，bianshizixiaoqiongpale，yinci qidaichujiahoupingwendian，nengzaidadoushiyouzishendefangwu，yibuhequntizu。

 erdangtazhuiganglejieleyigeshanghaishiquyou4taofangwudenanyouhou，tayoudanyoubierenganjuezishentufangwucaizaiyiqi，yituozaituobuganshuozijijiadejutiqingkuang。

 keshizaizixunwanbihou，lianggerenbujinlingjiehunzheng，bingqierengzaijiehunhouxianghumailaiyitaodaikuanfang，neiweiweishizenyangdadaoyuanwangde?

第一步，修练名嫒心理状态，与你以往有哪些不有关。

 mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，weiweiyueduqingkuangxiakaoshichengjitebiehao，yilutiqianluqu，keshibianshiyouyujiajingpinkun，chuanzhedabanyizhihenhanchen。

 xiangmaoyaoyandetaquehaipachuduixiang，yilaiganjuezishenmeiqianmaipiaoliangyifuhehufupin，huibeinanhaizikanbushang;erlaidanyouchulaixiaofei，zishendegongzuonenglishoudaoxianzhihuibeilingyifangdikanyiyan。

danlingwaitafeichangqipannanhaizijijijizijitaoqian，qiejuedezishenfuyou，yincitadezhuyaobiaoxianjiuhenweihegan。

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jiushizheiyang，weiweijixuduonanhaizixinliliuyoudepinpaixingxiangquanshi——yigefuyouquejinjinjijiaodeyimaobuba。

 erlijingyiduanshijiandezixunhou，weiweirumengchuxing，taqidaizhuyaobiaoxianchuquzishenshifuyangzhangdaledenvsheng，shigainanhaizijijizhaoliaodeneilei，neiyangjishizishenbutaoqianhaoxiangshijiazhongpeiyangdexiguanxing，nanhaiziyingdangjiangzishenpenggao。

 danshishishangtadexinliyuefabuzixinyuzishenjiashinanti，yueyangzhuangneilei“wocongbuyongzishentaoqian”deqingkuangfandaorangtakanshangqushifensuoyao。

zheijinjinyangaibuzixindebuzhengquetujing，taqueyonglehaozhangshijian。

wogaosuta，jiarunimeiqian，hebulijibiaoxianchulai，rutongjian.aineijuzhumingdejingdiantaici：

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yigerenjinyouzishenbudikanzishen，caiburongyizongtouyingxingjuedelingyifangqiaobuqizishen，caiburongyizhuyaobiaoxiandezheibanningba。

yinci weiweiyouyicigennanyouyouyukaixiaonantizhengzhishi，worangtadafunanshengshuo：

 “xianjieduanganggangdaxuebiyemeiduojiu，buyuanhuajiazhongqian，keshiwoyoumeiyouxuduo cunkuan，yinci womenzaiyiqishi，niyekandaole，wojinguanmeizaihuaxuewuzhishangtouruxuduo ，keshiwoqinfenjiangjiazhongweichizhengjie，goumaimeiyijianxiaowanyidoujialianwumei，zheizhongbingbushiwodetouruma?”

yuefabujiaobuzao，zhuyaobiaoxianzishendefengxian，fandaorangnanhaiziyibujinjinjijiaoweiweitaoqianjinjinjijiaodenanti。

erweiweiyeyuelaiyueshaotingjiannanyoushuozishenyizhibuzaiyitadeguandian，fandaoxinlizhuangtaishanggengpingwenle。

第二步，做几个固定不动的社会正能量事项，让自身的身上释放平稳的“层次感”

dajiakanquanzizheixiezhenshidemingai，tongchangpuguanglvyebugao。

youyushuobailedegaocengfengjing，nimeijianguojihuide，quanshitarenyanlidezhayoutiaolaodoufu，xiyiweichang。

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 yinci wogaosuweiwei，nizishenjinguanmeishengzaihenpojudejiazhong，keshinimeimaoyeshiyoudian，lirunishijiaoshi，henyoukenengxuduo xueyuanjiandaoniyejiuhuigengxiangyaotiaoxuannideke。tangruonizaishoukezhonggengqianxinhejishuzhuanye，fandaohuijiedaodahuoergengqinpeidedianping。

 zhongjiuxiangmaoyaoyandenvhaizixiaoyingduideyinyouduo，wenxiaxinlaixuexipeixunhaibianchengxueshen，bianhuijirenyidingdecengcigan，xiangyaozhidaonishizenmeshouhaorenjingde，fandaofeichangrongyiduinideshenshangyoudeyouxiupinzhijinxingxiangdao。

 yinci，weiweijiuhenanyouxianliaoshiduojiangxiazishenxiaoyuanneihuobaodeshier，laoshijieshiworangtajijibaxueyuanmensongdeshengridangaojiaojinanyouchi。

yilaipolezheiyiyimaobubarenwuguanxi，erlaiyebianxiangzhengshi“niyanliwojinyoupiaoliang，wojutibiniyaodeyouneirongdeduo”。

 yiner，nanyoumeiyicigenweiweizhengchaoganjueweiweimanbujianglideqingkuangxia，sisihuishuo，shibushinibawojuededezhenhuai，yigexiaixiaopengyouderennengyouduohuai?xiaopiqishiwodegexing，jiandaolemeiyou?