花镇投诉电话多少？“遛蜗牛”理论

huazhentousudianhuaduoshao？xuduo nvshengdoushihuiwen，wohenxihuandeneigeren，fangfoyizhiganqingbufahewobuhuiyizhi。

 tayijianshimengjideqingkuangxia，worenweibushihe，danshidangwomenhenbixutadeqingkuangxia，tayoulengle，woxiangwenyixiazheiyaogaizenmebanni?

shijishang，tashizaiguanlianzhongshifenpubiande——“butongbuxiaoyong”。

 zaiqingganzhong，xuduo qingkuangxiashuangfangdejiezougandoubuyiyang，liruyoushinihenyoukenengaideyusiyuxian，keshilingyifanghaixinruozhishui;

nihenyoukenengliannimenliangweilaidexiaohaijiaoshadouxianghaola，danshilingyifanghaimeiyoumingqueyaohenizaiyiqi;

nizaoyizaishejigousiheshishuangfangfumujianmianle，lingyifanghaimeiyoutiqianzhunbeiyunigongbuguanlian;

 nihenyoukenengduitayijianzhongqing，keshinanhaiziyuanbenbianshigemanrederen，yikaishijiujiaoweilengmo，nvshengxinjixiangtiwen，fandaorangnanshengyueduoyuezhang……

yinci jinri，dajiajiulaijiangxia，ruguowomenxiaishangyigemanrexingdenanhaizi，gaizenyanggenlingyifangjiaowang，tuidongguanlian。

zhongguotaiwanzhumingxiaoshuojiazhangwenliangduguoyishousanwenshi，dagaishishuo：

zaowuzhujiwoyigemeirirenwu，yaowoqianyizhiwoniuqusanbu。

 wocuixiaowugui，naizhidata，tapadebianmanle，gancuigensuixiaowuguizou，wotingjianniaosheng，wotingjianchanming，wokandaomantiandexingdou。

wohurangaoqingchu，yuanxianzaowuzhushijiaoxiaowuguiqianwoqusanbu。

zaizheiliduanjianjiandidesuiyuezhong，wofaxianquanqiudemei。

shijishanghemanrederentanlianai，youshijiuhaoxiangzailiuxiaowugui，dajiabixuyixieyouqidefangshi。

第一，在另一方眼前要展现自身的使用价值。

guangsilaoshichangchangzaishipinketangshangshuo，nanshengdianpingyigenvrenhebushihe，zuizhongyaodecezhongdianbianshishiyongjiazhi。

jiarutaduinizhuyaobiaoxiandebuwenbuhuo，neizuizhongyaodeyuangushitaduinihaibugouxindong。

 henyoukenengtalijingyifanguanchahetuiduan，juedenishiyigehaiziqi、nianren、qingxubuwending、qianquezhangqixingfengcaidenvsheng，zhengtidefenbugao，keshiyebuhuichedibukaolvdao，yinci caineimemiantian。

jiarunitongqingdali，mingbaizenmechulirenjijiaowang，neihaowuyiwenhuirangnanrenmenqiuerbude。

 youyunanshengbujinyoujiazhong，yeyougongzuo，yaoxiangkeyiyoudaliangdeshijianhehuolifangdaogongzuoshangbian，neimayaokaonvrenbangzishenwendingdahoufang。

 suoyishuo，jiarunixiaishanglingyifang，neinijiuxiangjinbanfadeduochuxianzailingyifangyanqianzuoyixiekeyichengxiannibenshenshiyongjiazhideyixieshier。

 wulunshikailangleguan、shanyujianshenyundong、duocaiduoyi、qiaosheruhuanghuanshimingmoushanlai，doushihuiranglingyifangduiniyouyigebijiaohaodeyinxiang，momodizaixinlirangnidagegaofenshu。

第二，不必斤斤计较会话谁积极。

 huazhentousudianhuaduoshao？wodexueshengchenchenpengdaoleneimeyigenansheng，meiyiciquanshichenchenbuhangsheng，tajiubuhangsheng，keshichenchenjianghuatabianhuihuiying。

chenchenchangchangdiaokan，“weihemeiyiciquanshiwojijigentashuohuaya。”

 laoshishuo：yaoxianghelingyifangyouzhihou，neimayingdui“manrexing”nansheng，niyejiubixushidudejiji，jinyouneiyang，dajiazhongjiancaihuiyougushi。

dajiachangshuo，“meiyigenvxing，doushihuixiaishangnagemeiwandoupeitaxianliaodeneigeren”，shijishang，nanshengyeshiyiyang。

 doushuonvxingyushengjulaideshenshangyouyizhongmaoxing，lirugaoao、meiyouanquanganzheixie，shijishangyixienanshengyeshiyiyang，tamencongxinlingshenchuyemeiyouanquangan。

jinjinnanshengganjuezishenshigexiaonanzihan，deshenshangyouhenduozhongren，yinci burongyisuibianxuehuifangxiazishenyanzangdewanqiang。

shijishangtaxinlingshenchuyebixutarendekuanweiheqianjiu，yinci cike，nimeiridechuxian，huishitabianchengyizhongxiguanxing。

 jiaruchangchanghetaxianliao，hetafenxiangshenghuozhongdesuoyouxinuaile，fenxiangshenghuozhongxuxuduoduo、yidianyidideshier，yiqitantaorichangshenghuo，chongjingweilai，yiqitantaohenganxingqudehuatitaolun。

neiyang，niyejiubianweitadeyancao，huijianjiandishitachengyin，xianghuzenmekenengmeiyouganqingdechuyani?

suoyishuo，yaoxiangrangyige“manrexing”denanshengduiniyouhaogan，nisuobixuzuode，bianshichangchangjijihelingyifangxianliao。

ziranzheiyiquanguochenghuijiniganjuehenshangqingmian，danshizheizhongquanshizaijinidejianglaixiangmutouzi。