wodemingzijiaoningning,huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?2020nian30sui,helaogongshigenjupengyoulejiede,zhangwoyihoufajuelianggerenxingquaihaoxingqing、jiatingfenweidouhenxiangpei,dajiaxianghuzhijianduilingyifangyedouhenyouhaogan,tanlianaiyinianduojiujielehun。
jiehunhouderichangshenghuoyeshixiangtanlianaiyiyangtianmei,chongzuxiangyouleerrenshijiedehuanle,zaipengyouyanlidajiabianshiyiduienaifuqi。
tadegongzuozhongyoushihuibijiaomang,youyugongzuoneirongchangchangbixusuitonggukechumenjiaoji。hezuihuoxiabanyehuijialeyequanshichangtaihua,youshihoubuhuijiayedoushihuishiqiangenwoshuo。
jinguantachangchangjinchuyixieshangwuhuisuo,dajiazhiqianyeyouyuzheijianshiqingchaojiajia,keshiyinweiwolijieshigongzuozhongbixu,tayexiangwobaozhengjuebunengzaiwaimiannianhuarecao。
jinqitashoudaolexindexinxiangmu,yeshichangchangyebuguisu,tashitadegongzuozhongchangtaihua,zuikaishiwomeizaihu。danshijianjiandiwofaxianleciciheguoqubuyiyang,tagangkaishifuyanleshiwodeshoujihao,daozhihoulijishizongyizhengtian,huidaojiayihoujinguangenwoyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliu,keshijietingdianhuachangchanghuiraokaiwo。
nvrendezhijuegenwoshuotayoushiermanzhewo。youyitianyelitaxianzaodeqingkuangxia,shoujishangshoudaoleyitiaoxinxi,wokaiqitadeshoujishang,kandaoleshiyigenvrenhetazhuduocusudetiaodouxinxineirong,yegenjutamendejiluzhangwolaidaozheiyinvrenshimouhuiguandegongzuoyuan。
wopaokaishouji,xinxushifendecuoluan,wohuiyiledajiadeqingganmeiyouyiqieliefeng,naizhidoufeichangshaozhengzhi;woxichuangdanzhufanpeihulaoren,weitatourulezheimeduo,keweihetayiranhuiwaiyu?
zhanzhuannanmiandeyiye,woxianglexuduo ,doumeiyouxiangqihuida,zheiyijianshierwoyoubukeyigenpengyoushuo,erwoxuyigerenlaijiwojiechuyituan,rangwodelaobanzhongfanjiazhong。
wokandaoletanlianaifazhanxuehaodewenzhangneirong,fanyueleguoquxuduo dejingdiananli,jianjuebaokaole。
让第三者知难而退
ningningxunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxiashifenjiaolvqingxu,tahendanyouzhangfuhuiyinweiaiqingshangdisanzhehetaliyi,paoxiazishenhezheiyiduanqinggan。
guangsilaoshizuixiananweileta,yimianshirangrenxianmujidudehexiesankouzhijia,tanenggouquzuoyigehaonanrenhaobaba,lingyimianshiweilegenghaodihuiguangongzuorenyuanpaoxialaopobeirentuomadehuaxinnan,huanzuoshiyiqieyigeren,doushihuizuochuqiadangdetiaoxuan。
suihoudaitapouxilezhangfuwangwanghuiwaiyuhuiguandisanzhedeyuangu,erqieweitamingquetichulemudexingdejiejuefangan。
一.创建自身清楚的框架剪力墙
juedaduoshudisanzheduichuguinanrenquanshibaoyouyidingdemudiheguidingde,disanzhejinyoukandaolenanshengduitazhenshidetouru,caihuijiyuxiangduideshouyi,erqieshouyishuipingshiyunanshengtourushuipingzhengxiangguande,kanbujianlingyifangduizishendezijintourujuebutouru。
dangtakanbujianjutiquanyideqingkuangxia,dangranbianhuiliqulingyifang,jiaruyaoxiangrangnanshenghehaoruchu,cikebingbushiyaoxinjifaxieqingxu,zhishiyaojibian dezhilengtamenmangmugenfengdeqingganguanzhudu。
tashiningninghexuduo nvxingdouchangchanghushideyidian,tamenhuibaduizhangfudetouruzuoweiyizhongxiguanxing,juedewomenzaiyiqiwoyaoduinibuyiyulidetouru,erhulveleneiyangdetourushifoutabixude,jiqinanshengduinishibushijiyulexiangduishuipingdeganqingzijintouru。
guangsilaoshiweiningningzhidinglechuangjianjiagoude3geliucheng,erqiequanguochengjutizhidaoningningwanchenglehunyinshenghuofanzhuan。
1.shezhiyouliangdezishenjiagou,zhengtiguihuahaoweilai
2.shanyubuhuobenzhidedongneng,bianjiaolvqingxuweiqudongli
3.guanlifangfahaoxintai,huashenweizhixingnvren
二.将爱情节奏感把握在自身手上
huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?disanzhezaibijiaoyouxiandeshijianneijinanshengchongzudeqianjiuheai,lianggerenniqingwoyuan,nanshenghuodeqingxujiazhi,nvxinghuodeqiancaiheniqingwoyuandeqinggan。
youyulianggerenmeiyoushenghuosuoshidejiban,yinci yesuanbushangzhenshideqingganbiaolu。danningninghezhangfushizaiyiqirichangshenghuo,yidinghuiyoudiediezhuangzhuang。
cikedeningningzaoyibeizishendexintaishangxiale,zairichangshenghuozhongzhishengchize,yinci nanshengcaihuizaiqingganzhongzhiyouganshoudaomaiyuan,naizhiyoushihaihuijixubeihetarenjiadezhangfujiaowei,rangzishendezizunjiqicuobai。
nanrenzaijiazhongdeziranhuanjingzhongtihuibushangxingfukuaile,caihuizaidisanzhedexinxiancijixingxiazhaoxunfuwei。
cikelaoshijutizhidaoningningweilianggerenzhidingyige“teshushijian”,nenggoushijigexiaoshihuoshiyitian,zaizheiduanshijianpaoxiayiqiexinlitezheng,yaoshizhaoxunliangrenzuizhenshidehuanle。
zheiduanshijianbayiqiekedaozhigongzuoyalideshiersuoyoufangkuan,liangrennenggouqukankanyichangyingpian,wangepintutupianhuoshishoujiyouxi,nenggouyiqiquyiqianchuduixiangqingkuangxiayouzhuiyidediquzhaoxunneishihoudelanmanjuede;zheiduanshijiannei,liangrenzuodeshieryaoshihuanle。
rangningningdezhangfulejiehetazaiyiqishigengweiqingqingsongsongde,jianjiandibianhuibaxinquhuizaitadedeshenshang,zaizheiqijiancunyoudexintaibuduannanti,laoshiyeweitamingquetichulemudexingdejutizhidao。
三.好男人全是夸出去的,为另一方出示情绪价值
zailianggerenderichangshenghuoweizhangfubujudaliangdemeirirenwu,nenggoushixiujiadian、gouwu、jiawulaodongdeng,zaiyihoutourujitamenqingxujiazhishangbiandeshouyi,feichangjiandandebianshixiexiehezanmei。shitachanshengerqiexiguanxingzheileiduinitourudexingweimoshi。
ninengchangshijiaodaitaquzuo,youshitazuozheyoudianerjiannan,hainenggoubangzhetazuo,jibian zuodebutaihao,yebubizaijiapingjia,erqieyidingyaozanyangta,liru:
“waou,shuainanbianshibuyiyang,jiawulaodongdouneimeshuai!
“zhangfu,nijiawulaodongdemoyang,rangworenweiyouqiman!”
ciwai,tazuodejiawuhuo,jiusuanshiyidiandian,niyeyaoshanyufajue,bingkuatazuodehao,neiyangtahuiganjueneixinmeimeidade,dangranyehuixiangyaobangnigandaliangdeshier。
zaiqinggancengmianyeshiyiyang,weitajiegouchulianggerenjianglaixianghurichangshenghuomeihaoyuanwang,zairichangshenghuozhongchangchangkuayikuata,weitachushiyidingdeqingxujiazhi,shitakanhuodelianggerenrichangshenghuodexingfu,tadangranhuijindaohaolaogonghaonanrenrenwujiaose。
lijingguangsilaoshidejutizhidao,ningningcongbenshengangkaishizhonggouyihou,youduilianggerendexiangchumoshikaizhanlediaojie,ningningjianjiandifajuezhangfuyudisanzhebuzailianxierqieshanchulelianxidianhua,zhangfuyejijitiaominglezishenzuochulebuzhengque,erqietongyidanfuquanbujiawuhuozuoweichanhui。
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