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 xianglaixuduo nvhaidoushihuiwenguozheigewentiba：tadaodiweiheyuwotichufenshou?huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？wonaerzuodebutaihao?weihehuranruguobuaile?

 tahenyoukenenghuijinijuedeyixieyuanyin，yehenyoukenengjiushizheiyangxiaoshengniji。bulunshiquandoujiniyuelaiyuetongchu、buzixin、caiyizishen。

 nigangkaishiyuelaiyuebuzixin、bijiaomingan，shijishangbingbingbushitabuaini，jinjinrujindetashenxianlexuduo fumianqingxuzhong，talengdanwuqingyeshiyouyutaxiangjiejuebeifumianqingxuzhanyoudejuede。

许多 学生跟我说：

jiaoshidajiadouneiyangle，hainengwanliu?

taneiyangyijianshi，yeyouwanliudebixuma?

wanliuyidingnengqudechenggongma?

 yijukeguantichufenshouhelixingfenshouhouwanhuidefangshishibuyiyangde，meiyigerendaomingquetichufenshoushiquanshiyouyuangude，yixieshilijingshenzhongkaolvhouzuodejuece，yixieshiyouyuxintaiyishixingfenmingquetichudetichufenshou。

 jiarunanhaizishikeguantichufenshou，neimazaigangkaishiyoutichufenshoudeniantoushi，jiuhuichuxianyixiezhuyaobiaoxianhuoshianshizhe，jinjinzheigeqingkuangxiachenjinzaitanlianaidetianmeizhongquanzidongpingbidiaozheizhongxinxi。

 keguantichufenshouyibanshiyouyuliangrendenantimeiyouhuodelijidechuli，xiaojiqingxujileizaochengde。yeshiyouhenyoukenengshiyouyuwaibudisanfangdeganyu。wulunshishishenmeyuanyin，zhiyinweinimeiyoufajuechulidebuliangyingxiang。

 erlixingtichufenshou，genghaoxiangyishiouqizuochudejuece，shixintaiyouyoushibulixingde。biru：dajiayouyuyijianshizhengchaoshitahuranmingquetichuhuoshiniganleyixieshitabukaixindeyijianshizheixie。

 jiarunidenanpengyouxingqingguishuyujiaoweiwenrou、pingjingde，gennizaiyiqishixintaiyizhihenpingwen，jibenshangmeiyouguofeichangdadezhengchaohefenqi，neimadangtamingquetichufenshoudeshihoufeichangdashuipingshangbianshikeguantichufenshou。

 keshijiarunidenanpengyouzishenbianshiyigexingqingxinfuqizao、qingxubuwendingderen，neimatamingquetichudetichufenshougailvjiuquxiangyulixingtichufenshou。

 keguantichufenshoutongchangshipingjingpingwendexintaimingquetichulaide，erlixingtichufenshoudaduoshusuizhezhezhengzhi、naonu、qingxubuwendingdeqingkuang。

 xuduo qingkuangxia，nvhaihuiwurenweilingyifangxingfendemingquetichutichufenshouzheiyiduanqingganjiumeiyouwanliudekongjianle，yincigangkaishiaiqiu、chouqi、jiuchanbuqing。shijishangtashibuzhengquede，lixingtichufenshoudegenbenyuanyinshineishihoutadeqingkuangbeifumianqingxuzhanyoule，tazhiweijiejue，burongyifeichanghaodejiejue。

yinci zuochuledichujiejuelijiyidaoqiezhi，dannibixudeshidenghoutapingjingxialai。

 keguantichufenshoudelingyifanghuoxufenshouzhihouhaihuijixuyunibaochilianluo，keshihuiyouyitaobinidelianxidianhua，burangniyiqiewanliudeqidai。huoshitayehuirangnidafu，keshiruguonitanqifuhexingshilingyifangjiuhuishengshu。

keshilixingtichufenshoudenanhaizi，dabufennizhaotajiuhuirangnidafu，keshishijidehuanshiyaoronghezhishangerdiankanlai。

wulunshikeguantichufenshouhuanshilixingtichufenshounidoubukeyizuode：

 youyufenbuqinglingyifangshikeguantichufenshouhuanshilixingtichufenshou，zaocheng xuduo nvhaiyongbuduiwanliufangshi。wozaizheiju2gejianyideshili，kankannishibushiyefanguoxiangjindebuzhengque。

shili1：youmiaozaihenanpengyoutichufenshouqian，jingliyicishifenmengliedezhengzhi，nanpengyoumingquetichuletichufenshou。

 huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？benrenweicicizhengzhizhihou，bicipingjingxialainanpengyoujiuhuihezishenhehao，yinci youmiaobingmeiyoubananpengyoudetichufenshoudangyihuishi，liangrengangkaishilengbaoli，sheidoubuyuandixiatou。

 yigexingqizhihou，juedebutaiduideyoumiaogangkaishijijixiangnanpengyoutaojinhu，keshiwulunyoumiaoruhezuo，lingyifangdexintaidoushifenlengdan，jianchibuxiejuedebiciyijingfenshoule。

 shili2：ruruhenanpengyoulianai2nian，nanpengyouqianbujiuxintaihurangangkaishiyuelaiyuelengmo，duiruruyebutaifangzaixinshang，zhizhizhihounanpengyouxiangrurumingquetichu“liangrenbushihe，sanleba。”

ruruyingduinanpengyoudehurantichufenshou，xintaishifenbenkui，gangkaishichixudewenlingyifangyuangu、chizelingyifangwaiyu。

 nanpengyoujiandaoruruxingfendexintaibingmeiyouheruruzhengzhi，zhishirurupingjingxialaibiaominghainenggouzuopengyou、baocunzhelianxidianhua，keshirurubujiena，gangkaishichixudejilingyifangtongdianhua、qulingyifangjialoudixiadenglingyifang、hailaidaolingyifangqiyedulingyifang，zuihounanpengyouchibuxiaojiaruheimingdanlequanbulianxidianhua。

yiqienvhaizaifenshouzhihou，doushihuichuxianbijiaoyanzhongdexintainanti。

 “weihetayuwotichufenshou，woduitahenhao?”、“wohenchama?taweiheyuwotichufenshou?”、“woqueshitaiaitale，yaoshimeiyoutawozhihouyinggaizenmeban?”、“tazhiqianyijianshihenhao，tajiujingzenmela?”、“tayidingshishuozhewanxia，guojitianjiuhaole。”

 rendaozaoshousunhaihuoshijuededaoyaobeiqinfandeqingkuangxia，zaiqianyishizhonghuizaochengyizhongxinlizhuangtaiziwofangyujizhilaibaohuziji，yidiyuwaijiedesunhai，liruwomenzaizhengzhideqingkuangxiahuijizijidabian，huijingonglingyifang，zaifenshoushidajiadediyifanyingshidichu，biaoshu。

 yinci fenshouzhihoudajiajiugangkaishijubujieshou，dajiaxiangtaobizheileitongchu，jubujieshouneiyangdeshiji。dajiahuizishengaozhizishenlingyifangburongyineimelidajiaerqu，dajiachixuquzhaolingyifangbiaoshu，buyuanyijienazheiyikeguanshishi。

 keshilingyifangzenmehuishierbujianni?shijishang，yidanlingyifangjueceleyunitichufenshou，jiuyiweizhezhetazaoyichedifourenleni。

 nideqiqiutongchangzongshibalingyifangjizou，youyunidekukuwanliu，sipilailianzhenduilingyifangeryandouguishuyusaoraogerenxingwei，erqiehaihuijixudaozhinidishiyongjiazhidepinpaixingxiang，ranglingyifangjuedenimeileta，jiumeifaxingfudeshenghuo，jinerduinidexingquaihaopingxingxianjianshao。

 jiejuefangshi：jiarulingyifangmingquetichutichufenshou，dajiabubiqingxushikongdiquzhaolingyifangnao，xianglingyifangraowanzidebiaoshuzheixie。

 dajiazuixianyaozuodeshihuifuzishendexintai，rangzishengengkuaidepingjingxialai，jienalingyifangde“tichufenshou”guiding，yongyigepingjingleguandexintai，laikaizhanjiexiaqudewanliu。lingwaiyejilingyifangyigepingjingxintaideshijian。

 qingganshidajiabicide，bingbuyidingquranglingyifangrangnihuida，ruguonishensishulvdajiazhongjiancunzaidebuzu，niyehuichuxianjibenderenzhinengli。

1.数色调法

yiweiyingguoxinlixuezhuanjiafeierdemingquetichuleyizhongdiaojieqingxudehelifangshi，ji“shusediaofa”。

 ruguonibumanyimouyirenhuomoushiyaoxiangdanaopiqishi，nenggouhuangusizhoudejingse，zaixinlizishuozihua：neishiyimianbaideqiangmian;neishiyizhangdanhuangsedecanzhuo;neishiyibashenzongsedezhuoyi......，dagaishu30miaoshangxia，bipozishenxiufulingqiaodeshijuexiaoguozuoyong，shirendedanaoxiufulixingxingsisuo。

2.情绪日记法

 qingxurijibingbushiyibandesuibi，jideshimeirizishenxintaidezhuangkuang。jimeirifashengshenmeshishi，shiwoshenmeganjue，naizhiyixiexiweidejuedehaiyaochuliwanbi。