花镇情感咨询给退款么？分手后被发“好人卡”？

 huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？buqingchuheshigangkaishi，“shanren”yici，zaoyibaituoletayuanlaideshijiyiyi，eryanbianbianchengyizhongbianci，yizhongnannvlianaizhongfenshoudezhuanyeshuyu。

liru：“duinihao，keshiwomenbuheshi。”“jiushiwomeiyoufuqi，baoqian。”zheixie。

 beifa“haorenka”houjiumeiyoujiyulemeiyou?danshijishang，beifa“haorenka”hou，huigengfeichangrongyiwanhuiganqing，tongguolvyehuigaoxie，jinridajiajiulaijiangxia，jiarunibeifa“haorenka”le，gaizenyangnizhuan。

一、减少需求感

 yiban“haorenka”zhongleidefenshou，daduoshushiduanqineitanlianai，bicidouhaimeizhangwoshenrudezhuangkuangxia，jiufenshoule，zheileifenshouyibanquanshiyinnixingfenshou。

erqiezheileifenshou，shuangfangdouburongyinaodehenjiang，zheiyeshizuifeichangrongyirangerzhuisandeyuangu。

huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？yinci zaifenshouhou，qianwanbiebaichuyifurengzaizhuiqiuwanmeitadezishichuqu。

jianshaozishendexuqiugan，weichiyiqiezhengchangdetongxueguanxijiuxing，ranglingyifangjiandaonidesatuo、tanranhedandingcongrong。

qianwanbiedianjizhekaoqinfendadonglingyifang，rangtahehaoruchu，youyunidadongdezhiyoujiushinizishen。

二、提升自我使用价值

 shijishangnibeijujuedeyuangu，feichangdayibufenshilaiyuanyubenshendeyouhuolibuzu，chuobushanglingyifangdedian，yinci zaocheng dajiabicideyaoqiubukeyixiangtongerfenshou。

jiaruyaoxiangwanliu，kaoyingxianglingyifangshibuhaode，yaokaoercixiyin。

liru：genjuyundongjianshensuxing、chuanyidapeideng，genggaishejifenggedengzuodaoduanshijiandeyigewaizaigenggai。

 neiyangxiaotuiyiduanshijianhou，zaikandaolingyifanghuijilingyifangyizhonghuanranyixindejuede，neiyanghuirangtazaochengyizhongcuobaigan，ganjuezishencuoguonaxie。

三、构建暖味氛围

yibanbeifa“haorenka”deren，xingqinghuihenneixiangxing，siban，doubutaijijijijizhudong。

 yinci zaifenshouhou，bixucijixinglingyifangdebujinjiushinidebiaomiangenggai，haibixucijixinglingyifangde“xiongxingheermeng”，ranglingyifangganshoudaodajiazhongjiandefenweizhuanbian，jinerjijichupengni。

 liru，helingyifangtishengyixiezhitijiechu，yibuxiaoxindiyudaolingyifangdeshouazheileide，nvhaini，nenggouyoushihouyizhexingganmirenyixie，heta“qiaoyu”，zheihuishitazhengyeshimianzhengxintengnie。

 nanhaizini，nenggoutishengzishendenanyouli，zailingyifangbixuxiezhudeqingkuangxia，turanmaochu，huizainvhaineixinrangniqiaoqiaodadajiafene。