花镇情感咨询给退款么？“放弃挽回”出奇制胜

 huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？wanliudequanguochenghaowuyiwenshishifennanaode，jiarunixinlibuzuqiangjing，jiuhenyoukenengzaiwanliuguochengzhonglveweipengdaokunnanniyejiuhuiyaobaibuding、huidanqie。

 yinci ，dajiayizhihuitishixuesheng，wanliuganqingdeguanjianqujueyuxinlijianshe：xinlizhuangtaijuecexintai，xintaijuecenidexingdong，lianghaodexintainenggoubangnijiangzaodongbuanzhuanhuanchengqidai。

“dajiaqueshiyeyouhenyoukenengma?”

jibenshangmeiyiweixunzhaodajiadexueshengdoushihuiwenzheigewenti。

 shijishang，chufeishishiyixiedutedezhuangkuang，birulingyifangzaoyiwanhunyongyoujiazhongdengbufushehuidaodeguidingwai，juedaduoshudewanliushinenggouwanchengde。

 xuduo xueshenghuiguzhidijuedezishendezhuangkuangshifencaogao，ganjueburongyiqudechenggongerhaipaquwanliu。danjiarucongyikaishiniyejiuweizijixianzhidehua，neimawanliuhaimeiyougangkaishijiuzhongjiushibaile。

 shijishangniyagenbuyongdanyou，liangzhezhijianxiaochendikaolvdao“wanliunanyiqudechenggong”，haibibushanghuanyizhonggengweijijizhudongdesiweimoshi，liru“woneiyangganle，tajiuhuiyouhenyoukenengzuowodexinniang。”

jueceyaowanliuhouzuibixuruhedexinlizhuangtaini?

 jizhunishuodezheijuhua，wanliuzuihaodexintai，bianshi“sheqiwanliu”。henduorenhenyoukenenghuiguaiyi，wobenlaishixiadingjuexinyaowanliude，zennengyaowosheqini?

 shuobailesheqiwanliu，zhidebingbushishenmeshidoubuzuo，zhishinizhanxianjilingyifangdeyizhongxintai，gengweijutidishuo，yingdanggaohaoxialiehaoduogecengmian：

01认清分离的客观事实

biezaimilianguoqu，wulundajiazhiqianduomedeenai，rujinbierenzaoyilikai。

buyaoguoduochimiyiqiandelijing，buyaobalingyifangdangzuogennixiangbandaolaodelianren。

 lingyifangzaizuoshashi，qunaliwandengquanshitadesuiyi，nimeiyouquanliganyu，gengbubisipilailian，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？neiyangbujinburongyihuandelingyifangdetongqing，zongshishitaduinigengdichu。

02回绝跪舔男心理状态

 yiduanshenxinjiankangdeganqingshiyoulianggerenxianghuyunyingde，qianwanbieyouyuganqingliekailejiubayiwutongtonglanzaizishendeshenshang，buranfeichangrongyishenxianguitiannandeliangjihuazhong。

 ziran，jiranjiushinijijiwanliulingyifang，yebukeyiyouzhigaoqiangdezishi，dajiameiyigerendouyongyou buyiyangdexinggetezheng，ziranyecunyoubutaihaodequexian，lizaigongpingdeshijiaoqufanshengzijizaizheiliduanganqingzhongshifoutourudetaishao，wuzejiamian，yiciweijian。

03寻找感情裂开的根本原因

 shijishangxuduo fenshoudeyuanyinquanshituoci，jiarunilianlingyifanglikaidezhenshiyuangudoubuqingchu，huoshibuzhengquedebalingyifangdetuocizuoweifenshoudezhenshiyuanyin，neimacongyikaishiniwanliudefangweijiubudui，biaomingdajiabingmeiyouzhenshidezhangwolingyifang，neiyangdewanliushijishanghuiyuezouyuemangran。

04减少需求感

bubitaiguozaihulingyifangdeyijuyidong，jinguanwomingbaizheiduinieryannanyibaozheng。

ruguoshigangfenshou，nenggoubazijigenlingyifangdejingzhundingweishizuoyibanpengyou。bukeyishilengshire，yebukeyiyouxintaiyingxiang。

 jiarutahuiyingxinxineirongjiunengjinihuanhuqueyue，tabulinibianhuixinqingdiluo，neimenidexuqiuganzaoyipuluhaowuyiwen，zaiwanliudedaoshangzaoyishiquzhudaoquan。