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 changchangjiedaoxiangjinneiyangdeliuyanbanliuyan：“jiaoshi，wojuedewanhuiqiannanyou，huazhenqingganzixun beipianyoumuyouhaodeshehuixinlixuededuice，nenggouyaowocanzhao?”suirandajiadoulejie，qingganshigeyongxindeshiqing，keshi!shuoqimeiyou，neikendingshiduigeweipengyoudefuyanleshi。zaizheierjiuouxinweidahuoershulilehaoduogezuijiandideshehuixinlixueduice：

1、特征提取“严厉打击”

 shenmejiaotezhengtiqu“yanlidaji”?zimianshanglejieyekeyilejie，bianshibiaocengshangjianshaoyigehuoshihaoduogecengmian，erqishituixingdeshigongjideduice。zheihenxiangbanruoxiao、zhuangkeling，yirouzhigang、banzhuchihudejuede。tiaomingdeshuo，shijishangzheibushiyigexinlizhuangtaixuedeciyu，keshitadejibenyuanliquehen“shehuixinlixue”。

 tezhengtiqu“yanlidaji”deshehuixinlixuegousishi：rendoubixuyouzishenqiangjingganhezishencaokonggan，ertezhengtiqu“yanlidaji”gengshishunconglezheiyidian。gengshidajialejiede，yingxiongrenwunenggoujibaiyingxiongrenwu，danqueyizhibeinidenvrenjibai。

neima，tezhengtiqu“yanlidaji”zaiganqingwanhuishangshijiruhelaishijicaozuoni?

diyibu：tuihaidaopenyoudebuwei

 fenshouhouxuduo qingkuangxiadoushihuiyouyiduandichuqi，zaizheigeqineijiaruniyiranyiqinglvzixu，neima，jiububiguaiweiheyizhiyaozaoshoukanbushangle!dangfenshouhou，tahuijindaodaoyigedichuqi，buyaoxiangshoudaonidexinxi，buyaoxianglejienideyiqiexinxi，youyutazaichangshicongzheiyiduannanguodeqingganzhongzouchuqu，dannizheigeshihouhaibutingdequdajiaota，neimaniyejiuzhendeshibudui。

第二步:欲擒故纵

 tuihaidaopenyoudebuweibushishuojiuzhendeshiyaozuopengyou。zaitezhengtiqudeluojisiweili，shiyaorangzishenkanshangquhanhoulaoshi，burongyizaiqudadongtabijiaomingandeshenjingxitong。zheigeshihoude“hanhoulaoshi”huishitajianshaofangbei，shitazishennengwendingdeguoduodaofenshouhoudeningjingqihesisuoqi。yishouweigong，daishierdong!

disanbu：guanjian“yanlidaji”

 tezhengtiqu“yanlidaji”dezhongyaobudanzaitezhengtiqu，yezai“yanlidaji”，yejiushigongji。zaizheierbixuliuyi，zheierdegongjibingbushifanhuizhiqianhetadehudongjiaoliufangshizhong，zhishiyong“toujiquqiao”defangfaguanjiangongji。

 liru，tagangkaishizaipenyouquanzhongfayixieshanggandejuzi，gangkaishizaidajiayiqianchangchangyouhuidediquzhaoxiangzuoweipeitutupiandeqingkuangxia，zheiyigaiguanjian“yanlidaji”dejihuijiuchuxianle。zheijiuchengweitoujiquqiaode“tianhe”。

chucizhiwai，“dilirenhe”he“renyu”haikeyizuoweinitoujiquqiao“yanlidaji”defanchou。

2、投影、认可

 touying、renkeshishehuixinlixuejingshenfenxipaixiguanjiandedingyizhiyi。zaixingweizhutiguanlianjichulilunli，touyingrenkejiushizhibayuanbenguishuyuzishendewupinxiazhudaolingyifang，ranglingyifangyitaxiwangdefangfalaicaiquxingdong。

 tongsuyidianshuobianshi，nideqiannanyouzaitadexinlihenyoukenengyouyigetazijineizai(batarendejianjiehuogerenxingwei，zuoweishizishendeyibufen)lederenjijiaowanghudongjiaoliushitimoxing，suihoutabazheileineizaidefangfayongzainideshenshang。

 liru：zaitazaoqianyuguanjianfadingjianhurenzhongjiandehudongjiaoliufangshishi：dangtaduzieleyaoxiangmamajitamenweiyangdeqingkuangxia，mamayizhibukeyilijidechuxian。zhangciyiwang，taneizaideshitimoxingbianshi，nimeikaolvwodeyaoqiu，bianshibuaiwo。

 yinci dajiahuijiandaoxuduo zuonv，zaitamendequanqiuli，tamenqueshihuijuedenimeijitamenmaibaobianshibuxihuanta，tashihehutatoushexingrentongdeluojixingde。

neima，zheiyitouying、renkejibenyuanlijiaruyingyongdaoganqingwanhuizhongni?

zuixian，nongqingchuyibanzaishenmeqingjingxiahenyoukenenghuijiqihuoyoufachutademingxianxintai。

 liru：tazongshiduiniyiqiezhengchangdejiabanjiadianyebuguisushifenzaiyi。biaocengshangtashixintengnidehuofu，ershishishangjiushiniyizhiyebuguisudechangjing，jihualetongnianshimamayizhihenwanhuijiale，duijiazhongmobuguanxindehaipa。

 yinci，tazaizaiqianyishizhongfangmianbianhuijuede，yebuguisu=duijiazhongbuchengdan。ershijishang“yebuguisu=duijiazhongbuchengdan”shitayixiangqingyuan，touyingrenkedejieguo。danzaitadequanqiuli，tazaoyibuanquanle，yinci，yunidezhengzhijiubuting，zhidaofenshou!

suihou，nixuyaozuodeshi：“wolejienidebuyi”。

 zailejieletadetouyingrenkedeqitenaorongliangyihou，wanhuidezishiyidingshiyizhong“wolejienidebuyi”dezishi，zheihuishitajuedeyoubeinuandao，huishitade“bingchuan”ronghua，shitazaiciganshoudaoyunijiuweiledeqinmiwujiangan。youyu，zheigeshihoutayoubeinilianjielaidao!

touyingrenkedeyingyong，yeyouyizhao，bianshifanshouweigong!

 zaiwomenlejietaxintaimenglieshitouyingrenkelemouyixiewupindeqingkuangxia，dajiajiukeyizaifajuetadezheizhong“qinghuai”dejibenshang，zhudongjingong。liru，nilejietazixiaobabamamadoubuganxiangxintashiyougongzuonenglideren，yinci ，yidanyouxierenjitamentijianyideqingkuangxiatajiuhenshanghuo。youyu，tajuedejitamentijianyibianshibuxinrenta。zheishi，nideduicebianshi：zaishiduxianzaishishihouduitashuo，“nifangshouquzuo，woganquexin!jiarunibixushiyongdeqingkuangxia，wonengzainipangbian”。

3、吊桥效应

 zaishehuixinlixuedeganqingyanjiulingyudiaoqiaoxiaoyingchangbeitanji。diaoqiaoxiaoyingshiruguonizuoyijianshifenfengxianxintiaohenkuaideshierdeqingkuangxia，liruxuankongzhandaoshang，nihaowuyiwenhuiqingbuzijindexintiaojiasu，meiyoucuobianshizheileixingengdejuede。

 dannizhenghaoheciwaiyigerenyiqi，zheileixintiaodeganjuenenggoulejieweilingyifangshizishendongxin，caizaochengdeshenglixuyao，yinciduilingyifangzizhangchuaiqingdeganjue。

zheiyihenxiangganqinglideguiyinyubuzhengque，bazijilijingdemingxianganqingguiyinyudaoyuzhiyouguandeneirendeshenshang。

xianeryijian，tizaolejiezheileiguiyinyudebuzhengqueshitimoxingduiwomendoushiyouyide。

youyu，womenkeyiyunyongzheileiganqinghuanjue，jifataduinide“chulianqingrenyiyangdejuede”。

 liru，zaiganqingwanhuidehoubanqi，womenkeyiyuetakanyichang“zhenfenrenxin”deyingpian。youliru，womenkeyijiaoshangtayiqiqu“fanshanyueling”。hailiru，womenkeyiyutayiqiqulijingyichang“tanxian”。

 zongeryanzhi，zheiyishierqueshishitahenxingfena，suihou，tabianhuibazheileixingfenshikeshunyandaonideshenshangle。naizhi，youneimayike，tahui“rumengchuxing”，yuanxiannengworangpengranxindongderen，huanshinini!

4、竞争优势

 zaishehuijingjixuezhong，womenzhidao：maoyideyichufanyingzaijingzhengyoushishang，erbushijiaodayoushishang。zheitiaojibenyuanlizaishehuixinlixueshangyekeyong。

zaiganqingchuangjianzhongdejingzhengyoushishishenmeni?

 tongsuyidianshuobianshi：nibushizuipiaoliangde，bingbushizuihuiqinjianchijiade，bingbushizuihuiwenroude。keshi，niliangshizuiyouyuanfende!zheijiushijingzhengyoushijibaijiaodayoushi。

zaiganqingwanhuizhongzheiyeshiyizhaofeichanghaoyongdeduice。

 liru：disanzheeryunibirongmao。xingba，talinshihuosheng。keshi，nilejienibitagengdongta!youliru：danshenfupoyunibiziyuan。xingba，talinshihuosheng。keshi，nilejienibitagengdongta!

 suirannimeijuyoujiaodayoushi，keshi，“nibitamendoudongta”bianshinidejingzhengyoushi!jilao:renheshikedoubuyaozaijiaodayoushiyanqiandixiatou。youyu，dajiayouxieshi，direnbumingbaidejingzhengyoushi!

5、“看不见的手”

 xingba，wochengren，zheiyeshiyigeshehuijingjixuededingyi。keshi，yingyongdaoganqingxinlizhuangtaishangyebubitaigongnengqiangda!dajiadoulejieshehuijingjixuezhongneizhikanbujiandeshoujiushizhixiaoshoushichang。neima，zaiganqingwanhuizhongdeneizhikanbujiandeshoushishenmeni?——shijuede，huoshihaikeyijiaoqinggan!

“weihebenlaitamenbianshimenbushanhubudui，taquehaineimeaitani?”

“weihetamenyitiandaowanzhengchao，quehuanshibufenlini?”

“weishabenlailejietabuzhiwoduitahenhao，danwohaishiqingbu

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