让男人主动“求复合”！ 花镇情感咨询 被骗

zaixiufuganqingzhong，huazhenqingganzixun beipiandajiajingchanghuipengdaoneimeyigeyihuo：

zishendaodishibinglixingfenshouhuanshiyinnixingfenshou?

 tianxinbaobeiyelejie，xuduo zaixiufuganqingdexiaobaobaoyeshifenqidaizishennengguishuyuyinnixingfenshoudepanduan，youyuzheiyiweizhezhe，lingyifangyiranduizishenshebude，xiufuganqingdegailvyehuishifendeda。erbinglixingfenshouzehuicushinanduxishudafuzengjia，xiufuganqingdeshijianhehuaxiaodesixuyedaliang。

jinri，tianxinbaobeijiulaigenzhuweixiaobaobaokepuyixia——zhenweixingfenshou，dajiagaizenyangzishenpanduan。

zuixiandajialailiaoyiliaoshenmejiaoyinnixingfenshou。

以学生莹莹为例子：

 yingyingyunanpengyoufenshouhouyizhijiuchanbuqing，zheiyecushiyingyingshifenchaimo。youyuqiannanyouhuihetayuepengmian，yehuiyoushifaxiaoxibiaoluchusinianta，keshimeimeiyingyingmingquetichufuhexing，queyizhibeijujue，beigaozhilingyifangbingbuyuanhehao，erqiehuimaiyuanyingyingyiduiwenti。youshiyingyingnaonuxiashandiaoqiannanyou，lingyifangyehuizaijirihouyoujijijiahui。

 yingyingjuedeshifenmengbi，benlainengganshoudaonanpengyouduizishendezhongai，keshiyoufangfochangchangyuanhenzhezishenyiqianderenxingshenghuo，fangfocongcimeifafuhexing。yincidanxinxia，tagandaotanlianaifazhanxuehao，xunzhaowodexiezhu。

shijishang，yingyingdeqingkuangjiushifenqieheyinnixingfenshoudediyilei：meifaduankaidetongxin。

第一类：没法断开的通信。

 zhenduiyinnixingfenshoudeqiannanyoueryan，shoujiweixin、xinlangweibo、qq、dianhuadengtongxungongjushibushihuibeilaheishanchu，huoshizaishandiaojiaruheimingdanhoushibushihuibeilingyifangzaiyicilashanglai，tashipanduanzhenweixingfenshouhenzhongyaodegenjuzhiyi。

 liru：yingyingdeqingkuang，tazishenshandiaolingyifanghou，lingyifangyiranzaiyiduanshijianhouhuijijijiahuiqu，erqierengjiuxianliao，biaoluguanzhudeqingkuang。

neimayinnixingfenshoudegailvjiujiaoweida。

 youyuzheibiaoming，lingyifangbingbukeyijienawanquanfangqinizheijianshiqing，tabixugenjujiahuishoujiweixinzheiyijianshierlaiquebaoyunideyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliuyugoutongjiaoliu。

 fenshouzhonghenzhongyaodeyibufenbianshijijianzhuyi，yuyiqiandetouruyuzishendeaihezhuiyizuoyigexuanzeyudaobie。erlingyifangmeifajienalianxidianhuadechedishanchu，shijishangyedaibiaozhetaxinlilibingbukeyijienafenshouzheiyijianshier，yinnixingfenshoudegailvdangranyejiugenggao。

第二类：不断起伏的心态。

 zhenduiyinnixingfenshoudeqiannanyoueryan，tazailianluodequanguochengzhongshikongzhibulezhuzishendexintaide。rutong《luolita》dechuangzuozhechangshuo：

“renshengdaoluyousanjianshishimeifamanbaode，ganke、pinkunheai。”

 erchuzaiyinnixingfenshouzhongzishizhizhongshenaizhenideqiannanyou，dangranyemeifaqingqingsongsongyinzangjinideaiyi。tahuijinbuzhudeguanzhuni、huidatannidexiankuang、huizaiweixinpengyouquanfabuyixieyuqingganyouguandewenben。ziran，yehuiyouyuzishenneiyangdegerenxingweierjuedekongzhibuledenaonu。

 yincitayoushihuilengmoni、youshiyouhuibiaoluchuduiniyiqiangerenxingweideyuanhenhemaiyuan。youyutajuederuguobushinidezheixiegerenxingwei，tayeburongyizuochufenlidegerenxingwei，quehuanshishenaizheniergandaokongju。

 zaibuduanqifudexintaixia，shishishangyedaibiaozhetahuibeiniweihai。jiusuanshihuiduinifahuohuoshichize，douyiweizhezhetazaihuzheyunideguoquhenizheigeren。

zheiyebiaomingdajiayeyoufeichangdadejiyuquziwofansi，gentashuodao：

 “wojuedehenkuijiu，youyuneishidezishentaijiaozongtaibutinghua，caihuisunhaileni。benlaishiaizhenide，keshiwojiuyonglebuzhengquedefangfa，buzhengquedebiaoshu，queshihenkuijiu，yinci xianzaiwoyezaijinliangdequgenggai，rangzishencongcimeifanyiyangdebuzhengque，sunhaizishenzuiaideren。”

 danjiarulingyifangduiniquanbudeyujudoupingpingdandankandai、meiyouxintai、meiyounaonu，zhishuoyiju“douguoqu。”yehuijueyunizuoyiqieganqingshangdegoutongjiaoliu，zefeichangdahenyoukenengweibinglixingfenshoule。

第三类：亲戚朋友是不是掌握状况。

 tongchangzhenduiyinnixingfenshoueryan，lingyifanghuibuyouzizhudezaizishendeqinqipengyou，youqishigongtonghaoyouzhongjianmanbaoyifenshoudexinxi。

 youyuyidanfenshoudexinxichuanzuodaotamendeerduoli，youqishizaoyichuzaixiangqinjiehunhuoshibicifumuyilejiedeqingkuang，haowuyiwenshijiangshitaiyanzhonghua。bixubuduanhetamenbiaoshuyuangudelingwai，yeyiweizhelezaifuhexingbei“choulian”degongzuoyalizengjia。

 xueshengyuyuhenanpengyoubianshizaixiangqinjiehunhouyouyuhunyandenantierzhengzhifenshou，fenshouhounanpengyoujinguanzishizhizhongbuyuanyifuhexing，qieyizhichizezheyuyuyiqianfancuodegezhonggeyangshier，hetafanjiuzhang。

 keshitianxinbaobeizaiyuyudeshilizhong，fajuelezheiyiguanjianhuanjie，ji：nanpengyouzishizhizhongweigenqinrenshuolianggerenyifenshoudeshier，naizhiqinrenwenqilai，tayeyi“yuyugongzuozhongmang，linshimeikong”dengyuanyinweituocihuijuepengmian。

 yinerchuxianneiyangdeqingkuangjiunenggaoqingchuyijianshi，qiannanyouduinihuanshiyouyidingdechiyi，tabuduandexushunidewenti，biaoshunaonushishishangyeshizaibiaoshu：zheizhongnantinixuyaoqueshiyougenggai，woyaokannidexingdong，laijueceshibushiyaogennizaifuhexing。yeyiner，meiyoujiangfenshouzheijianshiqingguangergaozhi，kuozhangbijiaoyanzhongshuiping。

 neima，zheishiwomenyaozuodedangranbianshizaizheiliduan“guanchaqi”haohaodizhuyaobiaoxian，jiangyixiedawenti：liruqingxubuwending、laotaipoxinlizhuangtaizheixiekaizhangaijin，lingwaitigaozijideziwojiazhi，tishengwaizaishichangjingzheng，lirushengchanzhizaoyixingpengyou，laijiqitadejinpogan。dangranyekeyizuodaogaileiyinnixingfenshouqingqingsongsongfuhexingdemudile。

第四类：另一方是不是失踪。

 xuduo xiaobaobaoxunzhaotianxinbaobeishuo：“jiaoshi，wonanpengyourujinxinxineirongbuhui，tongdianhuabujie，qutamenjiazhoubianzhaotayebuyuanyipengmian，chedishizongle。zheileiqingkuangzaoyibuduanyizhou/yigeyuele，dajiahuanshiyinnixingfenshouma?”

zhenduizheileixiaobaobao，tianxinbaobeizhiyoubaoqiandeshuoyiju：“qinaidede，dajiashihendianxingxingdebinglixingfenshouqingkuang。”

 tianxinbaobeijingchanggenxueshengshuoneimeyiduanhua：“zaixiufuganqingzhong，zuizhongyaodebingbushilingyifangjiangguonaxie，zhishikantaganlenaxie。fenbianxiufuganqingzuizhongyaodebianshilingyifangdegerenxingweizhibiaozhi。”

 erlingyifangshizongzheiyijianshier，zebiaominglezaiyingduinixiufuganqingtazheiyijianshier，lingyifangtiaoxuanleduobi、meiquyingdui，ningkexiaotuizainishiyezhong，yebuyuanyoubeiyaobaibudingbeishuodongfuhexingdehenyoukeneng。yejinyibubiaomingtazhenduiyunitanlianaizheiyijianshierzaoyishangtoulexin，zhunbeiwanquandesheqi。yeyinerdajiapanduanweibinglixingfenshou。

 erjiarulingyifangzishizhizhongyuniweichizhelianluo，naizhizailianluozhonghouqiyebingbudichupengmianzheiyijianshier，zehenyoukenengshiyinnixingfenshou，zheishidajiazhudongjingong，jinliangdeyaoqingpengmian。genjupengmianshideyuyanhegerenxingweilaiyaobaibudinglingyifangdeniantou，jiqilingyifangzaifenshouhouduinidesinian。zenengfeichangdashuipingdexiufuganqingqinggan，qudechenggongfuhexingle。

 yunyingyiduanqudechenggongdehunyinguanxi，bujinbixuqingshangzhishang，yebixuqiadangdepanduanli。ruguoninengqingxidegaoqingchuzishenshibushibinglixingfenshouhuanshiyinnixingfenshou，yedangrankeyizaixiufuganqingdezheiyitiaolumianshangzoudegengweichangshun。