如何把握冷战男人心态

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 dierzhong，shizhizibutizhiqiandeshiqing。biruzaidiertianzaoshangzhijiefaguoquwenta：“xihuanqiaokelihaishixiangcaodebingjiling？wozhengzaimai，bangnidaiyifen。”（wozhishisuibiandagebifangeryi）ruguoshunlidehuahuihaoxiangmeiyoufashengguolengzhanyiyang，ranhoushunqiziranjiuhuajiele，lengzhandeshiqingkeyiyihouzaisuiyitiqilaijiejuegenyuanwenti。ruguoduifanghaishibulini，neinikeyixuanzeshiyongdierbuzhongdefangfa，huozhedenggeyiliangtianzaizhongshi。

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 wanyi，henbuxing，niyongjinlebanfaertashizhonghaishibulini，huozheshizhihoudouduinibulengburede，tabujinjinshizaiyinweizheijianshiershengqile，ershinimendeganqingbushikekaode。（zheishizaiyongjinlebanfadeqingkuangxia）zheishihoujiugaixiangxiang，zuoweinidenanpengyou，tashifouzhaogunidexinqing，shifouzhendeduiniyouganqing。ruguomeiyoudehua，jiujizijiliudianzizun，buyaojiuchanle。nidongde。

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