为什么异地恋这么痛苦，却还有人在坚持

doushuoyidilianshitongkude，weishenmeyidilianzheimetongku？yidilianzheimerongyifenshou？huazhenxiaobianbangnifenxiyixiayuanyin。

一、为什么异地恋这么痛苦

1、bunengjianmian，meiyouhuati

 yidilianweishenmemeiyouhuati。yinweigongzuojinzhang，duoshuyidilianqinglvjigeyuebujianmiandoushuyuzhengchang。gangkaishi，meitianhuitonggedianhua，guanxinduifangguodezenmeyang，chishenmele，leibulei，zaiganma?keshishijianjiule，zheixiewenhoubiandepingdanwuwei，shenzhiganjueshizaimeihuazhaohua。bujinduifanghuidadehenfuyan，jiulianzijidouganjuezongwenzheixiehuatihenshahentianzhen。cengjingzuishuxideren，xianzaiyidiandiantunse，liangongtonghuatidouzhaobudao，buzhidaoshigaifangshouhaishigaijixu。

2、zhinengwanggousongxiaoliwu

 yidilianhenku，qianbudaoduifangshou，wenbudaoduifangdechun，nalihaiyoushenmelangmankeyan。chulewangliaohedianhualiaotian，zheifenlianqingshizaishizhaobudao“luojiaodian”，bierendeqixikeyipeizheduifangchifanguangjiekandianying，eryidilianqinglvdeqixizhinengbeiwuxiandekongxuganyangai，danyuanzaimougejierili，nikeyishoudaoduifangdekuaidi，yenengganshouyiciweiruoqueyouzhenshidelangman。

3、kanbuqingnizaitaxinzhongdeweizhi

 yidiliandeqinglvmendui“dengdai”yicisuanshiyouaiyouhen，aizainikeyiyongdengdaidefangshihuanlaiyifenmeihaodehunyin，henzaiqianfangdeluyouduozhang，xiwangyouduomiaomangniyigaikanbuqing。nizainan，tazaibei，duifangdeshijieshishenmeyangzi，tazaineiliyoumeiyouyudaogengheshideren，nizaitaxinlijiujingzhanjuzhezenyangdeweizhi，shuoshizaidenihenmolingliangke，youshihouxiangxiang，zaiyidiliandeguochengzhong，fuchugengduodeyifang，queshixianggeshagua。

4、daojiehunnianlingquehaowujinzhan

 ruguobaqitalianaidejinzhansudubizuohuojian，neiyidilianjiushuyuwoniu。doudaolegaijianjianshuangfangfumudenianlingle，shenbiandepengyoumengaiququgaijiayejiale，zhiyounimenhaichuzaimoheqi，yiyanbuhejiuyaonaofenshou，sihaomeiyouanquangankeyan。xinlitouqueshihenzheji，keshiduiciniyouwunengweili。

5、周末没有他

 yidaozhoumo，nijiuhuifaxianzijihenkelian。yinweiniyoudabadeshijian，queyoubuzhidaozuoshenme，xiangkandianyingqueshaogerenpei，xiangyaoguangguangjieyouyuebudaoren，dadianhuajiguimi，duifangyinweiyaopeinanyouerweiwanjujueni。youshihouxiangxiang，haishirangzijimangliuyidianhao，zhishaozheiyangjiubuhuigandaogudu。

6、haipatayudaogengheshideren

 suiranhenduoshihouniganshoubudaozijizailianai，dannishizhongjianchiweiaifuze，jinguantalinihenyuan，dannishizhongzilvxianggeyihunrenshineiyanghuozhe。danshendeyixingpengyouwanshangyueniqukge，nixiaozheshuowanshangheduixiangyouyue，yudaorangzijixindongderen，niyeshizhongmaibuchuneiyibu，jinguanniquedingzheigerenyaobitayouxiu，bitagengshihelianai，dannihaishijianchidengzheyidideta，nizongshizheiyangquanziji：“doudengleneimejiule，buchazheiyishibanhuile。”

7、总是爱幻想

 qinglvyidi，nanmianyouyifangzongaihuanxiang，huanxiangtaweixiaodeyangzi，huanxiangtaqinnietoudeyangzi，huanxiangtadounikaixindeyangzi。shijianjiule，nizaixinlijiuhuipingkongniezaoyigeta，wulunshixinggehaishimouxiejudongdouhexianshidetacunzaichuru，shenzhiyaobixianshidetahaojishibei，qishinixinliyehenqingchu，dannirenyouzijizheiyangquzuo，yinweinizhishixiangrangkanqilaimeineimejimohegudu，xinlikongkongdeweizhizongdeyoudongxitianmanba

一、异地恋为什么容易分手

1、表达有限

 fanzhenglianaizheijianshiqingshang，woconglaidoubuhuiwanquanxiangxinzhinengshoujide。duanxindehua，womentingbudaoduifangdeyuqi，ruguoshidianhuadehua，womenyoukanbudaoduifangdebiaoqing，jishishishipin，womenyeganshoubudaoduifangdehuanjing。qishiwomeishengqi，nidangzhenle;wozaixiaoni，nikanbudaoba;wokuleni，baozheshoujikujuanleshuiguoyouxingle，nizaimangma。xuduodongxi，zhiyoumianduimiandejiaoliucainenggoushuoqingchu，cainenggoutihuidedao。

2、缺乏话题

 zaiyiqidelianggeren，huiyouhenduogongtongdeshenghuojingli，yongyuandouyouxinxiandehuati，buhuijuedeganga，eryidilianzhihou，jishishihennulidexiangyaogaosuduifangshenbianfashengdequshi，youyuquefagongtongdejingli，zhinengbianchengganbabadewenzi，nengshuodezhinengshikongdongde“woxiangni”zhileide。

3、安全感不足

 buanquanganzainvshengshenshangbinanshengshenshangqiangliededuo，suoyidaduoshuyidiliandoushiyounvshengtichudefenshou。yinweiduifangbuzaizijishenbian，jiuhuikaishihusiluanxiang，tashibushigenbierenhaole？weishenmezheimejiuhaimeiyouhuiwoweixin？weishenmedatadianhuayebujie？　ganggangjujuelebierendehaoyi，quejinbuzhuxiang，nishenbiandeyingyingyanyan，yiruwoshenbiandehuahuacaocaoma

4、你无能为力

 xingdongyongyuanbiyuyangengyouliliang。dangduifangxuyaonideshihou，ruguonizhinengjiyuduifangdeshijijuanwei，yixieyexubingbufuheshijidejianyi。xuduoshihou，tianyanmiyuzaiyigewennuandeyongbaomianqianhuixiandeneimedelianjia，ershenghuozhongchuchudouhuiyudaokunnan，douxuyaolianrenhuxiangfuchiyubangzhu。ruguoniyongyuandouzhinengjiduifangyiyuyandeanwei，neimeganqingziranhuidan。

5、身边人

 shenghuoshixiangqiande，womenhuiyudaowushuduoderen，qishizaiaiqingzhongzhendebucunzaishenmezuijiaxuanze，yexumeiyigedouheshi，erzhishiyinweitianshidilirenhedengyuanyinercuoguole。dangshuangfangyinweijulieryuelaiyueyuandeshihou，chuxianleyigezhenxinduinihaoderen，renxindoushirouzuode，zongyoubeidadongdeshihou。

 yidilianjiranyouzheimeduobuhaodedifang，weishenmeyaoyidiliannineixieren？youdeshihoubingbushinixiangdeneimejiandan，youtoufasheixiangzuolaili，haibushiyinweilianggebicifenbukai，haiyouhenduoyinsuzaochenglebudebuyidiliandeyuanyi，weishenmeyaoyidilian？haibushiyinweixiangxinbici，xiangaibici，douxiwanghebicizoudaozhongdian？