坦然面对失败

 youhenduorenhaipashibai，suoyiwangwangzheixierenhennanchenggong，yinweidajiayijinggujibuzhiyicitingdaoshibaishichenggongzhimudezheijuhuale？suoyiwomenzaimianduishibaideshihoujiugengyinggaitanranmianduita。

一、失败学的介绍

 shibaixueshiyimenxiandaiguanlixuedezixueke，shiyanjiuxiangguanshibaiweizhudeguanlikexue。shibaixueshiyiguanlixuelilunweijichu，yianliyanjiuweizhongdian，congerxingchenglilun。bingyicizuoweijuece、yucedegongju，tigaoguanligongzuodekexuexing。zengjinqiyechenggonglv。 xiayishibaixuezhizongjieqianrenshibaidejingyanjiaoxun，weiwosuoyong；guangyideshibaixuechuzongjieqiyeguanlianli、jingjixue、shehuigonggongguanli、xintaixue、shehuixuedengxuekefanchouneidexiangguanshibaijingyanzhiwai，haibaokuo“nishangxue、wuquxue、yujingxue、weijiguanlixue”dengxiangguanyanjiugongzuo，yishangjiushiguanyushishibaixuedejieshao。

二、如何面对失败

1、要学会冷静

 womenzaimianduishibaideshihouyinggaibaochilengjing，tanranmianduita，womenyudaocuozheshishouxianyaoxuehuidediyijianshi，henduorenyiyudaocuozhehuozheburuyishi，wangwangdouhuibiaoxiandehenchongdonghejizao，shenzhiduishenbianderenfapiqi，zheiyangbudanbuliyujiejuewenti，haihuijiangwentiyanzhonghua。suoyiwangwangtanranmianduishijiejuewentideguanjian。

2、不要去抱怨

 henduorenzaiyudaoshibaishi，zongshihuibutingdebaoyuan，zheishihouzaiqubaoyuanshiyushiwubude，haiburuxiangbanfaqujiejuewentigenghao。

3、要避免消极

 youxierenyudaoshibaishijiuhuixinhuiyilenghebiandexiaoji，juedezijimeiyouguanximeiyouziyuan，bukenenghuichenggong，buguanduonulidaotoulaiyeshibaifeixinji，ruguoyouzheizhongxiaojixiangfaderen，yidingyaodujue，yinweizheiyangxiangzhiyoubaihaierwuyili。

4、不要想逃避

 suiranshuotaobiyesuanshimianduicuozhedeyizhongfangshi，danjueduibushidefangshi，yinweijiusuantaobile，wentihaibabaizainei，chizaodouyaomianduide。

5、可以停一停

 biyaodeshihourangzijixiantingxialai，buyaojiujieta，rangzijidetounaofangkong，huozhezhuanyiyixiajinbengzhedezhuyili，xiuxiguohouhuoxunengxiangchuhaofangfalai。

6、可请人帮忙

 suhuashuo，yirenjiduan，liangrenjizhang，zheijuhuayouyidingdedaoli，buyaojuedezhaorenbangmangbuhaoyisi，pengyouzhijianjiuyinggaishihuxiangbangmangde，zheiciqingpengyoubangmang，xiacizaibanghuiqujiukeyile。