如何与女上司打交道

 xuduonvrendoubuxihuanyouyigepiaoliangnvshangsi，yinweinvrenmingan、duoyidexinggetezhengshitamenhepingxiangchuqilaihennan。ruguonishinvxiashu，qianwanbuyaorangzijideguangmanggaiguonvshangsi，yebuyaomengxianghetajianlishenmeyangdeyouyi，zuohaonidebenzhigongzuojiuxingle。

 daizhejingqi、mengxiang，haiyouyidiantantebuan，meimeitiaocaodaoleyigeguojiajiguan。zuowaishigongzuo，zaimianshishi，zhukaoguanwentaxiwangyouyigenanshangsihaishinvshangsi，tabujiasisuodihuida：“nanshangsi。”qianyishili，daduonvshangsizaitaxinlidouhuiyouxiekoushixinfei、chongmantaiduodekongzhiyu，erqiezaitamenmianqian，zuogelinglong、youya、nenggandexiashu，tebieshiyouxiudenvxiashu，shiburongyide。jinguanbuyuanyi，danrengshiyigenvshangsizaidengzheta。

 tayiwushikaiwai，zhaolishuo，tahemeimeidecengciwanquanbutong，genbenjiumeiyoukebixing，kemeimeiyirannengqiangliedigandaotazaitongzijijiaoliangzhe。birushangbandiyitian，meimeishangweizhanwenzaitamianqian，zheiweinvshangsijiubuyinbuyangdilaileyiju：“chuanchaoduanqunzaiwomenbangongshishibuyunxude！”zheimelenglengdeyijuhua，bameimeidexindoujiaolianglebanjie。

 bukefouren，jinguanxianzaisuizhenvxingyuelaiyueduodijishenzhichangzhong，chuxianleyuelaiyueduodenvxinggaocengguanlirenyuan，dannvxingshenshangyouyixiequedianhaishibukebimiande，rumingan、duoyi、aijidudengdeng。suoyi，shenweinvxiashu，nijiuyaoduizijigewaiduojiajigexiaotixing。

一、面对女上司要注意的几个小提醒

1、穿着不可相似

 kanguogangju《jinzhiyunie》denvxingduiqizhongdeyigeqingjieyidingbuhuiwangji：shichongerjiaoderufeicengjihenyouren“zhuangshan”，pohaizhisiyimingfeibin。yinci，zaijijiangyinglaiyigedachangmianshi，meigefeizidoubuxizhongjintongguorufeishenbiandenubidatingqidangrideyizhe，shenzhilianyanseyebuganyiyang，eranzanghuoxindeerchunbianguyiyinduishouyuyingqutiaonei“zhuangshan”deyifuchuan。yinweibishi，“zhuangshan”derenjianzhijiushimingmuzhangdandizaitiaozhanrufei，kendingbuhuidedaohaoxiachangde。suiranputongrenbuhuifashengruhougongfeipinzheiyangjingxindongpode“zhuangshan”jingli，danzaibangongshiliwohewodeshangsinvmotouyiyangchuandeyongronghuagui，jiushiqinfantadeweiyan。

2、风头不可太过

 nvrenchangfandemaobingjiushixihuanchufengtou，suiwudaai，danbuyaogaiguopiaoliangnvshangsi。lihuadezhurenshiweipoyoufengzi、nianjin40denvxing，zailihuaganglaidaogongsideshihou，zhurenduitayehenqinqie，xianzaiqueyuelaiyuelengdanle，duicilihuayizhibumingbaishishenmeyuanyin。zhidaoyouyicibumenquantichudongjuxingnianzhongqinghe，jiuzhuoshanglihuachujinfengtou。quchanggeshi，tadangranyebuhuicuoguozheigehaojihuiyizhangehou。raner，jiuzaixingchongchongdiyaochangdisanshougeshi，zaizhongrendezhangshengli，lihuawuyizhongkandaolewodeshangsinvmotoushoulelengluo，taniudaoyibiandelianshangyouzhejiqimingxiandebukuai。zaineiyike，yiqielihuadoumingbaile。

3、把握交谈的深度

 zaibulejiejutiqingkuangzhiqian，biemaomaoshishiwenhoutadezhangfuhehaizi，xuduopiaoliangnvshangsideshenghuobiwomenxiangxiangdeyaodutededuo；chaimiyouyanjidamaoyidexindeyebunengtongnvshangsijiaoliu，yaozhidaorendejingliyouxian，gentatanchijiaxinde，huiyinqitadejingjue——“tashibushishangbanshiyikexinrengzaijiali？”ciwai，jiaohuanmeirongxindeshinvxingzhijianzengjinqinmigandemijuezhiyi，buguonvshangsihenvxiashuzhijianbushiyongzheiyishoufa。yincichufeitazixunni，fouzeqiewuxiangnvshangsichenshuyangyandemifang。

4、结交良师益友

 danweizhongchangyouyixierenbeichengzuo“dajie”，bujinyinweinianzhang，haiyintarenyuanhao、weixingao。tamenxingshigongzheng，yishenzuoze，kanweinianqingrendebangyang。bujinruci，zixilejiehaihuifaxian，zaiweirenchushihechijiafangmiantamenhenyoujingyan，douzhidenianqingrenquxuexi，zheiyangdenvshangsibeiniyouxingyushang，ruguokeyiyingdeqixinrenchengweipengyou，duinideshiyeheshenghuodouhuiyouhendabangzhu。