henduoren24suileyishiwucheng,gandaohenjiaolv,buzhidaozijiyaoganshenme?qishiniyoumeiyouxiangguo,daozhiniyishiwuchengdeyuanyinshishenmeni?buzhidaogaiganshenmedeshihouyinggairuhediaozhengzijidexintaini?
一、一事无成的原因
1、没有规划
24suileyishiwucheng,yexushiyinweinimeiyouguihuaderensheng。shenghuomeiyouguihuazongshihuirangnizaishoucuoshibiandeshouwuzucuo,meiyoujiejuebanfa,zhiyourenzhenderenshengguihua,cainenggoubangniliqinggengduodeweilaifangxiang,rangniyuelaiyuehao。
2、不思进取
youhenduorencongtarushehuidaozhichanglaoren,yizhizaiyigegangweishangzuozhezhongfudegongzuo,duiyuzijidezhiyefazhanhefangxiangmeiyouyidianxiangfa,buxiangfuchuzhixiangshouhuo,busijinquzhinengyuezuoyuecha。
3、频繁跳槽
tiaocaoshizhichangzhongderenchangjianxianxiang,danshipinfandetiaocaozhihuijinidailaifumiandeyingxiang,zhiyouzaiyigexingyeshengengjiniancaihuiyougengduodejingyanjilei,pinfantiaocaoniyongyuanzhinengzaizuidiceng。
4、拒绝社交
buyaoxiaokanshejiaoherenmai,zaibiyaoshihounenggoujinihendadebangzhujinidailaihenduojihui。zhiyoudongdeshejiaoderen,cainenggouyingqugengduorenshengzhuanbiandejihui。
5、心态消极
24suileyishiwuchengyexugennidexintaiyouguan。xiaojidexintaiyehuiyingxiangyigerenxiangshangdejiaobu,ruguobunenggouyongyouyigejiankangdexintaiqumianduicuozhe,neimerenshengjiuhuibianhenjiannan。
二、不知道自己要干什么
shehuigongzuoyaokandeshigerennengli,dangnibuzhidaozijiyaoganshenmedeshihou,nixuyaokankannijuyounaxienengli,ranhougenjuzijidenengliqujuedingzijizuoshenme。
1、zijiyoushenmexingquaihao
zuozhegangzouchuxiaoyuandeshihouyeshihenmangrana,yigexueshengmeiziqunaerzhidaowogaixihuanshenmegongzuo?suiranqinrenyejilewohenduojianyi,danwoxianglexiangdoujujuele。ruguonibuzhidaogaiganshenmedeshihou,xiangyixiangnidexingquaihaoshishenme。
2、kankannide“shenjia”
youjuhuanibiebuaiting,ruguonishigeqiongkurenjiadehaizi,nijiuxihuanyixieshenmegaodashangdeshiqing,nixiangtongguoneixiexingqudexuexi,ranhouzhaoyifencileidegongzuo,xiangfatinghao。keshiwoxiangwenwenni,xuexineixiexingqudeqiannaerlai?jizhule,kaolvzijixihuandegongzuodeshihou,biewangjikankannideshenjiashiruhede。
3、kaolvhaozijifazhandehuanjing
kaolvyixianijuedingyihouyaozainaerfazhan,ranhouzaineigefanweinei,genjuzishennengliyuyixilieyinsu,zaijinxingyixiliegongzuodeshaixuan。
4、genjuzishenqiangxiangxuanzegongzuo
birunizaixuexiaodezhuanyexuedeshishenme,nizainayifangmianbijiaoyounengli,huozheshuoninenggoujiayunayixingzhidegongzuo,ranhouzaineigefanweinei,zhaodaonibijiaozhongyidegongzuo。
5、genjuzishenxinggekaolv
zijikeyixiangyixiangnidexinggeshihezenyangdegongzuo,ruguonixuanzedezhiyehenidexinggewanquanbuduilu,zaihaodegongzuoyeshiwufazuochushenmechengjide,yinweinigenbenjiubushihe。
6、积蓄知识与能力
nixihuandegongzuobudaibiaoniyouzhengfudenengli。zheiyangyigeniandai,younengliderencaijueduibuhuibeimaimei,beimaimeide,haishinenglibugoudejiarencai。
xiangyaozuoyifenzijixihuandegongzuo,neimebiezhengtiantangzaichuangshangxiaofeizhedienianghuanxiangle,jiajinxuexitigaozijigefangmiandenengli,zhiyouzheiyangnicainengpeideshangneifennixihuandegongzuoe。
24suileyishiwuchengdeni,suiranmuqianyishiwuchengqishiyemeiyoushenmekeyihaipa,renqingyishangzheijidian,zhongxinkaishi,zhongxinzuoziji,zhiyouzhenzhengpinbo、zhiyounuliguocaihuiguoshangnixiangyaodeshenghuo。
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