你想过离婚后怎么办吗

 liyi shimeigerendoufeichangbuxiangyaojiandaodezhuangkuang，zhongjiuenaileneimazhangqi。keshiyixieshierhuanshimeibanfafangzhide，yincijinriwangbianhaiyaojinjinweiraoliyizheiyihuatitaoluntanmouxieshier，rulingyifangsihuobulihunzenmeban，jiqixianglihunzenmeban。

一、离异要三思而行

xianglihunzenmeban，zaijileizhuangkuangxia，liyihuanshiyaosansierxing：

 meiyouyishizhuxingnengli。zheiyinengliguanjianfenerzhongzhuangkuang，yiyaojingjifazhan，ershixintaizhuangtai。zishendouyangbuhuozishen，neiliyishiyibiankelingjisheikan，zishenfumuma？yiqianyudaoguoyigenvhai，taliyidabannianduo，meitianqinshinanan，xiangdequanshizhangfuchishenmechuanshahesheiyiqi，youmuyoubixuneimechaimozishen？yaoshisixiangguannianhejingjifazhanshangbukeyidandude，liyihuanshijinshenxieba。quangaoshenmehaiyaoxianglihunzenmebanzheiyinantideren，jiarujinixialiezhuangkuangbixuyaosansierxing。

 shenpangyidaduipenyoudoudizhi。nvxingnenggoubutingbabamamadehua，juedetamendeguanniantaipojiu，danjiarushenpanghenduopenyouyebuzantongliyi，nijiugaihaohaodisikao，qinggandeshiyizhipangguanzheqingdangjuzhemi。bixuyaoxiangqingxilihunhouzenmeban。congmingrenbidinghuikaolvdao,lihunhouzenmebanzheiyinanti，dangnimeiyoukaolvdaoguo，zhiyoushuoniyeshihenmangmugenfengdezhihoudeyishizhuxingninengguodehaoku。

 haizidechengzhangdeguanjianshiqi。kanlexuduoliyijiazhongdejingdiangushi，liyipengshangshenkedeyizhixiaohai，jiaruliyinanyibimian，neiwubiweixiaohaiduoxiangzhe。benrenganjue，liyiduichuyuhaizipanniqisunhaijiaoda，wanwanquanquanxiaodenaxieyebumingbaifandaomeisha，yiguoqingchunqipanni，xiaohaisiweijianjiandichengshuqi，sunhaiyejiumeineimada。>> nulineimeduoweishenmetazheibanjueqing?ganqingquezhennengfouwanliu

 shentibaoyang。shangnianhaibingbushiqunian，woxieguoyipianwenzhangrufangshoushuhoulaogongyaolihundewen，shoushuhouhaimeiyouxiufujiulihunle，shijishangyihouhenzhangguoduanshijianshiriguodehenbutaihao。dadingzhuyixuli，neihaiyaoxianyangjiankangshenti，danshishishijiandezaozhongwan。

 yushangledongnideren。zheizhongqingkuangxialiyide，houhuimojijilv，yixielihunlehezheiyiduidedoudouhaimeishizhijinkou，jiuzaoyihouhuimojile，yixieshishiguojingqianhoucaihouhuimoji。wojuede，ganqingdouyouyujianjucaigengpiaoliang，shiriguodehaohaodide，bietiaomaobing。

二、另一方死活不离婚怎么办

 lingyifangsihuobulihunzenmeban？xiangliyidelingyifangnenggoudanfangdaofayuansusonglihun，fayuanhuiyijuqisufangdetiqisusongyuanyinfenbian，shibushishiyongbiciliyi，burongyiyouyulingyifang“sihuobuyuanliyi”，jiunenggouweihaifayuandecaidingde。yiju《hunyinfa》di32tiaoyaoqiu， nanrennvrenlingyifangguidingliyide，keyouxiangguanbumenkaizhandiaojiehuolijixiangrenminjianchayuanmingquetichulihunsuzhuang。renminjianchayuananjianshenlilihunsusong，liyingkaizhandiaojie;ruqingganqueyiliekai，diaojieshixiao，yingzhunxuliyi。

 lingwai，yiju《hunyinfa》（xiuzhengantongguo）di32tiaodi2kuanyaoqiu：“renminjianchayuananjianshenlilihunsusong，liyingkaizhandiaojie；ruqingganqueyiliekai，diaojieshixiao，yingzhunxuliyi。”zheiyiyaoqiubiaoming，nanrennvrenlingyifangmingquetichulihunzhihou，shibushizhunxuliyi，buzaiyuduifangshibushiyuanyiliyi，zhishifayuangenjufufubicideqingganshibushiqueyiliekaihediaojieyoushixiaolaijuece。zuoyoujiushishuolingyifangsihuobulihunzenmebandejiejuefangan。