要正确对待与异性交往

 henduotongxuefaxianzijikewangyuyixingtongxuejiechuhe jiaowang ，renweiyuyixingtongxuezaiyiqixuexi、huodongfeichangyouyisi，qingxuyehuishifengaozhang，zheishiyizhongfeichangzhengchangdexintai。zhengchangdiyuyixingjiaowangdehaochuduo，duiyunanshenghenvshengdouyoufeichangjijidezuoyong。

 yixingzhijiandejiaowangfeichangzhongyao。chuyuqingchunqideshaonanshaonvduiyixinghaoqi、haogan、xiangjiejinyixingshizhengchangxianxiang，shixingyishifazhandaoyidingjieduandebiranbiaoxian。ziranerrandichanshengduiyixingdehaoqi、shenminaizhirelieerdanchundexiangwangdengganshou。

 qingniannannvtongguojiankangdejiaowang，renshidaonannvxintaiheshenglishangdechayi，pochushenmigan，peiyangjiankangdexingxintai，jianliyixingjianchunjiedeyouyi，shibicizhijiankeyiyouhaotanrandehezuo，xingchengchunpolianghaodeshehuifengqi。qingchunqi，shaonanshaonvdeyixingjiaowangshitamenchengzhangdezhongyaokecheng，shitongxingjiaoliu、haiziyufumuzhijiandejiaowangbunengqudaide。yinci，yaoxiangxinhaizimenyixingzhijiandeyouyi，tongguoshidangdeyindao，cushihaizigengjiajiankangkuailedichengzhang。

一、与异性交往的好处

1、duixuexiyoujilizuoyong。

 zainannvtongxuexuexishi，gongtongcanyu，wangwangqifenhuoyue，sheidoulizhengqianlie，biaoxianziwodeyuwangqianglie，cushisiweihuodongzhuangchujiliedehuohua。

 nanshengxiangxiangdechuangzaoxingjiaoqiang，nvshengxiangxiangdeqingganxingjiaoweishengdong；nanshengluojijiyijiaohao，nvshengqingganjiyijiaohao；nanshengganzhidezhengtixing、gaikuoxingjiaoqiang，nvshengganzhidefenxixingheshengdongxingjiaoqiang，nannvtongxuegongtongxuexi，jiuyouliyuyoushihubu，xianghuqifa，jifaxuexixingqu，cushinanshengnvshengnulixuexi。

2、duiyanxingyouguifanzuoyong。

 chuyuqingchunqidenanshengnvshengdouyoujiaoqiangdezizunxin，pazaitarentebieshiyixingtongxueqiandiu“mianzi”，yinci，youyixingtongxuezaichangshi，huizijuehuobuzijuediguifanzijishiyanxing，yibianjiyixingtongxueliuxiameihaodeyinxiang。nanshengnvshenghuxiangcanguansushe，tamenjueduihuichedidasaoweisheng，nulichuangzaohaodexingxiang。

3、youfengfuqingganjingyandezuoyong。

 yixingtongxuezaizhengchangjiaowangshi，youyuxianghuxiyin，ganqinggengweirongqia，xinqinggengweiyuyue。nanshengnvshengdeqinggantedianhebiaodafangshiyoubutong，nanshengqingxubijiaochongdong、reqing，biaodagengweizhudong、zhijie；nvshengqingganfengfu、xini，biaodagengweihanxu、jinchi。nannvtongxuezaizhengchangjiaowangshibianhuitiyandaotongxing、yixingzhijianjiaowangdechayi，congerzengjiagerendeqinggantiyan。

4、youtigaoshejiaonenglidezuoyong。

 zhengchangdeyixingtongxuejiaowang，keyihuodeyuyixingyouhaoxiangchudejinglihejingyan，zhangwoyidingdeshehuijiaowangjiqiao，yougenghaodeqingxuguanlinengliheyuyanbiaodanengli，biaoxiandegengweizixindafang，youliyushenxinjiankangfazhan。

5、youwanshangexingfazhandezuoyong。

 youyunanshengnvshengzairenzhi、qinggan、yizhi、qizhi、xingge、nengli、xingqudengduofangmiandechayi，zaiqizhengchangjiaowangguochengzhongjiuxuyaoxianghushiying，xianghuquzhangbuduan，zheijiucushinanshengnvshengzaijiaowangguochengzhongjinyibuwanshanzijidexinggedeng，tigaogoutongjiaowangnengli，cushijiaowangshuangfangdegexingquanmianfazhan。