当今社会女生该主动追男生吗？

 nvshengyingbuyinggaijijiqu zhuinanhai ？dangnijuedenideheaibideshangniduitadeqingyidehuawomeiyouhuashuo，ganqingmeiyouyingbuyinggai，yincinvhaigaijijizhuinanshengmazheiyinantijinjinnimeiyouyongduifangshi hefangfa，yongmeicuojibianshijijihaikeyifuhuogaolengnanshendexin。

一、女生应不应该积极去追男孩

 wenlexuduonanshengjijibiaobaidenvhairuhe，tahuiyingshuo：“xiangbinvhaijijibiaobai，xiangfangfarangnanshengxianbiaobaidehua，nengshiliangrenxiangchudegailvkuoda，bingqiexiangchuhouguanlianyehuigengpingwen”。

 shibushiyaojijibiaobai，yinrenyousuobutongde，jiarunanshengjiaoweineixiangxingbeidongjineng，nvshengwaixiangleguan，neimanvhaijijiyidianfandaonenggengqiangdechengxianzishendefengcai。shuobailenvzhuinangecengsha，zhidejiushishuozheileiqingkuang。nvhaidebiaobai，nenggoucaiyonglijidefangfa，haikeyicaiyongnvxingduyoudeanshizhedefangfa、zhengqueyindaodefangfa、naizhiyidiancijixingdefangfa，jitamenjiyuzhangkou。

 jiarubiciquanshineixiangxingdanchunxing，yebutaiheshiyounvxingjijizhangkou，youyuyidanbeihuijuehuoshijianglaipengdaofenqi，nvxingzaoshoudesunhaihuijiaoweishen。jiarubiciquanshiwaixiangxing，zeyebuyongnvxingjiji，taganjueshihedejihui，daziranhuibiaobai，zheishihounvshengtaijijifeichangrongyixiaochutadetiaozhanyuhezhengfu2yu。jiarunanshengxinggewaixiang，nvhaineixiangxing，neimanvhaichiyixubuxuyaobiaobai，zheiyifanyingzishenjiutixinglemouleijianghui，jinanshengbingmeiyoushencengcixiangchudeyiyuan，yexuhuanshichuyuxingfudedanlianhuoshianlianhuanjie，bibushangjilingyifangduoyixieshijianba。

二、女孩该积极追男生吗？

 rujinshishashiqi？rujinshiqibuyiyangleya，renmennvrenquanshidandude，renmenzishenyouzishendegongzuo，renmennenggouzhonghuozishen，yincizheiyishiqisheizhonghuobushiwozhongzhongzhizhong，woaisheicaisuanshizhongzhongzhizhong，yincishuowoxiangzhaoyigewoaideren，woyudaolewoxihuanderen，woweihebuyingdangquzhuini，shifou，rujinzheiyirenrenpingdengdeshiqi，woweihehaiyaozuomalubiandehuadengnibangmifenglaicaiwodemi，dajiananshengyoulixiangdedezhipeiquan，woweihejiubukeyiyouzhuiquxingfukuailedezhipeiquanni，bengongsishiyouzhudaoquande，bingqieyoushiwojuedebuxunvhaijijizhuinansheng，wojuedezaoyibingbushigongpinggongzhengle，fandaoshiduinvxingdeyizhongjingqishenshangdelingnvehebeiyapo。liruwojinridouxihuanshangyigenanshengle，jiuxihuanzheiyitunvlang，wokouganjiushishuozhong。

 keshidajiashuonibukeyiqujijizhuita，neimenigenwoshuowogaizenmebanni，wojuedewozuizhongzhiyouyanbabadikanjiantagenqitanvrenzaiyiqi，jianghuizheiyinvrenhaibibushangwo，xiangxinzheileibaizhuanaoxindejuedexuduonvhaidoushiyoude，rutongnijiandaozuixihuandeshiqingbaifangzainiyanqiannifeichangaichi，keshidajiagenwoshuobuhaonibuyinggaichi，jiuyingdangliuzhehalaziwangyanyuchuandikanjian，zheijiushishuoyizhongjingqishendelingnve，wozhuiyigerenneijiarubeihuijuelewokeyihenshangxin，keshiwojuedezheiyibuguanjian，woyaozhuiwoxihuanyigeren，budiulian、buweifa，woweihemeiquzhui。