女生追男生怎么掌握分寸（上）

 nvsheng zhuinansheng dejiaodanantiqujueyufencunbutaihaozhangwo，qiaoqiaoxiaishangnanrendenvrenwojuedexuduo，dantamendoudanxingairuhechuzhaoer，taijijilehuilingrenqingkan，taiheaileyouhuishiqujihui，nvshengzhuinanshengjiujingruhezuocaishiheni?ruhezhuinansheng?

1gejianyidebiaozhun——“fenjieshengji，jieneijiji，shengjiyinyou。”

danshi，shijianjingyan，90%jijideshujuxinhaoshijixiaoguoshishide，yaojinanshengliuyouzuizhongde10%。

dangtazouhuilaiyunigangkaishigoutongjiaoliuzhiji，dajiachaoyueleshengshuguanliandediyiweimenkan，jindaodahuahuanjie。

 dahuahuanjiedegoutongjiaoliu，nijiqingyidianerbingburongyishimuqianguanlianchanshengshijixinggenggai，nizaizenyangjijishuohua，dajiaquanshibujiulejiede2gelurenbale。xianggaoqingchuzheiyidianer，jiuananxinxinditongyixingdong。

keshilaidaodahuahuanjiedemowei，nibixudedaotadelianxidianhua，guanlianjiangcongerjindaoxiayibu。

 jinliangbuyaotaiguoliji，duicejiushishuo9:1guilv，nishifangchulaichongzushujuxinhao，jinxingshengjixuyaodejuedaduoshumaixiafubi，erbazuizhongyibudangzuo1gebixuchulidenantipaojinanxing。

 liru，ninengshuo“zheitaiquweile，huilaiwobixuyaohaohaodikexueyanjiuyixiaxia，meicuo，jiaruzhihouwodougaobudongzabanya?”，suihoudengtajijibalianxidianhuajiaojini，neiyangdajiajiujindaolelejiehuanjie。

(二)了解环节：

 zenmezhuinansheng?jindaolejiehuanjie，nikeyizhudongjingong，wuxudengtaxianlailianluoni，zaizheiyihuanjieweichiheaihaowujiazhi。meishierjiujitamenfaxinxitongdianhua，suibianliaotianeryiliangju，rangdajiazhongjianmanmanchuangjianqizheizhongxiguanxing——shinigentadelianluohenyiqiezhengchang。

yongyouzheiyixinyoulingxiyihou，nicainenggouweishengjizaojiujiyu，jibenyuanlirengranshi9:1guilv。

 liru，mouyilibaitiandezhongwu，nidianhuata，wenyiwentazaiganshenme，jiarutazhenghaomeishier，niqueshuonibujiubeinvyoushuangyuele，zheng1gerendaodaxingshangchanghuanglaihuangqu，buqingchujiexiaqugaizuoshenme;huoshishiniyaoqukankangezhanlanhui，danyoupazishenzhaobuzhediqu，huanjuhuashuojiushishuogexiaonandian，badajiadechuciyouhuigaishangyibianyingxiongjiumeideqizi。