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 henvhaiziliaotian huatiyounaxie?buguanzenyangzaoshoutichufenshou，douwufaduobifenshouhouzheicifashaoganmao，zhuiyiruwufapingjingercheng，liuyoudequemanshitongchu、nanguo、zhengtuo、danxin。dangshibingbushidayingleqianleshou，haiyaobuduanzouxialaidema?jinrizenmejiangfenshoujiufenshou?

 weizheixieganqingnulilequanbudeni，bixubugan，huanzuojiushiwoyeburongyiganyuan。zhongjiu，yiqineimajiu，zennengshuowangjiuwang。yinci，renmenxiangqilewanliu，huanchengyiqiandeganqing，rangzishentaochufenshouhoudeshengu。

 keshi，shijidouhuizairenshengshiyideneishihouzairangniyibazhang——fenshouhou，wojiujinggairuhelianluota，nenggourangtahehaoruchu?wunaideni，xinlichuanchuyizhenyizhengaizenmebandexiangsheng。

 fenshouzhihoujilingyifangtongdianhua，lingyifangtongchangburongyijie，jieleyebuqingchushuonaxiehao。nisilaixiangqu，faxiaoxihaoxiangbianchengleshidegoutongjiaoliufangfa，youchongzudeshijianlaisisuoxinxineirongdeneirong，lingyifangyeburongyitaifangan。henvhaiziliaotianhuatiyounaxie?

jinguanhuanlegefangfa，keshinantidebenzhihuanshimeichuli，gairuhefaxiaoxisuanshiqiadangdewanliuzitaini?

 youyuzaiwanliuzheiyishengsiyixian、jingxindongpodezhongyaoneishihou，lingyifangbuhuihuanshixiaoshi，ruguojiangcuoyiduanhuajianghuijiuhuiyinqilingyifangmingxiandedichuhebumanqingxu，naizhibarenmenjiaruheimingdan，neibianshidashile。

 zaizheileijidanyoulingyifangbuhuigenghaipashuocuohuadejinyaoguantou，xuduorenjiuhaosixianruzhaoze， bunengzibaderenermenruheyezhaobuzheneibaoyigendaocao，tongchanghuicaiyongxialieerzhongjiduanhua“wanliufangfa”：

1、死皮赖脸

 youyubuqingchuqiadangdewanliufangfa，xuduorenrenweizishenyaoshijianchibuxiezhuiqiuyongbufangqijiunengranglingyifanghehaoruchu。yinci，jiuyongsipilailianzheileijiduanhuadefangfalaiwanliulingyifang，meiriyongdianhua、duanxiaoxi、shoujiweixinkuanghongluanzhayilian，xiangweicilaibiaoshuzishendezhenxinshiyiyuqingyi。

 jiaruzhadelingyifangjiaruheimingdanlequanbulianxidianhua，hairenweishimolianzishenshifouzugouzhenxinshiyi，yincilijipaodaolingyifangjiazhonghuosuozaidanweikenqiulingyifangkuanronghefuhexing。

 fenshouzhihou，tebieshizaishijianchibuxietichufenshoudelingyifanghuichuxianqingganfanghuqi，tadexintaigenniyeshimeiyoufangfajinxingyizhide。buguanniruhebiaoshuzishendeqingyiyuzhenxinshiyi，lingyifangdouburongyizainageneishihouduinigenggaixintai。

 henvshengliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie?rutongniyongjingpailanqiusai，lanqiusaijiuhuiliniyuezouyueyuan。yinci，xuduozaifenshouzhihoucaiyongsipilailianderen，huandedetongchangshilingyifangdejiaruheimingdan，lingyifangliniyuezouyueyuan，duiniyeyulaiyulengdan......zuizhongnizishenquezaiyuandibaozha。

2、yikuernaosandiaosi， zheileiguishuyujiduanhuadeweixiefangfa。

 youxierenganjueshiqulingyifangkuanronghefuhexingderen，rutongshenxianrenshengdaolujuedi。yincixingerduyibing，laige“yikuernaosandiaosi”。yinci，renmenchangchangjiandaohuotingjianyouxierenzaifenshouzhihouduanshi、fudu、gewan、tiaolouzisha、tiaohe、diaosizheixiejiduanhuazuofa。zhibuguojiushishuoweixielingyifang，haoranglingyifanghuijiabei。

 keshi，zuoweijishuzhuanyedeqingganzixunshiyaoduinishuodeshi，weixiefangfashiwanliuzhongzuibijiaoyanzhongdebuzhengquefangfa。jiarunishigenvhai，huirangnanhaiziganjuezheigerenhaiziqi、jiduanhua，zuo，zongshilingqiyanjuanxintaitisheng;jiarunishigenanhaizineimezuo，zongshirangmeinvmencongxinliqiaobuqini，youyunimeidangdana，nichengshoubuqicuobaia，nijibushangbierenguishugan，feichangbuyemener，diuliana!

 yinci，wulunshizhenxinshiyihuanshixuyiyongweixiefangfachangshiwanhuiganqingderen，zongshibazishenshenxiangengpugongdejushi，naizhicuihuidiaowanliudezuizhongyisisiqidai。hezheizhongrenchuduixiang，jiaodadenanshoujiushishuoquefaanquangan，bierenpaninayitiannanshoujiuzijin，danyoua。

neimarujinnantidebenzhichuxianle， jibukeyisichan，yebukeyiweixie，jiujingzaban?

jiexiaqu，wohaizaibuzudepianshuliweizhuweihaiyaofenshouhouzhaozejianlizhengtuoderenchushizheijigechangyongzhaoshi。

 wojuede，yaoshinikeyifangzhishangbianerzhongjiduanhuabuzhengquedewanliufangfa，bingbaozhengyixianeirong，dabufenjiuqudechenggongyidabanle。

yinci，bieqinei，xiabianduinishuo qiadanghelidewanhuiganqingdejizhongfangshi：

1、xianliaoquanguochengzhongfangzhikaiqibumanqingxu

 zaifenshouzhihou，bicihuilinshichuzai1geganqingfanghuqi，zuifeichangrongyiyinqiliangrendepanniqixin。henvshengliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie?

 zaizheiyishiqi，tichufenshoudelingyifang，huiyouyuwanliufangdebubujinbi，fandaotishengbumanqingxu，naizhigengjiandingbuyitichufenshoudexinxin;wanliudelingyifang，zailingyifangdehuijuexia，fandaoyuecuoyueyong，bubujinbi。

 yinci，zaizheiyiduteshiqi，wanliudelingyifangzaigenlingyifangxianliaogoutongjiaoliuzhong，yaojinliangjianshaoguanyulianggerenganqingcengmiandexinxineirong，bujilingyifanggongzuoyali，jiuburongyiyinqilingyifangmingxiandebumanqingxu。

 jiarulingyifanghuiyouyunideyiqiechuxianjiuzaochengbumanqingxudehua，biaomingdajiadouhaimeididalianluogoutongjiaoliudeshiqi，neimawoyebixuhelingyifanglinshi“jueyuanceng”。

yucitongshi，chukaibubitanjiyouguanlianggerenqinggandeshiwai，yebukeyiguoduobiaoshuyiwangchanshengdeshier。

 youxierenyierzaizaiersandibiaoshuyiwangchanshengdeshierhuoyiwangdejiaowangfangshi，zhibuguojiushishuoyuanyilikefuhexing。keshilingyifangjirandoujiangchuletichufenshou，tebieshizaishinvshengaiyumianzi，yeburongyilikegennifuhexingde。

 fandaozainideposhihegongzuoyalixia，laizhaoxungennitichufenshoudedaliangyuanyin，yinciwoyehuiganjuenvshengzaifenshouzhihouhenzuojiushishuozheiyiyuangu。

 keguanshishiyedequeshineiyang，zainannvshuangfangwanliunvxingdequanguochengzhong，nvshengtongchanghuijiaoweizuo，xiairangnichuwenti，haixiaixiaotidazuo。zheilirangwomendenvshifensitigetiyi，lingyifangzaiwanliunideneishihou，jiranniyoufuhexing，nijiububizuo，weizuojiuburongyisi。

2、xianliao，ningkewugonghaiyaowuguo

 zaiwanliuquanguochengzhongdeqianqi，jibukeyiliaoqingganyebukeyiliaoyiwangdeshier，neizabanni?nandaoshuoshiliaozaoshanghao/wananhaomeng/zaiganshenme/chifanlema?huoxubingbushi!

 xianliao，gensheinenggouliao，keshixianliaodeganshouqueyinrenyousuobutongde。genyouxierenxianliao，zhenshijiuhaoxiangchaimo;dangenlingyigederenxianliao，jiuhaoxiangxiangyou。yincizaixianliaozheiyidianshang，nikeyiziwenjitarendeganshoushichaimohuanshixiangyou?

xianliaoshidetupokoushilingyifangdegerenaihao，keyimanzulingyifangdexintaiyaoqiu，lingyifangdaziranjiuyuanyigenniliaoxialai。

 duilingyifanggerenaihaodezhangwo，huoxushilaiyuanyuyuguoqudajiadejiaowangheduitadezhangwoshuiping。jiarutashuo，lingyifangyounaxiegerenaihao，niqijindouhaibulejie。

neimewozhiyoushuo，zheigenanyou(nvyou)dangdechongzubuchenggongdele，guaibudelingyifangyaoyunitichufenshou。

3、闲聊有窍门

①yougezaochengtaliuyi，queyouwushiwenminglimaodedatou

 liru，renmenyiqianzhongdeyuejihuashengkaile(dengtahuiyinghou，lingpeituzhong);zailiru，renmenyangdegougoushengbingle，daitaqunajiayiyuanmenzhenjiaoweihao。xiangjinneiyangdedatoujiujiaoweihao，hendaziran，bingyouyiqiemeiyouhuashuozhaolaohuadeyinhen，lingyifangjiandaoneiyangdexinxineirong，jiuburongyidichu。

 dangnidezhonghouqigongzuozhongzuodechongzuhaodehua，hainengrangtaxiangqiguoquroumeidesuiyue。danglingyifangyuqingweile，wanliugailvjiudadadetigaola。

②jibenjianshe1gechusedehulianwangzhanxianmian

 jibiandajiachuzaichediduanliandezhuangkuangxia，yebiewanglezhanxianmiandejibenjianshe。yibaneryan，jiushishuoduiqqshineikongjianheweixinfapengyouquandedazaochu。dangtazainideweixinpengyouquanzhong，jiandaonijingcaiqiefenfaxiangshangdeyishizhuxingdeneishihou。

 tongchanghuizhilingyifangyilv：fenshouhouyoumeiyouxiangwo?shifoubawowangle?neimekuaijiuxuduorenzhuitale，shifoulingyouxinhuanle?hewoxiangpianzhongdenagenvrenshishenmeguanlian......shifouwodangshitichufenshoudejuecebudui?

 danglingyifangyuefaneiyangyilv，yuefaneiyangdanxin，lingyifangjiuzaiqianyishidezhuangkuangxiaduinikaizhanlehenduodeshijianheganqingxiangmutouzi。jiner，gengweiwufaxuehuifangxiani，neimawanhuidehuajiuqiaoshouyidai。

huoxuyouguanweixinpengyouquandejibenjianshe，yingxiangrenmenxunzhaojishuzhuanyedexiezhu。

③bawozhulingyifangdexingquaihaodian

 dangsuoyourenliaodezishenhenganxingqudehuatitaolun，jiuhuiqingbuzijindeduoshuohua。yinci，zaixianliaodequanguochengshiyaoliuyilingyifangzheizhonggerenxingwei，bingrongheguoqudeduitadelejiehezhangwofenbianshifoulingyifangdexingquaihaodian。

 jiarushilingyifangdexingquaihaodiandehua，jiubawozhuzheiyidian，kaizhanhuatitaolundewuxiantuokuan，bingshizheyongfengqudeshejifenggehuihua，diaozhuanqilingyifangdexintai。ruguonizhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaoneibushi，wojuedejiuzaoyijinxinglezaixianliaojieduanshangdetuanjian，lingyifangduinidebumanqingxuyejiujianjiandixiaotuile。