男生怎么追妹子呢?

 nanshengzenmezhuimeizini?weidadezhexuejiabolatushuo：“ruguoaishang，jiubuyaoqingyifangguojihui。mangzhuang，kenengshinihouhuiyizhenzi;qienuo，quekenengshinihouhuiyibeizi。”neimedangyudaozijixinyidenvsheng，yinggaizenmezhuinvhaizini?zheijiuxuyaoniyongxinshulichuyitiaohaodejihualai。

首先，认定的事情要执着地去追

 qiangzheweibishishenglizhe，ershenglichizaodoushuyuyouxinxinderen。huanjuhuashuo，niruozhijieshoude，nizuihoudedaodechangchangyejiushide，zhiyaoniyouzixin。shijianzhengming：ruguojigenanshengtongshizhuiyigenvsheng，zuihoushenglideyidingshijianchidaozuihoude。nanshengzenmezhuimeizini?shouxianyidingyaojiandingzijidexinyang。ranhouzaixunxujianjindeheduifangpeiyangganqing。yibanqingkuangxiarijiushengqingbiyijianzhongqinganquandeduo。suoyi，buguanduifangshiruhedijujueni，buguanduifangshifouyounanpengyou，buguanduifangduiniyoumeiyouhaodeyinxiang，nidoubuyaofangqinuli。suowei：meiyoufuchujiumeiyouhuibao。

其次，要培养自己的高雅爱好

 nvshengyibandouhuiyouzijichongbaideouxiang，tamenguzilixihuannanrenchengshu、wenzhong、zhizhe，youshenshizhifeng。dangyigenanrenzhendeyudaozijideaiqingdeshihou，gengyoudonglishidezijikanqilaifeichangwanmei。shenzhilianpingriduishiqinghuayidoubuxieyigudenanren，douhuibianchengshiren。eraidebenxingjiushiyaoxiangtaiyangyiyangfangsheguangmang，ruguoyigeairenmeiyoushidenibianchenggenghaoderen，shuomingneigerengenbenbuzhideniai。suoyi，yaopeiyangzijidegaoyaaihao，zengjiazijidexiyinli。bingqieyaobuduandiqianghuazheiyiyoushi，rangnvshengaishangnidedutemeili。

再次，保持沉着、镇静

 nulixiangdedaodedongxi，qishizhiyaochenzhe、zhenjing，shishiqiushi，jiukeyishenbuzhiguibujuedidadaomude。“renjingerhouan，anernenghouding，dingernenghouhui，huiernenghouwu，wuernenghoude。”zheishi《daxue》zheibenshulidezherenmingyan。xianzaiderenyoushihoudoutaiguoyuzaihuzijideqingxu，jiushiyinweizheiyang，wangwangkongzhibulezijideqinggan。ruguoninengzaiqingganfangmianbaochilizhi，chayanguanse、jingguanqibian，jiuhuizhaodaobiaoxianzijidejihui。dengdaoshijiqiadang，gaichushoushijiuchushou，cainengyijuchenggong。

最后，要让自己成为女生的榜样

 nanrenyinggaizenmezhuinvhaizini?nvshengyibandouxihuanbizijiyouxiudenanren。nizhiyouxiangbanfaqiangdaziji，chengweiduifangdebangyang，zheiyangduifangcaihuijianjiandeduinizhongdu，duiniganxingqu。suoyi，yuqitaohaonvsheng，buruqiangdaziji，zuonvshengmengmeiyiqiudebangyang，rangtazhidaonikeyijitaanquangan，nikeyiyouwuqiongdemeilihexiyinli。yuqixinxinkukuquzhuita，bururangtazitouluowang，liuzhuaiqing。

 zongzhi，yaoxiangkexuedizhuinvsheng，zijijiuyaoyousuojihua，bunengzouyibukanyibu，yinweishunqiziranjiushifangqi。eryousuojihuacainenggoushuidaoqucheng。chuleyaojubeijiandingdexinnian，gengyaoqiangdaziji，youxiuziji，ranhouxiyinnvshengdeguanzhu，fanernenggouyijuchenggong。