男人追女人的六大忌讳 教你如何有效追求女生？

 nanrenzhuinvrenyidingbunengmangmugenfeng，neiyangfeichangrongyizainvrenxinlizuchengbuzhengquedejingzhundingwei，lirubeiyongtai，diaosibiaoshizheixie，zaizhuidaodegailvbuda？yinci，zheierjiangjiangnanrenzhuinvrendeliudajihui ，tishengtongguolv！

忌讳1：打造凄惨的好男人品牌形象

 ninengfouzhuyidao，zhenzhenzhengzhengchusedenvhaicongbuxiai“hao”nanren，nihaowuyiwenliuyidao。rutongwo，wohaowuyiwen，nishenpangyouyixieshifenyouyidenvyou，tamenchangchangyunilaikandanchunshi“zharen”xiangchu，erchuziyuyixieyuangu，zheizhongnvhaiquecongbuhuiduiniyouxingqu。zheidaodishiweihe?!qishibushihennan。nvhaitiaoxuannanrendeyuanyinbingbingbushi“tashibushigehaonanren”。tamenhuitiaoxuanzheixienanren，shijishangshibennengfanyingxiangbei。zuoyigehaonanrenbingbukeyixiyinzhunvhaimendexingquaihao。zuoyigehaonanrenburongyirangnvquxiangyuni。

忌讳2：尝试说动女孩

 dabufennanrenpengdaoziyiganxingqudenvhaishisuozuodeyiqie，shijishangnvshengbingbuyiweiyi，zheijiushinanrenyizhiwangtushuodongnvsheng。rangwolaigaosuni，dajiayizhimeifagenggainvhaixinlizhendui“youhuoli”zheiyidingyidexiayishi。shizhongbutaikeneng。nibunengpingshuobailede“luojixinghedadaoli”rangyigenvhaiduinizaocheng“butongxunchang”dejuede。shensishulvyixia。erzaishijizhong，dangnvhaiduidajiabingmeishenmexingqushi，dajiajiujingganlexieshenme?dajiaqidao，qiqiu，sipilailian，kexunyiqiebanfaqitugenggaitamendeniantou。zheiyidingshixiaxiace。dajiashizhongqianwanbieneiyangle。

忌讳3：寻找女人的允许

 dajiadechenjiuguannianzhong，jiaruyaorangyigenvhaixiaidajia，dajiajiuxuyaomeiyijianxiaoshidoutongguotadeyunxu，huodetaderentong。zheihaishiyigexiaxiace。nvrencongbuxiaiduitamenweishouweiwei，haoyanhaoyudenanren。biewuhuininshishenmeyisi，bushishuoweilegenghaodihuodenvhaidehaogandu，nijiuxuyaolingnvetamen。

 keshiruguonijuededuinvhaizitidaxiaojiudaibiaozhe：yizhiweinvhaizinuyanbixi，qianyibaishun。niyejiushizhongbutaikenenghuodenvhaizidehuanxin。shijishang，nvhaijiweiyanfanneiyangzuopaidenanren。jiarunicaiyiwo，bibushangnilaiwenyiwenshenpangdenvhaizi，tamenshibushixiaineiyangdenanren。

忌讳4：尝试根据钱来购到感情

 xiangyixiang，nidainvhaizichulaiyongcan，jitasongliwu，huashuyoujihui。eryucitongshitaquehuijuenierqujienayige，kandaitaburuniyibanhaodezharen?zheizainiderichangshenghuolishifoujingchangfasheng?zheishijishangshihenkendingdeshier。

 dannizuoneixieshierdeqingkuangxia，niyaotamenkandaolehenxianrandeshujuxinhao：yinweinibutaixihuanwo，yinciwoxianggenjuxiaofeilaidedaonideliuyihehaogandu。nidezheileihexianzhudewangtuqueganghaozaoshoudaonvshengde“fangyuxitongruanjian”，zheiyeshitamenqianqueneiquangan，yucitongshiganjuebeibierencaozong。shide，nvrenbazheizhongxingweishizuo“caozong”。

忌讳5：交浅言深，太早共享自身的感情观念

 lingyigetingdadebuzhengque，neibianshixuduonanhaierqujueyunvhaigongchudelichengzhizhongtaizaode，yutamen“gongxiang”zishendeganqingguannian。chusedenvhaishixiyoude，tamenlidangdedaonanrenmenyuelaiyueduodezhuanzhuli。henduorenbingmeiyishidao，dankeguanshishishi：chusedenvhaiziwushiwukebubeibierenlieruzongtimubiao。

 chusedenvhaimeiridoushibeinanrenmenshucide“dajiao”，yizhouni?jishici，yigeyueni?wushuci。dajiazaicixiang：nvhaizilisuoyingdangdeheyixienanhaieryouhuilaiwang，huanjuhuashuozaizheixiefangmiantamenbidingyouhenduogongzuojingyan。tamenlejiejiangyaochanshengnaxie。ertongguoyiliangciyouhui，niyejiujibukenaideshuo：nilejieme?shijishangwohaoxihuanni。qiahaoshineiyangmaomeideyuju，banvhaihetuile，tamenfangqini，toudoubuhui。zheishinvhaiziganjue，niyubiedenanhaieryiyang，“dianrebang”erqiewufakongzhiziji。

 biezheiyanglumang，tuiyibukaikuotiankong，shifangyali…neiyangninengfajuezhiliaoxiaoguohuigenghaoyixie。zaiganqingqianqi，chengxianzishenfengcaihenzhongyao，danqingganbiaodashang，manyidian，zaimanyidian。xuehaodongnaosisuo，erbuzhishishuangyan。youyuyoushishuangyanjiandaodebuyidingshiqueshi。

忌讳六：急切告白

 gaobai，zishenyinggaishiyigeqianmingdezishi，zaoyijichengdekeguanshishi，huoshinikongpayougaotongguolvdekeguanshishi，rangnilaizuochuzuizhongquedingdezishi。keshiyiduirenbagaobaizuowei”tonggao”huoshizuowei”zhuiqiuwanmeidewuqizhuangbei”。

 nanrenzhuinvrendeliudajihuili，“neiyige…woaini，nikeyizuowodenvpengyoume”nilejieshiduoshaonvshengxinlideniantoushishama?“wogennibushihenshuba?”huoshi”dajiajinjinhenyibandehaopengyou，wozenmezhidaoshibuyi?”